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I wonder if there are any providers in the area that accept Dress Requests & Role-Play requests?

FYI: I have gotten many straight “No s” on role-play requests , which by the way have been soft-plays such as teacher/student; Boss/Employee; House wife/ college Student. In most requests I requested provider to dominate. I usually pick a video to share a general idea on what I am looking for.

Also, I think it is somewhat unfair to turn down the dress requests for attire/outfits that providers use to draw prospective client’s attention via their portfolio. It’s like why would you show something that you can’t provide at the end of the day.  However, I could be wrong in looking at it from a different angle. I am open to evolve, enlighten me!

I wish that there was a forum, where providers & clients could collaborate & share their adult film/star interest without direct messaging.  

Please share your thoughts!

I have many outfits and love to dress up for my friends! I definitely love suggestions.

As for role play, I'm your gal. Especially for such tame requests 😁

You’ve mentioned getting turned down for role-play/outfit requests. It’s entirely possible that some of these providers would be open to it if they were comfortable with you and had a better expectation of what your were looking to get from the experience.  

As far as outfit requests go, there’s a chance they don’t have the outfit they did the photoshoot with in their wardrobe anymore. Try asking for a genre rather than a specific outfit.

How do you communicate the expectations without sounding like vulgar? I have tried sharing video links but hasn’t worked.

I think it gets back to a provider feeling comfortable before a first meeting. It might run up a red flag that you’re a potential time waster. I really think your time is better spent working with a provider that you’re already familiar with, or checking out the providers here who’ve indicated they are interested in role playing with you.

Most of my partners (providers, SBs, and GFs) have not been into costumes but my current SB/GF is into it. I buy the costumes after we review them online, so it is all planned out in advance. Our first one was Asian schoolgirl. She is Thai but she said that Japanese schoolgirl outfits are prettier and sexier (she said that Thai schoolgirl outfits made her look like a nun). The second one was entirely her idea and surprised me - sexy French maid. We don't really do role play because we know each other too well to keep the fantasy going, but we try a bit and the costumes are fun even without the role play. I am looking forward to a repeat of either or her third idea. She says that toys will be involved.

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