Don't call her. I am sure she is aware of your situation and is making a consious effort to not communicate with you. For whatever reason you may have spooked her, or maybe even a reference you gave  did not hold up. Nontheless, I know that when a woman does not want to see you (civie or provider) there is nothing that can be done to change her mind. No amount of begging, pleading, explaining or even bribing will do. Chalk this one up to the missed opportunity colum and find another hottie to see.

I received an email from a very reputable provider saying she is coming to the area this week. We have never met because of our schedules. We are emailing back and forth from this email that I received, then when I go to set up an appointment, it all stops. I have sent off  a couple more very nice apologetic emails even though I didn't say or do anything wrong that I can think of. I do have a number that I found would it be inappropriate to call to see what I did wrong? Or should I just wait? Thoughts would be helpful.

How did you pay when you didn't see her?  Did the both of you meet somewhere to exchange $$$?  Did she give you an address to send to?  Did she give you an online account?  You state that she never wrote to say thanks, so that must mean you did not pay in person.  But you said she cut off contact, so how could she have given you information about payment?

Nothing personal against you tommychamp, but whenever a guy says he paid for a missed appointment, I find it hard to believe due to the logistical reasons I mentioned.  Or please elaborate so one day I will know how to pay for a missed appointment because I'm such a great guy.

My guess is that her dance card filled with trusted regulars and multi-hour appointments, and you were placed on a mysterious "wait list."  You were lucky that it happened earlier than 2 hours before your appointment. Feel free to wait if something opens up or move on, buddy.

give first priority to callers than emailers. It shows that you are more serious when you call. Especially because I'm usually too busy to sit in front a computer. That's why I don't utilize this message board as much as I would like to. But yes, you should call her up. If it does not work out Call Me! :>)

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Let's hope no one holds this against me but here is my story of emails that stopped.  I cancelled at the last second on a provider.  Needless to say she quit writing me.  Now that being said, she had every right to be mad and cut off contact.  I'm not mad at her, I felt so bad about doing it that I paid the entire fee for the appointment.  She never wrote to say thanks or anything.  I do understand her stance and respect her right not to speak to me again.  All I'm saying is when they cut off contact, just understand their right to.  I sooooo wanted to see my provider, but I guess I screwed up and I'm cool with that.  If they want to contact you they will.

I agree how did you pay her with no contact?

she didn't like your emails for some reason.  Why did you send an apologetic email?  Did you do anything wrong?   It's probably a small thing because she doesn't even know you.  I've had that happen a couple of times and it certainly wasn't anything I did.  If someone stops communcating from something that I wrote that I don't feel was wrong in any way my opinion of that person goes down so I usually don't want to see them anyway.  If there was nothing wrong with what you wrote spend your money on someone who will do better for you.

yeah right like someone would want to beg or bribe, LOL

One of the aspect of this business is that the ladies have the discretion of who they'll see. Probably nothing on your part wrong, just her dance card filled up. Wait for her to contact you. In the meantime, move on to the next lady in this area. The good thing about this area is there are enough ladies that you are not limited to just a few.