I am looking for a provider to provide a bbbj and/or sex without a condom.  Money is not an issue for me.  I'm looking at an hour long session but I could go 30 or 15 minutes as well.  I live in Northern VA and I can drive to wherever in NOVA or DC.  If you know anyone that can do these things please let me know.  Thanks.

Let me know who you see, so I can avoid them and alert everyone to do the same...

Why exactly is it a death wish?

Cop or clown?  I smell something sizzling...

...I've been doing this a long time.  I have not once been flat offered BBFS.  I have never asked for BBFS.  Yet I keep reading all these anecdotes that it happens on a  regular basis.

I dont know what reliable metrics there could be to prove this, but just very hard for me to believe.

And as for papework,,,,fuck that!  Too many opportunities for fuck ups.  I saw an interview of this newbie guy to the porn industry.  He said that whole testing thing is bullshit.  While you must be tested and all that he said he kept an STD (clamedia, ghono, etc).  He said porn stars more likely have STDs than not.

And know the shill types will say well what level star are you talking about?  The lower level performers go through that not the Tera Patrick level stars.  Fuck that...too much risk at any level.

http://www.bloomberg.com/news/2011-10-03/oral-sex-may-cause-virus-linked-throat-cancer-in-men-study.html

http://articles.latimes.com/2012/jan/27/health/la-he-oral-hpv-20120127

with this post. Being a newbie and bringing up a taboo subject right out of the gate......are you nuts?

Incidently, BBFS goes on quite a bit in this world and most of these guys know it. They just wont admit it. I have had a few offers and the old adage is....."if she's doing it for you, she's doing it for others". And this was told to me by a very popular DC escort from years ago.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/poll/pollArchive.asp

According to this poll archive almost 50% have enjoyed BBFS and 75% enjoyed BBBJ with providers.

The truth is there is a lot of fear mongering.

Most providers offer BBFS if client shares paperwork, but no one wants to admit and hurt their resume openly.

This is same as porn industry.  Show paperwork, enjoy BBFS,

No paperwork, no BBFS.  

There is a syphilis out break in the porno industry. Would not be surprised if it hits the hobby with so many people doing bbfs with escorts and some of them being porn stars.

..... oh and the whole incubation period business with certain std's etc etc

The 1st producer share some of that blame as well (relating 2 Mr. Marcus story ). He should ask for the full report accord to public reports

Sad just sad...

Ok yes you can catch STD from BBBJ but really chances are MUCH MUCH higher and riskier with unprotected sex. Yeah yeah and blah blah, to each their own, but I really think a person has to be an idiot to take part in unprotected sex. Yeah go see a provider after shes let a few other guys pork her. Sounds yummy right?

And I'm sorry just because a provider has great reviews doesn't guarantee her health. Yes a BBbJ can be tricky but really AIDS is not a joke and not fun. My friend works in a doctors office in Northern Virginia and she has told me that I would be amazed at the number of people that come in with HIV or full blown AIdS. It sucks!!

It is NOT the same as having unprotected sex with your civvie girlfriend. Providers risks are HIgHEr, much higher. Think about it. I mean it's that important for you to stick your hot dog into her pot? Are you then going to abstain for months to get checked at least twice? Sorry but a common comment or thought from people that have AIDS or HIV is " I never thought it would happen to me".

There really isn't an argument that will make me change my opinion or mind. And if someone feels passionately different then I do on this subject, I have to think that they are cool with it. Take your chances sure! I mean hey maybe you will get Lucky and get Herpes instead!!!!

Exactly! And yes someone WOULD go thru the trouble and has. And the paperwork could be anyone's. We don't know each others real names here. There are lots of ways to get around the truth.

And YOU still want BAREBACK?? Why?? With blowjobs many providers follow the steps that the girls follow at the Nevada brothels. It helps some but still NOT foolproof.

to his clown question. He has gotta be 15 if he doesn't understand the risks.

If he is truly 15, he shouldn't be even on this board..

I believe it! There are a lot of desperate people out there. And though she is stupid , she's "smart" enough to wait TO BE Asked first. There are Tons of working girls in this world. Sadly it's more common then people think. It doesn't have to be though! For what!!

what are the boards for if not to educated those less knowledgeable.
i mean its common sense, but i bring out the peace post..
hopefully he'll learn his lesson thru posts not doctors visits.

hey newb...rule..atleast ask for papers or something dont be completely blind to the hazards of bbfs

You need to educated yourself on the risk of BBFS. Sometimes a few articles and websites are enough to deter your BBFS lifestyle. You are paying strangers to have sex with, and anyone with a few dollars can have sex with a stranger. The least thing you can do is use a cover for vaginal sex. If you read the label on condoms, it says it prevents STD's. Without a condom, your chances of being infected with an STD increases.

As for BBBJ, please search the threads about the percentages and different types of STD's as it relates to different sexual acts such as anal, CIM, or unprotected vaginal sex. You can still get an STD from a BBBJ, but the risk are not the same as with BBFS.

Please google some STD images, and see how some STD infect the body. Your chances of getting an STD, HIV, and AIDS significantly increases if you have BBFS. Please educated yourself.

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I have met two girls on dates (they are not escorts) who admitted to me that they had Herpes. When I asked how they got it they told me it was from the guy giving them oral..I was a coward and never called them back.

I get tested monthly and everytime I show a non porn star escort my test(with my Driver's license) she never looks at it and says "I don't do bareback". My response is always the same "I did not ask you for bareback but you should at least look at my test because I read in your reviews that you do bbbj."

And most of them still ignore looking at my test. It just boogles my mind.

R