Buy a digital camera (you can get a great deal on a refurbished one on Amazon.com) and then 1) you don't have ANY photo processing 2) you can store, print, post pics EASSSSYYYYY and 3) you can store them discreetly if need be.

I picked up an excellent camera for half the cost of a new one by going re-furb.

Pick up some of the photography magazines in any good bookstore or mag stand, and peruse the block ads in the back pages - you'll find processing companies that advertise "no content restrictions", "adult processing", etc.  These are mail order and cost more, but they're generally worth it.

Alternately, develop a friendship with a local photog, or even the attendant for the photo dept at CVS or the like, and have them do the processing for you.

But the previous comment is the best: get a digital camera, and eliminate your processing hassles completely.

thanks for all the suggestions.  yeah, I've thought of going the digital camera route, but it seemed too costly.  A refurb sounds like a good idea though.  I already have a mail-order place in Texas that I use but as indicated it iw waaayyyy expensive.  Thanks again, all!