Are her reviews real? Had her scheduled and did everything I could to help in the background process but she was very difficult throughout the process. I emailed her the day of, as requested, emailed her through my TER handle, as requested. She sent me a text asking me not to review her, which seemed strange since she has 30 reviews in the last two months, so I asked why...at that point she lashed out at me about being difficult and basically canceled by going quiet at the time we were supposed to meet. Would have loved to see for myself, love her pics and look, but wonder if the girl I dealt with was the same girl w/the stellar reviews. Pamela, if you're reading, would love to try again.
maybe she got spooked??? At this point I wonder why you want to keep trying? If there was difficulty during the process it probably wasnt meant to be. Isn't it gonna be awkward???
From what I've read, she does not have a reputation for being a flake.
Same sort of thing happened to me last year(with a different provider). I had actually already seen her and it was good but she totally flaked on me. I wish I knew why but I just moved on. I even saw her ad on here recently and thought about contacting her again but...nah too many other options.
If I have a bad feeling with something I am not going too proceed with an appointment, never! 300$ is not enough money too put me in a situation I am not comfortable with. I'm sorry things did not work out but it was just not meant to be. I apologize for any inconviences you may have experienced during the process....
wow. misspamela, ive not had any reason to see any other lady, but if 2014 does not go as desired in that regard, If I don't walk away from this entirely, I would love to connect. You are Younger than my historic preferences, but stars might align as a dear friend once said, and maybe my past judgment in that regard age will prove to be wrong in regard to you:
Thanks for responding, shows professionalism. Hopefully in the near future and with some luck, we'll meet
Interesting you have a $200 cancellation fee. But you left a potential client with a stiffie. Should work both ways. Maybe a doublebook
in this situation??? how is she gonna ask for a cancel fee when SHE "cancelled"?
lol what are y'all talking about ? I never asked for a cancellation fee & I do not require a cancellation fee unless U cancel on me... Wow
I'm afraid you and earthshined missed oversteerer's point, he wasn't saying that you were demanding a cancellation fee, he was pointing out the hypocrisy of how you expect to be treated and how you treated shags. That's what he meant by "Should work both ways." If shags had never showed for his appointment, he would have owed you a cancellation fee if he ever wanted to see you again. But you cancel on the day of the appointment and you don't seem to feel you even owed him an email at the time to say sorry, but I don't think I can see you. In fact I suspect that if shags had done it in the way that you did, without sending a note to say I'm sorry but I can't see you, you would refuse to see him ever again even with a cancellation fee. Not sure why he's pushing to see you again, there are too many other providers out there who understand a little something about common courtesy.
for me, any issues while contacting a provider that make it too difficult or a hassle is grounds for moving on.
I had an appointment with a lady on tour a few months back. she already screened me and we set the time. she emailed the hotel address a few hours before the date. then 1 hr later she pushed the time back from 6pm to 6:30pm . then at 6:15pm she says she got lost coming back to hotel but she will send me the room # asap. I started getting a bad feeling but told her ok no problem BUT I would have no problem just leaving at that point and telling her i'm gonna cancel. i dont care if she got pissed because usually when problems start happening it ends up not going well. 6:30 comes nothing from her. i text her 10 minutes later and she gave me some bullshit reason and cancelled.
Lol what y'all don't know is I told him before the appointment that I was not going too see him.... I was asking him simple questions and giving him simple instructions and he was rude to me! That is why I did not see him, I am not rude and I understand plenty about common courtesy thank you very much. It seems like all y'all have way to much time on your hands, and just sit behind a computer discussing things that has nothing to do with you at all and you don't even know the whole story.
Ten minutes before our appt was supposed to start you asked that I not review you. I was 2 minutes away from the address you gave me. I asked why, since you had 30 stellar reviews in 2 months, and it seemed as though every provider would WANT positive reviews to help generate more business. Thats not being rude. Just as I respect the position you put yourself in you have to respect the position we put ourselves in, and if a provider w/30 fantastic reviews in 2 months ask you not to review her asking 'why' doesnt constitute rudeness, its more curiousity and self protection.
If its giving you a handy vs "I have a bad feeling about this", we are never, ever giving you a handy. You guys act like being left with your dick hard is the equivalent to friggin auto theft or something!
I do not double book, unless someone does not confirm.
No one is obliged to take an appointment with a client who makes her feel uncomfortable. I would have done the same thing in your place, and my guess is 90% of other providers would have, too. Safety first.
I fully understand that.
Please Please Please do not try again. Forget it and find another girl to see. The last thing you want is to get a reputation as a stalker or to a lesser degree a persistent nag. The communication hit a snag along the way with Pam and it does not matter who's fault it is. Just be happy that she did not send you to the wrong hotel and made you sit in the parking lot for an hour. Once you have seen another hottie, then this will be a dead and buried issue.
30+ reviews in like a month...now she's in the top 50 nationwide...
I figure what...maybe 10 percent of clients write reviews? Do that math lol.
