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Re: Well...
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"....
My homeboys tried to warn me
But that butt you got makes me so horny
Ooh, Rump-o'-smooth-skin
You say you wanna get in my Benz?
Well, USE ME, USE ME
'Cause you ain't that average groupie
I've seen them dancin'
To hell with romancin'
She's sweat, wet,
Got it goin' like a turbo 'Vette
..."

:)  Hope you liked the flash back!

So it may be a bit selfish or arrogant of me, but sometimes when I see a client more than once or for an extended visit, and he's a less than amazing lover, I take control and really try to teach him. Especially if he is under 27. And me getting off doesn't hurt either.  

I feel like as a master of the sexual arts I should leave a man better off than I found him. This is especially true with extending/shorten his time to orgasm, and finding how to get an orgasm when one seems impossible. Also, to push some gentleman to try new things.  

I really find it strange how shy some of you gentleman get with us ladies. We are here to help fulfill your fantasies. And no, not every lady does everything, but one can guess a lady in this industry is a much more adventurous than the average lady. We want you to ask, and explore new avenues of pleasure.  

So muster up that macho, swivel those hips and get ready to beat it up (or caress it - however you like it). But do it with some exciting and don't be afraid to try something new. I bet you will like it.  

Kisses,  
Vanic

Amen girlie!  

as much as i like to give my 'spoiling' sessions, or cock worship sessions, where i just like the guy to sit back and relax, letting me please him, when it comes time to put it on me, i want it worth my while =)

if you can't make me cum, no worries, i'll teach you!

great post.

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I agree. Every lady's body is different so I appreciate it when a woman is vocal and tells me how to turn her on. I get really aroused when a lady is telling me how to please her and appears to be responding.

But I warm up after a couple of visits, once I know she's legit, and determine that we have some chemistry/rapport...that first visit can be stressful, lol

it doesnt ALWAYS happen but I had one 2hr. date that I didnt "feel" it until it was almost over.

The number one factor that makes me hesitate is any vibe I get from her that she's tired or not into it that night.  

For ex. A lady at the end of a week long tour.I dont know if she would rather watch TV than indulge.LOL ( I use that example because it happened to me before)

Posted By: iconaclassic
But I warm up after a couple of visits, once I know she's legit, and determine that we have some chemistry/rapport...that first visit can be stressful, lol

I expect the lady to have a good time, and hope to get guidance and feedback on what works best for her. Most of you ladies like this hobby and want to have a great time as well. And, wonderfully, each of you are different, have different likes and your bodies respond differently. So, guidance, feedback, even taking control works well.

What really helps is when the lady has taken the time to do a little research on me to find what I like most when I see a lady ...

that gents appreciate when a lady does her homework prior to a date - I always try to do this and I've found it pays off, both in the gents enjoyment and with his desire to reciprocate ;-)

Agreed.  

I know they don't always orgasm, even if they act like they do.  I don't fret about whether or not it's real, but I will ask her to tell me when my tongue is getting to the right spot.  If she wants to come from my efforts she probably will.  I suppose sometimes if I'm the first of 3 or 4 appointments during the day (or the last) she might want to get through the session without coming and I accept that as long as she seems to be enjoying herself.

One of my nicest memories was during a session with a veteran provider who no longer wants reviews.  By paying attention to her responses I recognized she liked feather light tongue licks during oral and after the apparent orgasm she looked at me with surprise.  It was the look that convinced me it was real.  Yes, it's possible I imagined it but I really don't think so.

have found that few providers take the time to show me anything new. I'd be more than willing to listen, too me it seems rare "advice" is offered.  

When I first saw the title of the thread I thought.. I guess Vanica won't see me. lol

I like new things. I am under 27 so I guess It makes easier for me to learn :)

I'm old enough to know what I want, and its pretty straightforward.  I prefer a sensual GND experience to a wild ride - although am appreciative when that happens, too.  LFK to DFK to BJ/BBBJDT to doggy to mish, and maybe cowgirl depending on the provider and  done.  I might be 'adventurous' and move to standing doggy or BJ on the couch or in front of a mirror - but thats about the extent of it.  Oral on her a few times (and to great success for the provider - and yes, learned a lot about what works and doesn't), but depends on the provider and her willingness for it and if I'm feeling like it.

To the gentlemen starting out, the best advice I've been given - that works - is think about stirring cream in very hot coffee-very light, very slow.  Followed with do the alphabet with your tongue around the hood.

:)

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