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Re: STD question - - please advise.
snowyday 2155 reads
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Yeah, I've tried to get in touch with the provider by leaving a message on her VM service, but no call back yet - - is this something I can talk about over the phone?

I'm pretty sure this hobby is finished - - it was a fantasy I wanted to act out on and I am regretting it now.  I'm very sure it was her since my girlfriend and I were both tested last november for everything, HIV, Herpes, blood test, swabs, etc and everything was clean - and I only noticed something was wrong after my second visit with the provider.

I dont know what to do in terms of saying who it was on this board - - shes very popular and has had great reviews... :(

snowyday4086 reads

Hi, I'm a paying member of TER since I mostly use the site to view provider profiles.  I've only ever been with one provider, but I've seen her twice.  

Long story short, I've been diagnosed with HSV2 type herpes and im pretty close to positive I contracted it from this provider.  How should I handle this in terms of letting other hobbyists know?  I dont know what to do and would appreciate any advice.

Thanks.

snowydaydork3996 reads

First of all  you need to let the provider know ASAP.  Have her get tested and show the results.  So there is no speculation about if you got it from her.  Then you both should proceed to the next step.  Try and be more selective next time too.

Ouch! That brings up a lot of questions. This would be the first time I ever heard of a client getting anything from a reputable provider. IF this turns out to be true then what are you going to do? Are you going to allow her to infect the rest of the community? Where do we stand in this group on social responsibility?
Also, are you going to still Hobby? Are you going to tell the lady when you make the appointment about your HSV2?
I was just thinking the other day that there should be a separate form for the infected so that they could enjoy each other with out putting anyone else at risk.
Please tell her right away to get checked. This is very disturbing news.

snowyday2156 reads

Yeah, I've tried to get in touch with the provider by leaving a message on her VM service, but no call back yet - - is this something I can talk about over the phone?

I'm pretty sure this hobby is finished - - it was a fantasy I wanted to act out on and I am regretting it now.  I'm very sure it was her since my girlfriend and I were both tested last november for everything, HIV, Herpes, blood test, swabs, etc and everything was clean - and I only noticed something was wrong after my second visit with the provider.

I dont know what to do in terms of saying who it was on this board - - shes very popular and has had great reviews... :(

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