Yes, I know I'm whining but I'm hoping talking about it will be therapeutic.  Called up a provider asked for an appointment.  Everything was cool.  She asked my nationality I said black.  She just hung up!!!  I understand that everyone has their preferences.  But geez.  All she had to do was say no thanks, or better yet just be more specific about who she sees in her ad.

Plenty of ladies that will see you,find them. Least you didn't show up and she wouldn't open the door..lol

They can see who they please, just let me know up front. Plenty ladies that post on this board won't see African American but you will never know it.

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Seeing who they please. It sucks and I know it but no need to embarras someone.

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I got exactly what you need sweetie. Forget her, move on. It could have been worse soo count your blessings and find someone who doesnt care what color, size or shape you are!

Yasmine

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What about us 100% African men with no American affiliation?

We are not just talking local ladies. We are talking prominent ladies that post on our board. Stating your race up front so no surprises when you get there.

Sometimes I have heard of reports where pimps and some ebony agencies won't let dark skinned black men see their providers.

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. . . by listing criteria for clients including ethnicity, height, weight, smoking habit etc.

"She asked my nationality I said black."

Ladies don't want to see..

African American seem to formal..lol

I have a date with a beautiful lady tonight. I will read this thread in the morning..lol

. . . shouldn't have asked for the nationality when she meant ethnicity or "race".

I believe that was the point of Horndogs' post, that the ladies should be more upfront but not just over the phone but in their ads and postings.  Truth in advertising.

Don't let it bother you, I once called to see a ladie who was suppose to be an Ultra GFE and she didn't see black men either, and she was black as well. Me and her booking agent had a big laugh about it. So move on, there are a lot of beautiful ladies out there that will see you.

This has already been discussed. I don't think they should list their likes on a site. I see no problem with their electing to see one race over another. The only thing I see from the original post is she was rude. At least have the courage and respect to tell the person on the phone that you won't see someone of a particular race, religion, nationality, or for that matter gender.

OK - I haven't filled that one page yet - but I think I've said enough...

Any BTW BigDaddy - I wasn't going to post, until you brought it up - LOL...

So she has issues... Not only is she selective where it comes to nationalities - but surely doesn't like those who gets the question wrong when asked... Umm, Sir BidDaddy, What nationality are you? Well Mam, I'm Black - Duhhh - wrong answer - click...

So the next time when BigDaddy calls back and she asks the same question, maybe if you answer it correctly she will open the door knowing your at least inteligent enough to know your own nationality - LOL... Oh, by the way, I mean do disrespect to Horndog nor do I think he's not smart enough to know his own race... It's just that this subject has been discussed and there will always be differing opinions. But, it's her biz, her bod, and her loss...

Reading the thread was indeed therapeutic. I guess I made the assumption that the only thing that mattered in this business is a mutual respect between the hobbyist and the provider.  Somewhat naieve I suppose.

I went through this a couple of months ago and sought advice from the great oracle big daddy. And really he is right don't out her, it's not worth this much screen space on my pc. I was turned down but professionally by someone I really wanted to see. I took my donation and saw one of my regulars that was extremely happy I came( pun intended). What if you got there and she didn't diss you? Instead she provided you with subpar service that wasn't parallel to her normal reviews. Then you would be even more pissed. Hell you would be on this board cursing out those who posted good reviews of her. I know from my time in NY. there are a lot of black providers that won't see me because of pimp rules. either I am going to steel them or they will fall in love with me (happens all the time).

I guess my hobbying days will shortly be over.  If the DNS doesn't get me, the providers' questionnaire lists will.  Let's see:

Do you have a BMI of more than 1.2, or a body fat content of more than 10%?
Have you ever had Mickey D's Super Size your meal?
Have you ever had more than 3 drinks in one night?
Do you have less than 6" in length, or a girth less than 2.5" in circumference?
Unless you are *&$#ing, does it take you more than 5 minutes to pop?
If you ARE *&$#ing, how long can you go WITHOUT popping?
On average, how many O's do you give a provider in a one hour session?

Oh hell, foggetaboutit!  And I once thought just good ole American CASH was enough..  Silly me!