Interesting perspective and I for one like it and actually hate the idea of the verification but understand the importance. If it was where do you work, number etc. it would not be so bad - but I hate the contact a few other providers.
*This is a copy of a post that I made to the General Board.*
What would you women think of the idea of using this board, or possibly another one here, if it could be set up, for verifying potential client's? A member here could call or email you to ask about setting up an appointment. After giving you his handle(username) he could then make a post that you would be able to see, at least letting you know that he is a legitimate member. Aside from that you could hopefully see his other review's knowing who he has seen in the past. If he is a new member without any review's at least you know he is a member. A non member can't post to the board can they? If they can maybe a member's only board could be established that you women could access. Any comment's or improvement idea's are welcome.
and whether or not he would be respectful. I have seen guys who are just nasty on the boards, but sweeties in person and vice-versa.
One way I verify VIP TER is to have them IM me, just for verification (only VIP members can IM through TER), however, that is only for my discount, not as a client verification.
I am not sure why so many gents are so bent on devising a scheme to avoid verification. I am sure you are simply thinking that you are a "nice" guy and shouldn't be subject to the torture of offering 3 tiny pieces of information, however, we are trying to avoid the "not so nice" guys.
and I never had a problem with any client I did verify thru any of the 3 boards I usually post. Being VIP and a reviewer has advantages over the guys who are not, specially doing "board verification". For me is enough a provider reference and "board verification". Works well. Maybe doesn't for others.
I don't have a problem at all with whatever verification. If you read my previous post here a few day's ago you'll see what I mean. I offered two different women any information they could possibly want, home address, phone number, etc. The only thing either wanted was work info which I gladly gave also. Due to it being after hour's and the answering machine being left off at my work they were both a no go. I will say though that for the majority of the women I've seen most haven't been so ridiculous. Don't take that as me thinking that your protection isn't important, if I felt that way I wouldn't want to offer any info.
Interesting perspective and I for one like it and actually hate the idea of the verification but understand the importance. If it was where do you work, number etc. it would not be so bad - but I hate the contact a few other providers.
I definitely agree with you. I don't mind one bit giving my work info and contact number there. However, other's aren't in that same position to do so. As for provider reference's, I've had a few of the women say, "Sure you can use me as a reference, no problem." but how much can I or another provider rely on that? Some of the women are almost impossible to get ahold of.
I don't mind when a client of mine ask me to vouch for him when he wants to visit with other ladies. The best way is thru mails, not phone calls. If the client is mailing a provider and giving my name as reference, I ask him to CC to my mail address. If the provider do not contact me, I will contact her and provide the reference and CC a copy of my mail to her to him. This way, there is no misunderstandings of "oh betty never got back to me" excuses from providers. It takes me off the hook in case the provider has an issue and decide not to see my client.
That's a great, common sense, idea that I never thought of, sending a CC to my reference as well. At least I can contact her to see if she did actually receive a request about me. Although like phone call's some of the women take forever to answer email's too.
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