So I had a session with one of my favorite Asians yesterday and it got to me thinking of a provider I met years ago.  She was part of a crew of providers who had an incall location in the Dupont circle area.  They had a sparsely furnitured apartment that was damn near in walking distance to my Downtown office (how convenient).  I was a regular up until the scheduler/owner retired and disbanded the group.

As it would happen they added a new lady to the crew who happen to be a sexy Asian.  So I call and arrange the appointment.  Head on over and am greeted by a very lovely lady.  Long story short we do the deed in a most memorable way and a nice vibe developed.

Now here is the missed opportunity.  As we are in the afterglow she says.....

"....look I'm new to this and I'm not in it for the long-term.  I actually and simply want to meet a nice guy and friend with benefits.  We can get together on occassion and do a movie, dinner, etc; and you can provide "the fee" as you see fit and it's really not even necessary as my primary goal is a friend with benefits as I'm kinda lonely at this point in my life......."

Huh?!?!?!  WHAT?!?!?!  REALLY?!?!?!  Am I really hearing this (I'm thinking to myself)?!?!?!

I play it cool, on the exterior, and say sure lets give it a try.  That same weekend we got together and went to a concert and dinner. Got to her place and had wonderful, sensual rest of the evening. I stayed to wee hours in the morning and even left $200 on the dresser.

Despite the good time we had the thing that stuck in my mind was her comment "...I'm at  a lonely place/point in my life...."  That had me nervous and wondering where this could end up..negatively.  Per that thought we never went out again.  We talked on the phone a couple of times but nothing more as I avoided commiting to a return date and things just fizzeled.

Now everytime I'm with an Asian I think of that opportunity and wonder if I overreacted?!?!  

Damn, I can use a situation like that right about now...