Gentleman need a reminder as well to NOT post the name of the hotels where the meeting took place.  

Recently this individual put the name and location of the hotel!! SMH. Fortunately I was able to catch it quick and DEMAND to edit that part of the review. I didn't like the context of the review at all but oh well, that's how that person talk so it's nothing I can do about. Location was changed fortunately to "upscale hotel" .

Discretion gentleman.. goes both ways.  

 
Happy Hump Day!

Been dealing more and more with both issues!  Gentleman thinking they can screen with simply their TER handle, or wanting to meet for coffee as a screening tool!  One gentleman wanted to meet for coffee and expose his penis to prove he was not LE.

Wtf is going on?  Screening is in the interest of both parties, lest we forget! Your need for discretion is no greater then my need for safety.  Why would anyone see a lady who does not screen is beyond me!  

"Screen like if your life depends of it... because it does!"  

Words I live by every. single. day.  

V~

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Exposing his penis after you two met, even in a public place, still would've meant nothing! Wow. Can't believe someone thought that would be effective.

Not to offend as I am new and have yet to take a dive into the hobby but why would you change up screening methodology often?

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Twenty years in the hobby you run into some things.
A number of years ago, not this incarnation, one of the ladies I saw frequently screened and met the 'client' in a public place and went with him to his room. Another man was hiding in the bathroom and they both raped her. Fortunately for those guys I did not find out in time to catch them, they went back to Chicago.  
There is a reason for the screening and even then it doesn't always work. SO if the ladies have a process FOLLOW IT. Just because they are providers doesn't mean rape is not traumatic. And there have been enough instances in the news of provider deaths over the years.  
The reason I haven't seen some of these ladies is BECAUSE I can't meet their criteria. When I do, I'll try to see them.

We are all in this together and should be reminded of the need for certain "rules".

Me thinks your post and the ensuing responses are due to an "influx" of newer hobbyists who seemingly don't do their homework and see they way things are done.

These "millennials" don't think the rules apply to them. Unfortunately, I have seen this a whole lot in my everyday business and it still amazes me how some of these "younger" people think they should just be allowed to have their way, damn the rules, and do things their way.

There is no attention paid to their actions and how it may affect others. There is no thought process on their part to keep in mind that there are ramifications and responses to their actions that may put other people in harm's way (i. e. - putting a hotel name in a review).

I know some of the PM's I receive are from these types of individuals as they share a similar pattern to their posts here on the boards. Expecting detailed information not found in reviews and wanting other info on ladies is the recurring theme. I simply reply that I do not share information about other people. My reviews stand on their own and my response usually includes that statement and is followed by "you should book an appointment and go find out for yourself".

(slowly shaking my head side-to-side).......Rookies.

You are right, to a certain degree but happening with older hobbiests , as well.  The gentleman, who wanted to be screened with his alias TER handle, has been on the boards for a while, as has the gentleman wanting to expose himself for me, at Starbucks.  Neither is a newbie nor millennial, in this case just clueless.

It is a growing trend here and not sure why.  Less and less gentlemen understand the screening is for their safety as well.  I just don't get it.  We all  have so much to lose.  Shaking my head, as well.

Maybe my choice of the term "millennial" is because of my experiences outside the hobby. Clueless, as you correctly point out, can cover a wider variety of individuals and not be so limiting as my terminology. All hobbyists would then be included. Let's go with your term, it's better.

We can call them anything we want but the basic premise of guys not thinking with their big head and thinking things through is still there. Really, this guy who wants to expose himself to you at Starbucks has CLEARLY not thought of this one simple fact (among many others): security cameras are everywhere !!! ....sheesh !!!

People like those that you and other ladies describe are the types that make me want to go up to them and smack them in the back of their head.....or......knock on their forehead and ask, "hey McFly, anyone home?".

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Every day there's more and more of these guys leaving the location with a pair of silver accessories.
That's what happens when they do this type of things.

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While I love reading about all these "bone-head" things some guys do, it's the lady who stays vigilant who gets my business.

 
Guys ..... understanding WHY a lady screens should be a no brainer. It's for your safety as well as hers. I held out against going to P411 for an account a really long time. I can honestly say now, after 8 months of membership, the benefits far outweigh the potential negatives. It has made my life so much easier when it comes to screening.

 
Guys ..... learn from the examples that a few ladies have been gracious enough to provide. See what NOT TO DO !!!

 
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