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"severe personal issues"
NattyBoh68 29 Reviews 342 reads
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If by "severe personal issues" you mean anything that risks the health of anyone participating in the hobby I feel that there would be a moral obligation to come forward. First I would hope that the Provider would discreetly leave and be open enough to contact the gentleman she has seen. There are some health risks here and we all do what we can to minimize that. There is a responsibility for both the ladies and gentleman here.

So the old man rises to whine.  

Where does your responsibility as a poster and a reviewer end and begin?  
What if you see a friend post a review of a lady that you know and have specific knowledge that she has "severe personal issues" that could put each of us and all of us at risk"?  
Do you keep quiet and let newbies and others put themselves at risk?  
Do you post under that review giving a counter point?  
Do you post here on the VIP side and discuss it fully and openly?  
or do you just keep quiet and post jokes??  
 
Where do we strike the balance of issuing and stating the truth and stay within the boundaries of not starting a food fight?  

 
Comments and believe it or not guidance is requested.  
 
 
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Personnel issues should in most cases kept private.  As for the risk, we all know the risks.  You could write a review, just make sure you follow the guidelines

If your a trained professional you do have a greater duty to do what your training indicates. If your just someone seeing or hearing about (i.e. hearsay) sketchy behavior you are in a dammed if you do dammed if you dont situation.
Posting a review may be the best option. Any sort of flame on the board will draw a wrath of s--t upon you and it'll get out of control lickity split for sure.  
Not great solutions as any provider with a reasonably good chance of harming or putting anyone at risk needs to be exposed, but proper execution of this task may not be so easy.

If by "severe personal issues" you mean anything that risks the health of anyone participating in the hobby I feel that there would be a moral obligation to come forward. First I would hope that the Provider would discreetly leave and be open enough to contact the gentleman she has seen. There are some health risks here and we all do what we can to minimize that. There is a responsibility for both the ladies and gentleman here.

But I am unsure how you would post "under" a review here.Do you mean under a"mini review" that appears on the board?   If not I am not sure how you would respond.     AS for "the VIP side" as near as I can tell this board does not have one.  There is a reviewer's board. You are supposed to post several reviews here before gaining access but perhaps those that run this board would make an exception for you given your record of service to the community in general.
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The potential for food fights is reduced here because of the moderation You might want to take discussions like these to less formal forums that exist in the community.    Such discussions take place there all the time.

But it is good to see you and your thoughts here

I think it definitely falls in the "it depends" category.
--How old is your information?  This business changes people--sometimes for the better, sometimes for the worse.  Is what you knew "then" still accurate now?
--Is it appropriate to all or just in certain situations?  E.g.:  her incall is seriously unsafe but outcall is OK.
--Is the cure worse than the disease?  It's very easy to slander someone, and not everything posted on boards like this is true.  There have been ladies' careers ruined by such comments--sometimes true, sometimes not.  Once out there it can not easily be retracted--bad rumors are like zombies.

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