I just recieved an e-mail from a lady (who is not important) asking for a loan that I have not seen in a very long time or in fact been in the area. My point is that most of us want to be thier savior in time of need, but keep in mind these 2 things:
1. Can I afford it and be comfortable with it if the loan is not repaid?
2. Think with the big head, not the little one!!
A friend of mine gave me this advise, only make loans to family. And if they dont pay it back, you can whip thier butt and it is called discipline. If you whip your friend's butt, it is called assault. LOL!
I am not saying not to help a lady when she is down, just think it thru.
Please don't PM me, I dont have VIP status at this time.
I have been ask for loans a couple times in the past, but when she asked for the loans she made sure to say if I were to give her the loan she could either pay me back in cash or my next appt would be no charge and the repayment option would be up to me. I had to trust that I would see her again but it ended up working out just fine me.
I got a call from a provider who was in New York City working, and have been mugged at 2 am. Got her purse stolen and broke her nose and arm. I had her send me a phot from the emergency room taken by the staff. I then bought her a airplane ticket back to Atlanta where she lived. Knew I would never get paid back. BUT I did. She called and told me to buy her another ticket to Arizona where I live and she spent the 3 day weekend with me.
In her email she said she is stranded in the Phillipines. Called a mutual friend and found she is well and never been to Phillipines. Digging deeper, the email appears to be sent from her. But was not, it is really being sent from the phillipines. It is a SCAM. I got an email about a month ago from our net security about web cam SCAMS phillipines, gents doing webcam sex and then the say the sessions were recorded. Pay up or they send to family, friends and etc.
I guess now they expanded to hacking e-mail accounts and sending emails too!
I also received a email ,from a provider asking for a loan..with some story that had her in another country..etc,etc..
...to an ATF who i knew had hit some significant unexpected expenses (medical, not sex related). Had never really considered the lack of medical insurance aspect of this industry before that, not a good thing. She actually gratiously declined which only affirmed the reasons I trusted her in the first place.
But as a policy dude, no. Not a good idea if only because ladies exit this industry so often and often without warning. I was willing to consider the situation above a gift if necessary, but very much an exception. And have never had a provider ask.
This happened to me............ She wanted me to sign for an Apartment Agreement so she could "find" other girls in her field. This happened right after the deed so she could try to sucker me in. She has called me several times since but I told her to leave me alone.
I've given actual donations, to an ATF- sometimes, it's hard not to make an actual connection
IF and it is a big IF, you ever decide to do something like this in this arena, just accept that you might (likely will...)be throwing your money away.
It really comes down to your relationship with the provider and it is entirely a gut call.
I have done it once, and it worked fine. But then I had seen her multiple times and knew more about her, so when the situation arose, it seemed to be legit and fortunately for me was. But normally... no! If you only know her from a couple sessions, don't be a fool.
a $1 and tell her you have 1,999 other friends who can help her out.
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