The Hitachi magic wand is in fact magic. It is a classic that has provided intense orgasms to folks for decades. It is designed for clit stimulation but has g spot attachments as well as sleeve attachments for the boys. Super versatile and highly recommended for kinky or sensual play...
In an earlier encounter with one of my faves, she pulled out a vibrator and applied it to my balls. I asked her, "Do you clean it between clients?" Awkward silence.
You can always put a condom on your toys as I do (or ask for a condom to be put on), there's also many safe varieties of all natural toy cleaners that fit ever so nicely into your bag of tricks
I am something of a toys for boys aficionado! My favorites (and the best crowdpleasers) are the Njoy line of stainless steel toys, especially the curved Njoy "pure wand" which is designed for targeted prostate stimulation. Many women also use it for g-spot stimulation and squirting (although I am not a squirter myself). Also, the Aneros line of prostate stimulators for men can be worn during intercourse or masturbation for a little extra "kick", and I highly recommend them for gentlemen.
I loooove introducing versatile gentlemen to my favorite toys and the wonders of prostate stimulation. I have them in all shapes and sizes for different experience levels and interests. I don't need my toys to stimulate the prostate necessarily, as fingers also usually work well, but having a variety of options available is always fun as everyone tends to like something a little different. But my Njoy "pure wand" is definitely my major magic-worker!!
My newest video actually features my favorite toys!! It just went up on my website this past week. I am very conscious about sterilizing my toys and it's one reason why I like to work with stainless steel (besides the temperature play possibilities)- my steel & glass toys are easy to sterilize with soap & hot water, although I also use a professional-grade toy cleaner for good measure. My video start and ends with me washing my favorite toys, and you can see me have a little fun with them in between!
if soap and water work, why do hospitals have autoclaves? Just asking, not trying to rock any boat. And can folk put condoms on boy toys?
No you're right~ sterilization is actually a poor choice of wording on my part. Sterilization is highly technical and hospital standards of sterilization involve taking objects with more complex surface areas- such as syringes and tiny surgical instruments- and preparing them to cut open a human body and be inside the bloodstream, muscles, organs, etc. So in that case they need to be 100% sterile, including any type of bacteria that might be naturally present in the air, on the fingers, etc. That's why hospitals go thru incredible lengths to create sterile conditions that would be ridiculous to try to recreate for the purposes of sex, unless that's your kink.
Autoclaves can also sterilize liquids, and other types of objects that can't be cleaned properly with soap and water for practical reasons.
For the purposes of safer sex and not spreading STI's, though, soap and water (cold with soap to remove organic matter without coagulating it, then hot with soap to be sure to remove all traces of soap & oils) is enough for NON-POROUS toys, which include glass, stainless steel (no scratches that go thru the protective coating), and medical-grade silicone. Providers need to be careful to procure medical-grade silicone from reputable companies only or boil silicone toys to be safe if they're not sure whether they are porous or non-porous, since silicone comes in both varieties and porous silicone cannot be cleaned appropriately with just soap & water.
You can totally put condoms on your toys for boys. They do cause friction. Lube helps with that. I prefer to use toys that are easy to clean properly between meetings and avoid the friction of condoms. I do use gloves on my hands when I penetrate someone with my fingers because I am a chef and often have tiny cuts or burns on my fingers that are often not even noticeable, but could be a body fluid contact point, so I don't risk it. But with the steel toys, I don't see a point, since they are easily cleanable and feel much better without a condom since they are so smooth. But if a gentleman asks me to put a condom on a toy, of course I will and do.
The gloves we use in kitchens are actually no good for penetration either. Too loose, to many wrinkles and folds~ fine for handling food but not sexy to put inside of someone. I prefer XS (I've got tiny hands) smooth black nitrile gloves, safe for use with any type of lubricant. I always give the person who I am penetrating their choice of lubrication type, for their comfort.
I special order my sexy gloves from Zoro.com. They are the same kind used by tattoo artists.
My favorite was a sort of "bent barbell" g-spot toy a lady brought. Talk about a gushing O!!!
I also enjoyed using a glass dildo (she made it by hand!) on a lady while in 69.
The Hitachi has always been a pretty "sure thing" as well, but I prefer the penetration toys for the feel and visual. Just what works best to increase my own stimulation/excitement.
Toys on me? I'm neutral. They really seem to do nothing. Would much rather have a finger on my prostate than a piece of plastic or (yikes!!) stainless steel! Again, not very often and she has to have SKILLS... prostate play is NOT something I could trust to a newbie!!
I'm not a fan of vibrators but I'm a HUGE fan of anal toys now. I have the aria silicone anal plug in black (My Favorite) and metal anal beads I have a few vibrations but not a fan really I'm a natural person to I love the real thing better but I but say... I love my plug lol
isn't technology great? It used to be we had to tie up a hand to hold a vibrator against the plug, but now the plug does the job for us. Now we can find something else to do with that extra free hand!
Santa wouldn't be Santa without toys, and he usually brings his very full bag with him on dates. He's found ladies both naughty and nice enjoy them, but each in their own way. Some prefer external, some internal, some want to sample them all, some have definite favorites. In general expensive toys, such as Lelo's, produce superior results and are worth the prices. Toys work best for multi- orgasmic ladies and for guys like Santa who are givers. Toys are no substitute for other skills, but they add an extra dimension of fun and pleasure to many of Santa's favorite dates.
Posted By: Crystalsprings1
I'm starting to be a toy FAN what kind of toys do men/women prefer??
For personal use my Butterfly Kiss vibrator is probably my favorite! It just feels so good and has varying speeds that are fun to play with.
I also have an awesome glass butt plug that I use for my gents. It is textured and also has a little handle so I can really control how I move it. They love it too.
by this discussion and thinking that when I return to the hobby I will have to find out what a prostate massage is. I have enjoyed anal stimulation but never had a prostate massage. Would any ladies like to make a shy sailor squirm?
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