But Goals are difficult to achieve when they are not backed by action...Its very easy to get sidetracked and lose focus because life always does come in the way of the goals. Most people when they get sacked by life, never get back up again. I am a firm believer that if you want to change something, DO IT NOW !!! Don't wait till NEW YEAR, because there is nothing mystical or mythical about NEW YEAR that will suddenly help one achieve the goals..

As the old adage goes, "When the going gets tough, the tough gets going !!" I hope that you achieve all your goals this year, but it may get tough, as it always does....

For me, personally, I don't have any resolutions. A few years ago, I wanted to quit drinking, and was able to successfully do it in 2010. I haven't had any alcohol since Jan 2010.  I am working towards a long term goal, that will come to fruition in June 2014..

Very Best...

Curly...

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I will not let the smaller head call the shot.
I will not let the smaller head call the shot.
I will not let the smaller head call the shot.
I will not let the smaller head call the shot.
I will not let the smaller head call the shot....

Thanks for sharing here are mine

Having met most of my goals so far, there are some that have always eluded me. Mostly because of my lack of willpower.

1) Eat better. Cut sweets, eat a more balanced healthy diet and stop skipping breakfast.

2) Cut some dead weight. By this I mean that I am going to eradicate some people that are selfish, cynical, possessive and destructive from my life. Maybe not completely but put some distance between us.

3) Take golf lessons. Now that I quit doing martial arts, I need to channel my energy into a new recreation.

4) Finally have a surgery that I have been putting off for years.

Hi Rebecca,

Always enjoy your posts honey.

(1)  Staying safe is objective #1 for 2013.  No more BP girls, period, unless I can 100% verify. And even then....

(2)  Continue getting STD tested every ten weeks.  Not just for myself and the community, but mostly for my SO.  

(3)  Stay determined to see some absolutely wonderful women with whom I have been communicating.  Surprised myself by actually meeting 2012's objective of having ATFs in place heading into 2013, but there are a few awesome women who have offered to include me in their world and I want to work them in.

(4) While I have my weight exactly where I wanted it heading into 2013, I need to eat healthier in maintaining that weight.  Skipping meals is not an acceptable methodology.

(5)  Did I mention staying safe, both health-wise and legally?

Boo Redskins.

I hope that Seattle beats the snot out of the Skins this Sunday. I'm a Dallas fan. I read a great book recently that you might dig. it's called Inspired Manifestation by Mark J. Ryan. I was buried in the book and finished in 2 days. Anyway happy new year.