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This has been a prob in DC for quite some time. Your experience is nothing new nor is it in any way specific to you.

posting a diatribe on our board.  Frankly whether it is true or not, as a hobbyist with an impeccable reputation, who has only had to cancel on short notice extremely rarely and always compensated the lady at her full rate,   I find the rant offensive.  

Awwww poor guy  
Sorry you feel that way but I have a opinion and have the right to speak. Truth hurts I guess
Not all guys are in the BS category because I do have my guys who are true to their word but majority of guys in the area do play games. Even if I don't get answers at least any girl who does read this post they can at least think twice before they waste there time.  Good day!

Lol good to know

Many local providers are contacting regulars for deals. They do this a lot when visitors show up. Guys are getting a lot of unsolicited texts and emails from providers asking "when can you see me".

That's unfortunate to hear because I was thinking of visiting DC.

First if all, DC is a great town for the hobby!  Great, respectful and awesome clients who are generous, considerate and appreciative!  I have worked here for eons, rarely tour!  Sorry, that you had bad luck here, but not indicative of the wonderful gentlemen here.

Mya, I hear your pain.  HOWEVER, it amazes me how providers conveniently transfer between this is a "business" to "I don't appreciate the NCNS..my feelings are hurt."   I’ve been doing this a long time and NCNS (on both sides of the equation); no AA men rule/s; tire kickers; etc. etc. are par for the course and it comes with the territory.

Mya, you've been traveling to DC for sometime now.  How do I know cause I tried to contact you in your early days of traveling here and you didn't even answer on more than one occassion.  

Pussy is pussy... but you do have to deal with the woman it's attached to.

I'm holding out til you pay us.

What I posted was for bp providers giving out free services. They go crazy over rich clients.

What good is a rich client if you have to give it to him for free!  Just not understanding the logic, BP or not!  Maybe I am missing your point!

I totally agree with you Mya 100%.

How am I just now hearing about this? lol

There are provider only boards where things like this could be discussed, but TER is not really the place to bash hobbyist.

You might be too, but after a while those freebies won't be able to support her habit.

Except to laugh.  

What good is someone rich if you are giving it to him for free!  I give discounts during slow months, I give OTC time to clients who have become friends! Just the OPs statement made no sense!

I believe you.

They often don't make sence.

I can never understand half of what your attempting to say in your post.

Clearly not all them, but many of them are very new and have not had any guidance.  

Reap my posts then read the posts I respond to, then reread my post.

I know it doesn't matter after the fact, I don't see many second dates, coming from a freebie.

Is not a class that many girls (I say girls, because most of them have not reached the maturity level of a lady), who get started on BP have taken.  

They only talk money, that's why it makes no sense.

While I've heard that DC doesn't have a great reputation, I would expect that NCNS is not a unique problem here. It's real easy for non-local ladies and guys to bash DC but remember that there are many good hobbyists here who enjoy seeing touring ladies.  

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....until I fall asleep before calling up a previously paying client to give out free "box" lunches.

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it's embarrassingly weak.

I was going to post an ISO for freebie.

I would know what you meant by this last statement in your post.  

I still have no idea what your trying to say.

Are you so weak that you think you have to run game on ladies that your paying to have sex with you?

I have a penis means I think like a male. Keep in mind there are no teams here... Unless you happen to be married to a provider. Then you and her might be on the same team.

Was sugar daddying on BP, we both commented with pretty much the same answers.

give you some feedback, that your attitude was hurting you with your target audience -  that point was lost apparently -    whatever   -    

a lady gives me any negative attitude while conversing.  
Mya, I am not saying you do this and I have never contacted you.  
Last night I made an appointment with a new to DC lady. When I contacted her to get the address so I could be on my way, she gave me some attitude. By experience, I already know there is a 95% chance I will have a bad time. I therefore cancelled the appointment and moved on, calling another provider. In some cases I just tell them "ok, goodbye."

ot sure if you visit often Mya, but sometimes with the big cities you have to visit a few times so that the guys get used to seeing your name. I know girls think a guy will jump , thinking that a visiting provider might only visit that one time. In my touring experience guys like to see a girl coming at least once a month, with a good reputation and sticking to her travel plans.  

. . .rarely helps.  I suspect that many (like me) will avoid this one.  There are simply too many great, positive ladies in the area to see.

I've been playing in DC pretty regularly for almost a year along with other major cities (Nyc, Boston, Chicago etc) and don't think it has some crazy number of BS or NCNS gentleman.  I think a lot of it is what you make it.  Are you advertising for your visit well in advance?  Staying in upscale easy areas?  Asking for references?  

Julia,

ho are you calling a hood rat- because i hope its not me. Truly if you read my reviews; i wouldn't be having great reviews if i was a hood rat... Coming from someone who is anonymous i think you need to check your self out the door

I do come here often but maybe im just having a bad time.. Thanks doll

Your right.. I will give it a break

just because he thinks that way doesnt mean everyone will.  

some must be happy.

in this entire thread, so you must not be stupid.

This probably only happens to me.
If I can't not keep an I appointment and have to cancel is because what has just come up can't wait and it is more important. It could be family or work mostly. Now it is one's responsibility to try the  best possible to keep an appointment, but if at one point one can't do it, it would be stupid enough give the hobby priority. In such cases I quickly contact the provider to explain and apologize or to pay a cancellation fee if any.

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I have to cancel this conversation.

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you've modified your original post, so I can only glean what you said from the replies.
I've never met you, but you did cancel on me last year 2 hrs before a scheduled appt. in a manner I hadn't exerienced before or since.  Wasn't a NCNS but was still a bummer.  It did help toughen me up a bit as a hobbiest though, and I learned to apply the "move on" adage

I do too, I never have problems in the Dmv maybe it just wasn't good for you but that is one of my fav places to go! I was just there and did great! I have lots of regulars and the clients are so nice and very generous! I never have problems here...

Ask anybody who works with Members of Congress, you NEVER assume they will show-up, just the opposite.  You always have a contingency plan for a no-show.

Understandable but 2 hours is a lot better then 5 mins or 30 mins which is why I'm referring too when I mention last minute.  
If someone gives me 2 hours then that's fine (I can potentially book someone) but 1 hour like some people do (in all cities) is not enough tim

This is TER, not okCupid.  I thinks you have the wrong web site.

She's already taken the time to get ready for you, physically and mentally.  Please don't tell me you cancel an hour before and think you haven't ruined her week/your?  That's not a good hobbyist.

Make it a looooong break!!!

Granted you have a history of good ratings.  But given your/this negative post and that recent poor rating you may be suffering burn out.