Hobby is supposed to be fun. Why do something that is going to make you uncomfortable. Mind is the most important sex organ.  There is plenty of fish in the sea.

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The cat is partially out of the bag already, since you saw her and she saw you. If you met up inadvertently at some social occasion, you already have the problem of being recognized. Even if she didn't put it together immediately, she still might.

Bite the bullet for what? You said she is of legal age. She is an adult, who can make her own choices. Would throwing her under the bus by telling her father help her? Would she have retribution against you? What is the purpose in trying to "save" her? Save her from what? Being a consenting adult engaged in this activity, just like you?

If you are going to do anything, leave the father out of it. If you have the urge to do something and not just let the issue lie, then communicate with her. If you must, tell her what happened, why you didn't go through with it, acknowledge her adulthood and free choice, suggest safe practices and point her toward how to be educated about it, then go on your way. If she didn't do anything wrong to you (and it doesn't sound like she did), why would you do an injustice to her?

There, that is the "good" Ren'man.

My other perspective is: if she is adult, hot, and the risk is already there, you shoulda nailed it.

I suppose with both sides, I gave you $.04 worth of advice. Take it or leave it...

Good luck!

Ren'man

character to move on. Friends don't do that to friends, no matter how hot she is. As for what to do next, that is the tough part. If it were me I'd do nothing. If she looks flabbergasted the next time you meet then and only then would I say anything to her. She may be mature enough remain silent just like you should do. No harm no foul. Unless she is in danger then you have no responsibility to throw her under the bus.  As for giving out her info if it were me I'd remain silent on that too. That could only escalate things. Some people love to stir up shit.  The last thing, at this point, you need is for some yahoo saying to her how they heard about her.
Just my two cents worth. Not a therapist but I am a part time gynecologist or at least I like to think I am.

Your own daughter that would have been real awkward, doubt if any one could get in that situation. Only you know what will set your self atease. Even in the fantasy world of hobbying you still have to play with in the bounaries of reality, and be prepared to deal with any thing that may ocurr. The hobby
world is vast, but small.

i agree with the others ... if you feel awkward or nervous, maybe consider calling her and explaining it to her.  that way if you run into her again (with her father!) and she recognizes you, then you both would be better prepared.  as far as that goes, if she turns you on (did she turn you on when you knew her before?  did you fantasize about nailing her? etc) why not be two consenting adults?  i mean, you're in this hobby, married?, and the worst is pretty much over.  on another note ...

could you please pass on to the rest of us hobbyists a link to her ad so that we might consider trying her out?  would be greatly appreciated by many!

thanks!

If you're a friend of the family, you might at least caution her (anonymously) that Backpage might not be the safest choice for her line of work, or even email a link to this thread.

If she is in the biz for long she likely won't even recognize you...you are just one of many and walked, so how much of an impression could you have made? But I guess you could always grow a beard, instead (lol).

A very difficult and delicate situation at best but she is an adult and her privacy should be respected. I see nothing wrong with her being an escort if that is her choice and I would keep my mouth shut as long as you did not get the feeling that she is a reluctant participant.

I would e-mail or otherwise contact the lady in question and tell her of the situation and how you would maintain her privacy. This would prevent future awkwardness and tell her that if you meet in a social situation with her parents you would be discreet and keep her privacy. It would put her at ease and make things better if you do encounter her in a social situation again.

Much luck!

More wives and daughters to fuck, without feelings of deceit or guilt.