Its just a label and it seems that ATF means different things to different people. So what is it for you?

Let me as the the other side of the coin ...   Do providers have ATFs???    In the "just a label' sense ... and in the 'memorable, remarkable, and exclusive?|" ?

One can have some fun with this question. But it really is kinda complex. At least for me.
I mean I have my Chicago ATF...NY ATF...LA ATF  my current ATF....my historic ATF...etc...

If I was asked, "if you could only have one more date, who would it be with?" The answer to that question is my ATF friend. She was one of my earlier experiences 2+ years ago, and I continue to see her regularly. Every session is awesome whether it is two hours long or eight hours long. We have even gone hiking several times as very platonic friends. I don't see her exclusively any more than I listen to my ATF song endlessly or eat my ATF ice cream at every opportunity. It is truly gratifying to know before hand that the fantasy, friendship and frolicking of tomorrow will be great. That makes her my "favorite". I certainly don't consider her "labeled" in any derogatory way. She means a great deal to me personally, but both of us know quite well the rules of this game. Interesting question that I'm sure will elicit many and varied responses.

I have a group of guys and  several female clients who would classify.  They have been doing business with me for years. They are consistent, respectful, trustworthy and honorable.  

My all time favorite (ATF) is the woman whom I'd prefer to give my roses; she is one of my earlier experiences; when she visits I see her; and I'm committed to her clients list. I have one  ATF, yet strive to sustain, at least, two favorites. When my ATF is away, I hope my favorites are available. When both are unavailable, I sometime gamble with finding another potential favorite.  

Honestly, it means nothing to ME personally.  I personally don't even use that word, as I wouldn't know where to fit it in my style of hobbying. Now that doesn't mean I don't repeat. I have in the past and will in the future, but that's what I call them.... "repeats"

the term ATF is a misnomer..i prefer just favorite..my favorites simply give me a woody every time i think of them..i can never really get enough of them and look forward to always seeing them again and again..the ladies always have their favorites..the guys they almost have to see to make their trip complete..it might just be a hobby..but personal feelings always tend to interfere with the business ends of things..after all..we are all normal..are'nt we?...

With all your 9/9 reviews Megan I would bet you are a "memorable, remarkable, and exclusive" provider to most of your fans.

I agree with some of the others.  It probably does mean different things to different people.  Kayakid's concept of "if you had only one to see" makes sense.  I also think that having multiple ATFs simultaneously is oxymoronic, or perhaps only hyperbolic.  I think, like many things, it becomes a shorthand, or label, if you will, but not in a negative way, as many labels are deemed.  When someone uses the term, I take it to mean that he had a great connection, a great experience.  So if a provider is someones ATF, that gets my attention and makes me think she must be really good in some way.  

well said indeed!  

Thank You!!!

I absolutely do! And, it's definitely regarding the *specific person*..

One, who I saw for years, who stopped coming to DC last summer (we still keep in touch), and another, who I started seeing once my primary left town; I see her a lot more, but it's worth it

1) A provider that I have good sexual chemistry with. No need for blue or yellow pills.
2) Someone who I can call on a whim and ask if she is available and usually accommodates me.
3) Someone I see regularly. At the very least twice a week.
4) Someone who gives references quickly and honestly, with no backlash about her losing business.

I have had a few regulars in last 11 yrs myself.. Krystal Klear, Sierra Love...just to name a few...

My ATF isn't always the person I call, but she is the first to my mind when I'm thinking about a little adventure.  I doubt i'm very memorable to her, but each time I've seen her she has treated me like a king, with good chemsitry during the session, and I'm always anxious to return, even though I know it will be awhile before my schedule allows for that.  It's just a consistently excellent experience.

But be careful who calls you ATF...

I have my favorite experiences, though I could not possibly label them as ATF. Perhaps ATF this month...MD

It would be safe to say that this just boils down to what a individuals meaning of ATF is. Like you, I have a great fondness for several of my acquaintances.

Hopefully he sees your post

Thank you!!

i suppose in this world there are two people who meet and get along and have genuine mutual fondness for each other. Particularly for the hobbyist to consider her a favorite. I never get that feeling.

For me, it's the lady that year after year was what the name implies:  my favorite.  Exclusive from either direction?  No, but She is the one I returned to until she retired.