"marcRtheover" and other clever handles here....i hope people take your advice and move on. I can only speak for myself but i have never wanted the attention received from this forum. I didn't post ads, I didn't solicit business. I didn't want or need it. There are those persons or person that seemed to throw my info out in response to "ISO" ads time after time. You know who you are and can stop doing that.  
I have posted on this forum only once a few weeks ago to clear the air on some issues and will post for the last time today.  
We as providers know the risk we put ourselves at and we all have our own reasons for becoming involved  
in this business whether it be financially motivated or because we genuinely enjoy the friends we have made(in and out of the business, male and female). We can't always make everyone happy. If there is fallout we know it is a burden we will bear and must own up and take responsibility for. Backlash on a provider is one thing. More to the point of this post, to reach out to family members and friends of providers is simply unconscionable! You know who you are and what you have done and not only to me. If you had an issue with me you should have taken it up with "me". How does someone have a dark enough heart and the conscience to involve, harass, intimidate and turn upside down the lives of a provider's innocent loved ones?  
I try to never speak ill of anyone and find good in everyone. I will assume responsibility for my actions but to the person that has done this unspeakable thing, you know who you are and to you I wish only the very worst and only hope one day you will be held accountable