I am a new provider in the states, but not to the business and I think that the white list is great. It is one of the things that I check on every client that gives me a TER username.

 So far all of the gentleman that I have met have been absolutly great and if I am asked I will white list them. If any that I white list should ever become anything less than what I concider an acceptable client I will remove my recomendation of them.

  The only problem that I have run into with the white list is that a good proportion of the gentleman them selves have changed their e-mail and if I am contacted outside of TER PM I cannot match their TER white list to their e-mail. When this happens I will have them PM me or send me an e-mail from the e-mail account that they used when they set up their TER account

  I have read some posts awhile back where some providers and hobbiests alike were concerned with the implications that would or could be used against them if they were/did white liste/d. I feel that this is just fear mongering as this is all for entertainment and not backed by any verifiable facts. So lets all be entertained and lookout for one another.

I have asked about this white list thing when I joined TER. It sounded good from the TER description. Then when I asked for a white listing from an agency, I got told that if Ladies white listed you, then LE could use that against them as an admition of guilt. Whereas the reviews are supposedly fictional, which some of them are, or embellishments, compared to my encounters with the same person. So some ladies in the DC area are hesitant to provide white listings, some don't know how to do it, All of them have to be asked to do it by the reviewer and most reviewers don't ask. That about covers it.

I have seen some providers whitelist a guy that they have not seen in session.

Some providers don't want to whitelist a guy because they don't want other providers to know they are seeing a client that sees them a lot. They don't want to loose the revenue stream. There are several guys that paid thousands to see one provider multiple times and she never whitelisted them.

I have seen a provider whitelist a guy. Then take off the whitelist then put back on the whitelist.

Bests to get direct references or use site such as date-check.

It's so-so imo... a few nice guys I still time to time who are members of this site don't have whitelist referrals. Them not always having them doesn't mean they aren't safe. Though I would love to I can't always trust another provider's referral because say the guy only saw that provider once and they had a good time but they never saw each other again after that IMO one good visit isn't always enough to get a solid feel for a person and he could be a total jerk to the next girl or 3 he goes to see so it reflects on your judgement a little bit.

I just figured out how to white list and immediately white listed the guys I knew who definitely qualified as, "good guys." I would never white list someone I had just met, that cannot be said of everyone.  I would say check out the provider before taking her word that the white list is legitimate.  For example, does this provider have good reviews, does she advertise in the better places and does she have a website?  I know this seems like a good bit of work, but what's more important than your safety?

I use the White List all the time for a referral. Most providers I see accept it.
There are a few ladies I gave seem that don't want to White List anyone, but that is their choice.

Re: White List

I found this discussion very interesting, although after hearing the pros and cons on white listing, I'm more confused than convinced one way or another whether I should REQUEST a white list referral from a provider or not...

I only recently became aware of this whitelist feature and discovered I had one referral, although I hadn't requested any from anyone, and was unaware that the normal procedure was for the client to request one from the provider.

I am still "on the fence" whether it would be beneficial for me to request white list referrals. I would love to know the consensus from providers whether it would be beneficial for a client to have a number of referrals or fairly irrelevant?

I'm looking into TER policy about agencies whitelisting.

I would not appreciate it if a lady began calling my White List providers without my knowledge.

1.I have not seen some of these ladies in years.

2. I would always want to give a potential reference a 'heads-up' in advance of being called or emailed by a prospective date.