This is the same girl who used to have 8s and 9s in multiple other identities. Go figure.
People can and do reinvent themselves. Especially in business.
Thanks, guys. Love the prophetic "especially in business" comment. Might have a valuable lessson to share in that regard here. We will see. I think I know outcome though.
That's why you were cancelled on.
Lol have you seen my reviews & the reviewers review history ? I've seen plenty of people who gave written dozens of reviews and never gave a 10 to anyone but me....i am very dedicated to what i do & that is making everyone I meet satisfied.. So once again you make no sense. Your comments are uncalled for! You hide behind an alias because you think I do not know who you are... And if I request no review it's because I have accumulated to many reviews in such a short period of time.., something I was not aiming for.
you wont get a response to your post.
I realize I don't have all the facts, but Pamela didn't dispute anything in the OP's post..
And while cancelling in this manner may not qualify as a NCNS, it does qualify as rude. An appointment was set. If she wasn't feeling it she should have let him know so he could make other arrangements. Not doing so is just plain inconsiderate.
I booked her through P411; I have plenty of "okays" there. She made the appointment without looking at my profile, which she did the night before we were supposed to meet, then cancelled the next morning. Maybe she decided I was too old?
no way it could be a safety/LE/ issue right?
But I have not read that this happens with her
Frequently.
I was ncns by a lady before and was not as upset as some on this thread
I don't want a freebie.I'm happy with the escorts I see now.
She cancelled...it happens. Why take it personally? It's not fair for you to assume one thing or the other about her reasons. There could be any number of reasons. No provider is required to see everyone and anyone who asks her, no matter how "approved" he is on other sites or by other people. Nor is she required to explain her reasons for declining. That's her prerogative.
Besides, everything posted by hobbyists on this board is NOT the gospel truth, and that includes reviews and board postings. You have to take what you read by the clients here with a grain of salt, if you pay any attention to it all.
The lady has explained herself and this feels like piling on. Or sour grapes!
I absolutely agree with your statement that "No provider is required to see everyone and anyone who asks her, no matter how "approved" he is on other sites or by other people. Nor is she required to explain her reasons for declining. That's her prerogative." But the problem I have is that even you start by saying she cancelled, not that she declined, but that she cancelled. And when a provider puts on her website that cancellations will result in cancellation fees, NO EXCEPTIONS, the entire statement all in CAPS with multiple exclamation points, well then I would expect her to be even more sensitive to cancellations on her own part. If I am declined up front, then I move on. But a cancellation at the last minute by going radio silent is really annoying and I actually do take it personally. I've had last minute cancellations of both the "silent" and last minute email type. I've always given the benefit of the doubt to the polite last minute emails, and with only one exception they've always turned into good experiences on subsequent visits with no issues (one did it twice in a row and I've moved on). But the silent cancellation, that's just rude and I have no interest in trying to see that provider again.
Now I understand that this is not exactly what's going on here. Miss Pamela does not appear to be interested in seeing the OP and I think that it's a safe bet that there won't be a chance for a subsequent appointment. And you're right, that's her prerogative. But the issue is how it APPEARS to have been done. If you agree to see me I assume that you've done all of your homework and informed me of all the conditions before we both agree that it's an appointment. If you give me a new condition on the day of the appointment, such as no reviews, don't get annoyed if I ask what the reason is. If we set up the appointment in advance and then you effectively say no at the last minute, for whatever reason, that's a cancellation, not a decline. There certainly are legitimate reasons for a provider to cancel last minute, but unless the client really oversteps polite behavior, it's rude not to let them know you think it would be best if the appoinment was cancelled. Particularly if your position is that there are no acceptable reasons for a client to ever cancel (NO EXCEPTIONS, remember?)
And you are also correct that not everything posted on these boards should be taken as gospel, but I take issue with you limiting this to hobbyist statements. It would appear that a6steve and earthshined have had similar occurrences, and getting hung out to dry is a sore point with many hobbyists. Our time is valuable too
Add me to cancel list for no reason , maybe she likes to gather people's personal information
I won't try to see her. Anybody requiring work info as a screening pre-requisite on her website that has multiple reports of cancellation should be a warning alarm to any hobbyist.
Shame about all the cancellation issues. I got a boner just from the pictures of this mega-hottie. I wonder how long this thread will stay up. I give it till Friday before it'll disappear. Anybody want to bet a virtual dollar on it?
not that big of a deal. no one is bashing her.
some guys might take it as lacking courtesy on her part and wont want to see her but it looks like she doesnt have a problem finding clients
I am joking around mostly, but I have seen similar threads disappear before for reasons I was not privy too. Apparently I make a better clown than comedian, since no one gets my jokes better than me. Don't really care if this thread disappears or not, but damn, Ms. Pamela is smoking hot babe. Just wanted to say it again.
we agree. she IS smoking hot sexy. Always wanted to see her but unfortunately. I won't ever. NOT because of this thread.She requires work info for screening and that's not gonna happen. My loss (
Right Miss Pamela just keep posting under aliases.
