Well I have been hobbying for some time now, and had forgotten how wonderful these ladies make these experiences for us. Today I had a less than recommended encounter with a coworker and let’s just say that it reminded how spoiled I have become. Believe it or not gentlemen not every woman has perfectly smooth legs, or manicures her personal area, or even smells as wonderfully as these ladies do. Lets not even get into the actual performance of the encounter.

Thus, ladies please allow me to thank you for spoiling me over the past 10 years or so that I have been hobbying.

although I have found strippers to be well groomed and usually sexually adept as well.

That games does however have a completely different set of rules '

All in all - providers for me and thank you very much.

I'm just to damned busy to attempt to maintain relationships.

And the familiarity of such relationships most often yields a corresponding decrease in service level anyway '

How do you EVER end up with one?  They are like impossible other than the lap/ table/ Champagne Room contact.

Some of them anyway..Of course it might cost more to train a civvy than a weekly visit to your fav provider ...Depends on whether you want more than once a week..

several years ago in Atlanta. This dancer & I somehow hit it off. She was the one thin, tight-butt brunette in the place. We talked a lot, I bought a few lap dances, somehow agreed for her to come back to my place when she got off at 3:00 AM. Went back to hotel (stopped at ATM) & wondered. But about 3:30 knock at my door & there she was. Had rent/boyfriend in jail problems & needed the cash. Had a great time, she was pretty hot performance-wise. Note: always have some protection (covers) with you. She didn't (another sign it really was spontaneous) & it wouldn't have happened otherwise. She was pretty great (I was pretty drunk), but I did score with a strip club dancer!

Hobby gives me access to 20+ years younger hot women who I never could get otherwise but recent experiences with several MILFs (10+ years younger, one cheating wive (perverse pleasure) and other single MILF) remind me how fun f-ing can be.  Nothing is more fun than making a horny MILF convulse with multiple O's as my uncovered member pounds her squishingly wet love nest (yes I said it) as she screams like a bitch in heat.  The other perverse pleasure is leaving the no-tell-motel with soaking wet sheets for the maid to envy (yes I said that too).  When has a provider you've been with left a giant wet spot from multiple O's?

MILFs are the BEST!!!!!LOL

I have arranged encounters at times.  Really hit or miss.  I'll sometimes take the chance with a dancer that I have come to see a few times.  A simple 'do you work outside the club?' question can lead to possible negotiations.  If not, it's not a question that'll get you arrested.

And if you have a good rapport with the lady, it'll not get you beat up and thrown out on your ass.

Though I would really love to hear GoodTimingMan's suggestions too. =)