My post didn't post right.  My point was my wife told me when we first got married she didn't mind if I cheated.  I was down with that

but then she added that what's good for the goose is good for the gander.  meaning she was allowed to do it too.  so for a long time I would get a limp noodle when seeing an escort because the thought of her cheating made it unbearble.  i was looking at jeopcons reviews and that's how this crossed my mind.  so you guys ever lose it thinking your wife could be doing the same?  like you're getting your karma back somehow?