First, when has there not been a demand for hot women to have sex with?? What I find laughable is that Johns, Drug Pushers, Rapists, Serial Killers, tax cheats, and the people who steal M&Ms from the local 7-11 are all clumped together. I am willing to bet my right testicle and left arm that if every John would be arrested, capitol hill, the pentagon and just about every lawfirm and lobbyfirm in the city would be closed for business. Not to mention just about every male governor in the US. I am pretty sure that most police depts would also be facing a shortage of manpower.
One more thing. I would like to know what hobbyist would admit that he is a hobbyist in public and then say he would rape a woman if he could get away with it. The entire article is actually laughable. As the matter of fact I have been the one who got raped by providers in the past. And they were paid very well for their services.
Hobby on guys and try not to beat and rape the girls.
Good read.
http://www.newsweek.com/2011/07/17/the-growing-demand-for-prostitution.html
"The John Next Door"
"The men who buy sex are your neighbors and colleagues. A new study reveals how the burgeoning demand for porn and prostitutes is warping personal relationships and endangering women and girls."
However, I completely I disagree with one study mentioned in the article... total bs ->
"In their interviews, the sex buyers often voiced aggression toward women, and were nearly eight times as likely as non-buyers to say they would rape a woman if they could get away with it."
....."Farley’s team had a shockingly difficult time locating men who really don’t do it".....ROTfLMAO....sounds accurate!
Frankly, I'm treated like a Princess from y'all....much better than any civie date, by far....thank you for making me rotten...HA
1. "Many johns view their payment as giving them unfettered permission to degrade and assault women. “You get to treat a ho like a ho,” one john said. “You can find a ho for any type of need—slapping, choking, aggressive sex beyond what your girlfriend will do.”
Disagree: I treat my provider-ladies just the same as I treat my own girl... not "treat a ho like a ho". Lots of BS in this study. Maybe it focused on the lower-end of the scale or something?
2. “You can see that life circumstances have kind of forced her into that,” said one nonbuyer in the study. “It’s like someone jumping from a burning building—you could say they made their choice to jump, but you could also say they had no choice.”
Mixed feelings: Some were forced and had no choice, but many girls simply just love the luxurious lifestyle, making several times more money than most doctors/lawyers, meeting exciting new people, and addicted to the high life.
There are more I don't agree with but too drunk to continue typing sensibly. I'm sure others will contribute.
First, when has there not been a demand for hot women to have sex with?? What I find laughable is that Johns, Drug Pushers, Rapists, Serial Killers, tax cheats, and the people who steal M&Ms from the local 7-11 are all clumped together. I am willing to bet my right testicle and left arm that if every John would be arrested, capitol hill, the pentagon and just about every lawfirm and lobbyfirm in the city would be closed for business. Not to mention just about every male governor in the US. I am pretty sure that most police depts would also be facing a shortage of manpower.
One more thing. I would like to know what hobbyist would admit that he is a hobbyist in public and then say he would rape a woman if he could get away with it. The entire article is actually laughable. As the matter of fact I have been the one who got raped by providers in the past. And they were paid very well for their services.
Hobby on guys and try not to beat and rape the girls.
I don't have time to read the whole article but from what I read, it does not seem to support a correlation between prostitution and violent behavior.
Farley's conclusion that pornography and prostitution is "inherently harmful and should be eradicated," looks to be her preference not supported by the results of her interviews.
"In their interviews, the sex buyers often voiced aggression toward women, and were nearly eight times as likely as non-buyers to say they would rape a woman if they could get away with it."
and
"Farley’s findings suggest that the use of prostitution and pornography may cause men to become more aggressive."
I don't see a causal relationship here and I don't even see a correlation between pornography or prostitution, and violence. I interpret it as saying that prostitution and pornography is correlated with the *fantasy* of aggression, and do not necessarily incite violent behavior. It is possible that prostitution and pornography prevent the acting out of such fantasy.
According to an article in the August 2011 issue (yes, it is already out) of Scientific American Mind, "The Sunny Side of Smut", "for most people, pornography use has no negative effects -- and it may even deter sexual violence." There are a couple of references included in the article. It talks about pornography, not prostitution, but since the Newsweek article lumps prostitution with pornography, I'm offering it as another side of the debate.
A quote from the Scientific American Mind article under the section "Self-Medicating with Fantasy",
"Perhaps the most serious accusation against pornography is that it incites sexual aggression. But not only do rape statistics suggest otherwise, some experts believe the consumption of pornography may actually reduce the desire to rape by offering a safe, private outlet for deviant sexual behavior."
The authors of this "study" definitely had an antiprostitution agenda. There have been many studies that determined that there is/isn't a causal relationship between the consumption of porn and violence. As for this idea that only the poor ,those with histories of substance abuse, or histories of being abused by adults go into the sex industry, the same can be said for any low status (as perceived by society) job.
Thursday night I watched a documentary that was about under aged girls in the UK having sex with no appreciation for the possible consequences. I regularly saw lots of teens in the 7-11 after I got off of my shift after midnight. If anything is driving poor life choices it's the inattention of parents. Given the way society's headed these young people, while legally under age, enter the hobby with their eyes open. This whole blame the pimp/john thing is an out for these prostitutes.
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