Sunday night I was checking out the add board and this young lady caught my eye. So I sent her my info and request for a appointment on Monday afternoon    She quickly replied that tomorrow at noon was open and i willing accepted. The following morning I sent her a message that because of my lunch time I'm looking for someone who provides half hour because I wasn't sure she offered it, again she quickly replied and yes she did! So i was all set for my lunch date

I can think of something else she could have done to put a smile on your face.

Sorry about that!

...of how long the scheduled date was, this is COMPLETELY unprofessional and you have every right to feel upset (in my opinion.) Speaking from a providers point of view, the "I got my period" is the OLDEST excuse in the book, and I don't buy it even for a second. If it were me, and I magically got my period the hour before our appt, I would let you know and let you decide for yourself if you wish to follow through with the date.

. . . but if your boss is on this board, he/she would remember a certain person who was very hungry on Monday at 11 am and needed an early lunch.

about what time of the month they will get their period. So unless she forgot, she got a better offer and flaked on you. Ladies, am I correct about the period information?

Some days its early by 5 days, sometimes late by a week, some months I have birth control & won't get my menses for 6mos.

My ovaries have their own agenda, despite modern medicine.

Yes I got lost, but my official appointment  was at noon and was told to come early.  I arrived 11:30. I was lost for 15 or 20 minutes finding the hotel

You gave me cramps too...  

You're not reading it right!! I wasn't late!! I was in fact 30 mins early!  I was only saying her bad address made me get lost , but I wasn't late

Besides, arguing with hookers over the phone is a no win situation.  

I hope you weren't serious about the whole " show me your on your period" part... lol

Every woman's body is different. So it could have just sprung up, but Nine time out of ten she took an appointment that she felt was more important. Sending a wrong address is a red flag for me. They are either playing games or trying to buy time by making your get lost.  Super unprofessional. I hate stupid lies, just being honest in this situation would have worked better for her. Sorry you experienced that.

I didn't want to see the mess , but if she come in and I will show you, I would have said sorry I was wrong and appreciate your honesty, I was having a bad time and really looking forward to this, but take the money and I would have been on my way.  If I'm wrong I'll admit and make it up

Thank you! If that was you, wouldn't you have said I got a mouth, hands and tits. If you're interested we can make this work. I want to say her name to see if she did this to others.  Because that I got bad news comment seemed cut and paste

give some great feedback on my period question.

You're showing a lot of class by trying to understand the situation through the experts in our community while NOT disclosing the providers name. Your discreation will be rewarded, I'm sure.

...I can only offer the linked reply to a similar thread on a NCNS/cancelled appointment.

If you want validation that you were lied to, than it looks like you have it. Most of us agree that she blew you off for a better offer.

Ok, now what? Are you going to name her? Backchannel her name to all your friends? What exactly did you want to accomplish by this thread?  Or did you just want to vent and get this shit off your chest? If so, I will say "mission accomplished"

As the father of 2 daughters, my wife and daughters always have thier period when they are out of tampons, usually when it is raining.

So who is this person?  PM me if you want, but please help us avoid bad providers.  Thanks

This was a good read.

Someone posted her name and it vanished, but he had same situation happen to him on Sunday with her

I am not 15 years old , so I never have Aunt Flo surprises.  I always know when it's going to start and never have any type of accidents. LOL.  

So post it again - the very purpose of this board is to know the good (reliable/dependable) Providers, so we can plan to avoid the bad unreliable ones - add the phone number. When her phone stops ringing - she will get the message

I was taught a trick by an older lady to use a sea sponge so you can still have sex and not cover anyone in anything they don't want to be covered with. I carry one with me whenever I'm working so if I'm early I am covered, so to speak. Don't any other ladies use this? Thought it was standard

Lol! For me it's business as usual when it is that time of not. My BC choice keeps things light and when it does happen plug it up! But I have yet to have to explain to a guy what my method of keeping an appointment while on the rag is and I have yet to have anyone tell the difference. Guess it depends on your comfort level as well too.

would it really be bad for him to add 2 + 2 ?

"I was walking down the street just now and a safe fell on my head like in a Road Runner cartoon." At least that would have been a bit more believable.

No woman in this field is going to openly come out and say that they use that method. It's something you keep to yourself.

Not everyone is comfortable with throwing someone under the bus, whether they deserve it or not. Karma ALWAYS handles the situation.