Would any of you guys have sex with a provider who is hiv + .   I have never met a person who has the disease.   How often do you guys get tested for it?  And are you afraid of getting it?

I would never have a session with someone I knew was HIV+ -- way too much risk there.  Having said that, do I really know that none of the ladies I have seen in my travels are infected - No.  

Manageable risk - highly reviewed ladies who are not too wild or into heavy drinking or drugs (these can lead to impaired thinking with either clients or civies); NO UNCOVERED INTERCOURSE (or any contact with someone who has a review indicating BBFS), oral only.  Yes, I know that HIV can be passed orally, but my readings indicate it is rare - so managed risk.

Wash thoroughly before and after; expect same from lady.

I get tested every 6 months or so, using anonymous testing sites.

Just my .02 on this matter.

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I don't know why you created this thread. The obvious answer is no. Once your infected with HIV, your hobbying days and personal life takes a heavy toll. HIV medications are very expensive to maintain.

I'm not sure what kind of response your expecting, but, no hobbyist want to visit a provider that has HIV, or any sexually transmitted diseases. Also, I'm not sure how a hobbyist would even know that the provider has HIV, unless the physical symptoms are there. When you hobby, there is always a chance of contracting a sexually transmitted disease.

I get tested once every four months. I use to get tested once every two months, but that dude with the MD degree told me its not necessary. The reason for this is, some sexually transmitted diseases have different incubation periods, and will not show up on the results until a few months later. For example, if I got tested on July, and the test results was negative for HIV, AIDS, and all sexually transmitted disease, that does not mean that I will be negative the next month or the following month.

When I get my results back for a urine and blood test, that dude with the MD degree always explains to me that even though the results are negative at the moment, some sexually transmitted diseases have different incubation periods. Also, the urine test can give you the results for some STD, and the results will be sooner. The blood test will give you the results of HIV, AIDS, and other STD, but the results take a week longer.

Anyhow, everything you do in life always has a risk and reward factor. If you want to be safe when hobbying, then there are ways minimize your chances of contracting an STD. I asked my doctor about my DATY, and he told me to place saran wrap on her pussy if I wanted to be cautious. First time I heard that before, and I told him what's the point. Anyhow, that is one way of minimizing an STD contraction. Hope that helps.

The percentages of contracting HIV and AIDS for BBBJ is extremely low, and there is only a few cases that was documented. What you want to avoid is Bare Back vaginal and greek sex. BBBJ, DATY, and DFK has some risk, but not as high. Also, the chances of contracting certain types of STD's is minimal for BBBJ, DATY, and DFK. That doesn't mean that the STD is not exempt from these sexual acts, because you can still get it.

http://www.thehivcare.com/blog/hiv-risks/risk-from-specific-sexual-practices/
(Shows you the risk associated with specific sexual acts as it relates to STD)

http://www.thebody.com/content/art2503.html

http://hivinsite.ucsf.edu/InSite?page=kb-07-02-02

I hear ya, but married with kids means I try eliminate as much risks as I can. Even getting something curable through BBBJ isn't worth it to me. I smoked for years and got a non-related cancer (meaning it wasn't in my lungs or mouth) and quit the day I found out. The two may have not been directly linked, but why keep loading the gun.

It can be difficult to impossible to know if your provider has syphilitic lesions in her mouth.  If she's not testing herself she may not even realize.  If you hobby regularly, this one is a good reason to get tested regularly.

So judging from the amount of providers you have seen it seems that acquiring HIV is very difficult.  I'm very scared so  I don't see providers in downtown DC due to the high rate of infection there.   My doctor told me as long as I don't have sex with men I can continue to have sex with women b/c females have less of the virus.  Transmission from female to male is also harder.  I also use protection and but sometimes I don't use a condom for oral sex.  According to the numerous doctors I've seen HIV transition through oral sex is so rare it never happens.  I'm curious do agencies screen girls to get tested for the HIV virus?