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Question for the gentlemen and providers - pros vs. cons of 2 girl providersregular_smile
sassynovabbw See my TER Reviews 8554 reads
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Gentlemen and other providers, I have a question.  I have been asked by a couple of clients whether or not I have a female friend to play with, which raised the questions - how would this change the service I provide?  Also, how would this change the way my service is viewed by clients who prefer to view me as a paid girlfriend?  We all know the clients who prefer to believe they are the 'only one', and I'm wondering what would happen if I start advertising that I am willing to book appointments with another woman.  So - since many of you have far more experience than I do about such things, I would appreciate your input and words of wisdom....

The smart way to handle this so you don't upset clients who think you are their 'only one' is to not advertise that you are willing to do 2 girl shows. Just do them for the clients that request them. That way you don't tick off those clients, but you still get to please the other ones.
Just my .02
Rick2

To me the real question is instead if you ever play with the girlfriend without a client.  If the answer is yes, then the difference in dynamics will be clear.  If not, then there will be no difference in the service you provide.  Most straight girls are comfortable with some additional female contact, but its not the same as when the ladies are bi.

Consider for a second reversing the genders: you see two guys back to back; how would either session be different if you'd seen them both at the same time?  The guys may also both have seen another lady right after seeing you - how would it have been different if they had seen you both together?

My personal preference: its all about the chemistry of the connection, be it singles, doubles, or groups.  But the enhanced physical dynamics of a group coupling can simply not be denied.

 -- Deep'ly likely to get flamed' Heat

Actually, I believe you pose a good question.  And the answer is that we have played together without being with a client.  This particular woman is a friend and she has been wanting to see clients together, which would be lots of fun for me, but I merely wanted to be sensitive to those clients of mine who are a bit more traditional and might find it distasteful.  

But yes, we do enjoy being together, so I can definitely see how it would add to the dynamic with a client.  Of course, then the next big question is what kind of rate we should quote.  I want to be fair to my clients, but I'm sure it should be more than if it were just me alone, or am I wrong?

Clearly: "talk".  Communication is the hardest part of any get together, made more complex by the additional third...
...only solution is to talk ahead with each person about expectations, hopes, fears, and (obviously my favorite) desires.

As to cost?  I've never found the math all that hard...simply cost per hour times number of people, minus the multi-hour discount, my frequent flyer bonus card, and my AARP senior discount.  This presumes that the 2nd is really an equivilant provider; sometimes they are along as a surprise present, sometimes THEY are the one paying, and sometimes its just a favor from one friend to another.
  Bottom line: price for success, focusing on having MORE fun and creating a memorable time relected upon with smiles by everyone.

Which reminds me I'm off to have some fun today!  

 -- Deep Heat

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