I have never done this thing yet.  The thing I am most curious about and I have not yet asked providers that I know that are married is this: who enjoys it: the hubby or the wife more (if both do).  Im with the guy above saying it would take the right special lady for me to get there.  Ladies, if you do this with your husbands or guys you know those that do, please pm me or otherwise ID yourself or them here. I am interested, just need persuading   By the way, I responded to the ad with some legit and anonomous emails and never heard boo!