Alias?
LMAO!
You must have oversteered into a pole and bumped your head
She's been around for years . She used many names in the past .
Move on to other new hotties
Consultants who study a problem from different view points, and after many millions of dollars and years, come up with the profound answer of "We believe you have a problem". Gee, thanks General Tao. I like your Chicken Dinner....you, not so much.
for that tasty dish. Enjoy my friend...I hope we are all here just for some laughs and a little info.
Wonderboy , that's pretty funny . It sounded you like extra sauce and cream on you chicken
I will admit that I will have to watch my wording a little more next time, as I left an opening for that zinger from you, to which I say good comeback.
However, since this thread is now down near the second page of the Washington board, you will have to excuse my lack of responding to it after this message. Now, it is time to move on.
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dont like it, dont too bad.
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- 30 reviews in short period of time. Then cancels with no notice. How is that professional?
- Other "legit" clients cancelled on......
...I'll Pass
I tried to see her, did the screening, but if do one little thing....no matter how small, she is very rude and will treat you like shit. It's no wonder she has to change her name so much
LMAO!
NO! no pussy for you!
Next!
I tried to see her too but thought her screening was too much so l moved on
Looks like she gets many requests because of her good reviews
With that many trying she probably gets many bullshit clients
I want to meet with ms pam and treat her like a queen.
/suck up 
I was suppose to meet her. Went through verification and when I showed up, she started asking me all these questions and ended up cancelling on me. Beware guys.
When you change your name again and you will you change it to Miss Cancel W/O Notice!!!! Have a great day and hope your batteries die.
And I suggest you get a life you sound pathetic and I don't care what y'all think... To me your just a bunch of losers anyways! I'm out, I got more people to cancel on today ! Xoxoxo
....that type being very volatile; unreliable......and now add to the list DISRESPECTFUL of your clients!!!
I can see you telling select clients they are losers but make that statement, and other, IMHO, other ill advised statements on a forum where there are nothing but potential clients is amazing to me.
Pass and Pass Long
Don't know who she was talking to but what have we lost. And what has she won?
I think her. Screening is too strict. But whatever
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Wow so sad!!!
So this is the opinion this gal has about all here?
I'm going to run and fill out her screening application immediately!
whatever.
from her reviews she has many satisfied clients but if her response is genuine maybe she's just a good faker.
Do we have another Farrah GFE on our hands?
I think she has the right to see whoever she wants whether they agree to write reviews or whatever. My issue with her is that she shouldn't have taken an appointment in the first place then having us waste our time if she wasn't comfortable and waited until I showed up to flake or cancel. Just respect our time as well.
Her mind at the last minute is. BS
Miss Pamela,
Thanks for the nasty private emails. Happy New Year.
Anytime sweetheart. Muah 
Or outside the building?
Did you get a freebie from Miss Pamela for being her knight in a shiny Trojan???? Bet she cancelled on you at the last minute!
i'm innocent of all charges!
Already said, i tried to see her but feel her screening is too strict. it sounds like some found that out too close to appointment time. I rather not waste time driving all the way there to be turned away so if i feel it's gonna be hard to satisfy a lady's screening, i don't bother.
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Question was asked before, I'm sure many times, what providers think of you. Well, here is an honest response from Pamela.
"And I suggest you get a life you sound pathetic and I don't care what y'all think... To me your just a bunch of losers anyways! I'm out, I got more people to cancel on today ! Xoxoxo "
You're just a wallet. Yes, you have a good business relationship with a provider, but at the end of the day, you're just a wallet to be emptied. If a provider really liked you, you wouldn't be paying.
The woman behind the curtain as it were...
She's garbage, I'm so glad she canceled on me and I didn't give her one freaking dollar of mine
"And I suggest you get a life you sound pathetic and I don't care what y'all think... To me your just a bunch of losers anyways! I'm out, I got more people to cancel on today ! Xoxoxo "
You're just a wallet. Yes, you have a good business relationship with a provider, but at the end of the day, you're just a wallet to be emptied. If a provider really liked you, you wouldn't be paying.
The woman behind the curtain as it were...
Wow, I can't believe how many folks are taking this thing way too seriously. If Pamela doesn't want to see you, that's her prerogative. Why get so friggin' sensitive?? I don't think she owes anybody an explanation. It's a business and she has the right to refuse providing service.
I've actually seen her twice and she is absolutely hot, very sweet and nice. I've only seen a handful of providers but she is without question a 10/10. Yes, I know I haven't written any reviews but felt this thread was worth sharing my thoughts.
"And I suggest you get a life you sound pathetic and I don't care what y'all think... To me your just a bunch of losers anyways! I'm out, I got more people to cancel on today ! Xoxoxo "
You're just a wallet. Yes, you have a good business relationship with a provider, but at the end of the day, you're just a wallet to be emptied. If a provider really liked you, you wouldn't be paying.
The woman behind the curtain as it were...
what she REALLY thinks.
So some people go overboard with their comments. that's not a big deal either
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