I actually made a difficult trip to Downtown to see her after pre-booking three days ahead. Kept in touch then about 20 minutes before appointment i called. No answer. then called a few more times and at the appointed time finally got her to answer. She was in another city at the airport and hammered. She said sorry i can't make it.

Its a shame because i really would like to enjoy her company.

Well, for the third time got stood up by Pamela.  The usual routine, check references, cheery email chat, set dates and times (ensuring I make expensive arrangements) then on appointment day she goes silent, no email, no phone call returned, no explanation.  I give up.

Rambone

That sucks, don't know about your first two appointments, but if you were schedueld for today it was rainning "providers and hobbyists" out there today. She could have told you due to the weather I have to postpone wouldn't take much effort would it?

Sorry  bout your luck.  I've seen Pamela a couple times and she is fantastic.  Never been stood up or anything of the sort.

Pamela did the same to me, a total NCNS (if that's possible for a provider, I'm under the impression that expression applies only to the guys). I was so pissed. I made a mid morning drive into DC (more than an hour from my office) and stood on the street corner across from her hotel for more than 60 minutes trying to reach her for her room number. She had provided me the hotel address the night before in an e-mail. I get hungry when I am upset so I grabbed lunch. I made several more phone attempts during lunch without success so I decided to leave. Just after I pulled out of my parking space she called, profusely apologized and begged me to return. She said she partied and drank too much the night before and overslept. I don't play well on a full stomach and I was not in an amorous mood so I put the peddle to the metal and made the long return trip to my office. A totally wasted day (except for the lunch).

Fell for this twice too both first time she apologized after not responding for early afternoon apt and did the same thing second time without contact.  No more tries as I think she just parties too hard so maybe try in evening with a six pack?

Which Pamela are we talking about? Just want to be sure because I likely have not seen her and in all honesty intend to ensure that I do not based on the feedback here!

Thanks,
Fog

Pamela is someone to stay away from.  Doesn't seem she has her act together.  From the stories I heard, she handles her business more in the way of a street-walker than a professional provider.
She was someone I wanted to see, but not now.

I merely take this stance! We all have our own lives and do what we must... given only information we find on boards like these to make our decisions so I feel that any provider who charges 300+ for a sesion should have an impecable record for scheduling there clients.

NCNS are a pet peeve to all providers that I know and I don't see any reason that there should be any less expectation from a provider... Yes things come up and shit does happen! but so far I count 8 folks who appear to have had similar experiences! Any one or even two could be dismissed as BS or someone with an axe to grind but so many different hobbiests coming forward definetly seems like there is a trend to me!

Not to say it cannot be gotten past, but perhaps the more appropriate thing to do is acknowledge the mistake and work to mitigate the issue moving forward. The unfortunate thing about negative press is that it is everywhere... positive press is forgotten very quickly while the negative is always out there and people always remember!

Just a thought! So lets not all get in a tizzy and freak out over this... I think everyone made their point and the facts are pretty clear I think.

Fog

I've seen Pamela a couple times without a problem.  Now here playmate Bailey Rae is another matter.  She stood me up without a call on three separate occasions.  What pissed me off most was that I was stupid enough to try to see her the third time!

on time with no problems.....
sorry if i wrecked that pussy for you dude... LOL
joking, but she did say she was going to get a bite to eat.

Pamelaplays.com  Just to add to the posting, Pamela cancelled on me last week at the last minute at BWI. I had scheduled 3 days in advance and she at least gave me a heads up with lots of apologies about 30 minutes before appointment. I gave her the benefit of the doubt (hey, people get sick) but now not so sure. She's in tysons and considered calling, but certainly wont now. Also, thanks for the heads up about Bailey: she was on my radar but no more. Who needs that crap?

...WE NEVER CONFIRMED ALTHOUGH I TRIED! I APOLOGIZE FOR THE CONFUSION.

BESIDES....I JUST GOT HERE LAST NIGHT...SO HOW IS THIS POSSIBLE??

Seen both ladies, Pamela most recently and all went Perfect. She
is great at getting back to my emails and looking forward to seeing
her again.  No problems here.

We Have chatted many many times since that day and you know exactly what happend at the airport- I never made it in until the next day! I just received your email asking me to extend my tour in DC...so I know and YOU know the truth. This whole mess is CRAZY and mostly un-true! I am an independent whom handles my own bookings ect, for ALL of our safety, so at times it gets hectic and I admit making a few mistakes with scheduling, But Im past that, Ive learned and can only handle the things that are in my control. JC-IM NOT PERFECT...although I try!

we chatted but never confirmed a set time.

I set MY own appts wise ass. Bailey is someone I do doubles with...not my handeler- DUH!

Excuse me???? I TOTALLY have my act together "skankazoid". I have great reviews so the stories you have heard are partial or not true! As far as me handeling my biz like a "street walker"...YOU my friend are VERY wrong and Im totally insulted by that!! Im starting to think that other providers or there clients are falsely writing all of this BS!

This whole thread is a summary of the past 2 years? Some of you I havent chatted with in monthes, However every single one of you have contacted me since to book.  Why the sudden attack now?? I quit dont understand how these threads get so exagerated and for the most part - false. I have great reviews, I always give 100% and will continue to do so. Insults, name calling and degrading remarks are really un-called for and immature. Thanks to all of the gents whom know me and have joined this madness to defend me! Big hugs & DFKS!
Pamela

Thanks babe! I heard about this thread this morning and could not beleive it! Im SO pissed about the lies, namecalling, ect but YOU know how hard I work and try to do and be the very best...it tears me..but hey, I assume this is part of it all. cant wait to see ya again!
MUAH

I can't comment on the thread - although Pamela DOES look like someone I'd love to see -- but "skankazoid is the funniest handle I have seen on here. Way to go buddy.  Love it.

As in Bond. Pamela Bond.

Licensed to blow your mind!

I have meet with Pam several times and NEVER had a problem with contacing, scheduling, appt time, or the secession itself.  "Streetwalker" Thats F'ed Up skankazoid. Simply NOT TRUE

...as I look at my email from the past 2 days (including today), I see *****, *****, **** - ect ect ect, emails from EVERY ONE of you guys that are posting these threads - acknowledging my visit (tysons today& tomorrow), requesting my company even though it didnt work out before, or stating that timeing is no good but will DEF love to see me next visit. HMMmmm - HOW ODD! Pissed because I havent responded yet? Im not a big "partier", so leave the "six pack" in YOUR fridge! I stand by my work ethics, plan only to improve and will keep on keeping on!! Perhaps I should start with the maker of this thread - post his email and continue?? NOT- I said my part and I will no longer add fuel to this uncalled for fire. Have a GREAT weekend! BIG HUGS & DFKS!

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Fugly

Wow...talk about over-sensitive....I contact PamelaPlays about meeting up this week, and her response was

"Are you the same "luvsmilfsandgreek" on ter that was ripping me up and promoting "Pamela Bond"?
"Never disrespect me- I always remember and it's totally un expectable!"

Remember, hell more like hallucinated...