Thank you for responding. Unfortunately I have no references. I understand your desire for references for your own safety and peace of mind. If I were in your place, I would ask for them too. Nearly 3 years ago I did visit one lady who has reviews on this site. However, since it has been so long, I sincerely doubt that she'd remember me, even though I wrote her a nice review. I believe too much time has elapsed.
With that said, I was very impressed with the reviews written about you, and your willingness to receive cunnilingus is reassuring to me - knowing that at least one lady still enjoys being the recipient of the oral arts.Once upon a time this was an easy thing to request. Some ladies enjoyed it so much that they'd have me go down on them a second time - after they'd come back to earth from the first one - or hold my face down on their womanhood through multiple orgasms. I knew one lady in Reston who came so hard she'd not only squirt a prodigious amount, she'd pee with her first orgasm. She became a regular for me to indulge my cunnilingual desires - something I'd like to find again. Alas, it's been nearly 25 years since I visited her (having gotten married in the meantime) but now the landscape has changed.
I understand why a lady might be reluctant to discuss specific activities on the phone, but this means I have no way of knowing whether she'll permit me to please her with my tongue. When I asked recently upon arrival with a few ladies I found on the NoVa BP site, the responses were " no, that's too intimate" or "no, that's only for my boyfriend" or similar responses along those lines. Since that is all I want, I leave feeling that we've wasted each other's time due to a lack of communication.
I know I could pay for a VIP Membership on TER and run a more detailed search, but I'd rather add that money to the compensation for the lady. Has the landscape truly changed, or am I simply not looking in the right places?
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Thank you for responding. Unfortunately I have no references. I understand your desire for references for your own safety and peace of mind. If I were in your place, I would ask for them too. Nearly 3 years ago I did visit one lady who has reviews on this site. However, since it has been so long, I sincerely doubt that she'd remember me, even though I wrote her a nice review. I believe too much time has elapsed.
With that said, I was very impressed with the reviews written about you, and your willingness to receive cunnilingus is reassuring to me - knowing that at least one lady still enjoys being the recipient of the oral arts.
I cannot recall a gal not allowing DATY ... but I also go and see GFE providers and only a few have ever advertised on BP, but I didn't find them that way. So, a) stop using BP and b) pay for GFE gals ... that will probably get you what you're seeking.
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I appreciate your input and advice. A friend had recently suggested searching for GFE, and that is how I filtered through the ads on BP. Unfortunately, the ladies I made appointments with had a different interpretation of what constituted a girl friend experience; they drew the line at cunnilingus, for reason stated in my first post. (I thought it interesting that they were perfectly willing to have intercourse - which I can't do anymore because of ED - but didn't want my tongue down there.)
As to using BP, I am not aware of a good alternative. Years ago the Washington City Paper - prior to the Internet - was how I found a lady to enjoy this with. The ads there diminished considerably with the exploding popularity of CL. When they, in turn, stopped carrying the adult services, a friend mentioned BP. If you have another site, I'd love to know about it.
I mean -- this is standard, OP dude!
What you are offering is also, ahem, standard (sorry to break it to you, it's the truth).
99% of clients are outstanding in this dept. And they don't crow about it!
The only inducements you need on your side are good refs and good behavior.
As for BP (and everything else in life) you get what you pay for.
Have fun!
I will PM you.
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so you can backchannel, etc
I agree, do one month, have all the pussy you can eat and lick you want
I'd love to discuss further...
I will PM you
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