How often do we check TER, eros, discussion board, reviews, pics, etc???
How many of you/us would admit to being an SA (sexual addict)?    I ask not to judge, believe me- not at all but I think that perhaps I have come to my own realization recently. Discuss amongst ourselves, please!!

What in the HELL is this all about?> Are you feeling guilty or what? Get a life!!!!   EOM

It's an addiction I've been trying to control for more than 25 years.  I wish I could control it, but I can't.  One mistake and a life can be ruined.  No matter how much we call this a "hobby," it's dangerous, I've wasted I don't know how many tens of thousands of dollars, and it makes me feel dark inside.

Yeah, I admit that I'm an addict. Talked about that very thing today. I can't get enough of it and now I'm having withdrawal symptoms.

I say we have a high sexual appetite. Before I became Sexycarolina I had gone without sex for 5 years! I am making up for it!! I don't have a boyfriend and when I did date a few years ago..When I did have sex a few times...Men asked me, "Are you OK?" I felt I could not be my sensual self..and let it all out...Then a miracle..I just wanted to make some cash..never had ever been in the adult sex playground..and I loved it! I felt I should have paid my first client. I have no regrets..Granted I am on a different side of the coin..BUT I get horny, excited, anticipate! I hate to go without!!! If you can't get it at home..which I can't I depend on you fellas to help this little sexycarolina out!!! If it gets to you..take a break..But I will never regret my choices and I thank all of you for making this hobby sensual, exciting and hot sexy fun!!

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SexyC

RElax Polecat, just food for thought.  It dawned upon me recently that, as we celebrate certain members amazing triumphs into the 300's, people "TOFTT", that the term "hobbyist" is a misnomer for addict. I believe that I am one, perhaps you are not.  Thanks for your "get a life" comment -- it demonstrates a tremendous amount of insight.

a crack or heroin addiction!!

for those that dabble a bit but don't feel much compulsion about it - like social drinkers who don't overdo it.  However, I suspect that those are very few - and much less likely to be a part of these discussion boards.

I'm not one of those, however.  I am an SA

Depends on what makes you happy. Some people have other things give them satisfaction in life. For others it is sex. These forums should be used to help you save time for meeting prospects for the hobby.

In a perfect world were folks did not have to work, people would have sex all the time, at least that is what I do when I go on vacation.

Add up the time and money you've spent in the last year in this milieu.  If it were alchohol or cocaine that you had spent all your resources on, you'd be considered an addict, would you not?

Sex is something that is a natural body function. Alchohol and drugs are something that are bad for the body. Bottom line if we men don't fuck we will evently start having wet dreams again, soaking the bed, that is why it is natural.