A ladies got questions! And who better to ask then you guys

A)What do you like to see in ads? There is the obvious, availability & donation.  
B)Do you read the actual ad, or just skim through for the pertinent information?  
C)Do you like a few "sneak peak" photos? 
D)What sort of photos do you prefer?
E)For girls that visit, how far in advance do you like to see their ads? How frequent? 

Inquiring minds (or maybe just my mind lol) want to know!
Xoxo,
Allison 48J

 


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A. Professional pics, vital stats (ht, wt, measurements), & like to read something that sounds intelligent and evocative, but doesn't drone philosophically on forever (like Tantric ads do)

B. I do read carefully, unless it is like the aforementioned tantric ads that turn into long missives on the state of the universe - I skip to the next one real fast!

C. & D. Professional ones. Photos that show a whole profile, nude top, waistline, inclusion of full length of legs. But stop with the endless rear end shots! There's a lot else to a fine body worth looking at. The near-focus rear end shots generally just make a butt look like the size of a truck - not appealing. I guess that's what some guys like to see, but I'm not sure if that is really the case, I know it's a turn-off to me.

E. Maybe a week? No real strong feelings. What drives me crazy though is that the reviews don't come in until a girl is gone!

Just my $$$

Pretty much agree with the comments above.

Like to see a bit of your personality in the ad, but don't ramble on too much. For pictures, as much as you can allow for yourself. I like to see a provider's face but understand the privacy concerns; a blurred pic or side view can often be good. Location, price and stats are all good to have rather than referring to website.

Since we are all professionals, I like to see some advance notice. Two weeks is good. Since TER allows one ad per week, I would suggest  15 days ahead, then 8 days, then the day before arrival.

we can only post ads once a week per location...  

It is always nice to get a gentleman's perspective since after all, your typically the viewing audience! You have brought up some pretty great points here.

I browse the ads every so often and there are so many beautiful ladies! I imagine it as a client browsing a few must be tedious. There are some that are amazingly worded. Seductive, yet subtle.  

I have thought some time about having professional photos done, and will finally be doing so I June. The perfect time for a summer photo session.

So when you are booking an appointment with a lady, do you generally seek local females? Do you spot for visitors and wait a week or so? When you have chosen your playmate, what are the deciding factors? Sorry for the inquisition but those who don't ask will never know!  I assume by your first response you are very open to conversation, but it seems my assumptions have gotten me in a bit of trouble across the board (personal/business) lately lol.

Thank you for your input
Allison

What if your personally a rambler? Hahaha. Kidding, sort of. I sometimes catch myself rambling, but it is usually whimsical and much invited conversation. When I am writing out my ads, I do try to let my personality come through a bit. I'm just a young playful CA girl who likes tequila in the summer and penguins. I'm very....random. But in this profession, are we not to be super seductive and sensual and come hither-y?

AMAZING POINT! So you would rather read all/see all (referring to photos as well) here rather than browsing several sites. So how many photos do you like to see here?  

 
You come with posting advice as well? I usually try to follow that exact posting trend (are you in my mind and I don't know it? Lol) but sometimes I just like to get up and try something new! I am trying to break away from that, but really isn't that the whole reason you have an occupation that allows you so much freedom? Obviously as a provider a professional courtesy is due to those gentlemen who like to plan ahead, which is why HERE I AM! Seeking advice on posting timetables that suite your schedulong desire. So you like to see an advanced notice. Awesome. And duly noted kind sir

Sorry, was I rambling again? Shucks

Alli :

To tell you the truth, In browsing through ads of gorgeous sexy ladies, the word "tedious" has never come to mind  hard work, but somebody's gotta do it!

Interesting question - I usually seek out local talent. Not sure exactly why, seeking out visitors expands the possibilities enormously, but I think deep-down many of us guys are always on the prowl for a new or additional ATF, and that seems more plausible with someone who's around most of the time.  Others will have a very different answer.

Deciding factors? Ha, could write a book, and talk about differences among guys! For me, a well written ad, and no doubt about it, conforming to my ideal of a profile: medium or tall height, thin, B's. And I have this idiosyncrasy of preferring ladies fairly new to this without too many reviews, but need at least a couple, and they must be excellent. Again, other guys will have a much different view.  

It's so nice living in such an area with so many wonderful ladies, we guys can each have our own very specific preferences like that and still find a steady influx of compatible companions. Viva DC!

What is T4B?

I'm taking tons of notes. lol

It is not toys for twats, but toys for boys.

Good question, and something I will need to update. The acronym stands for toys for boys. Strap on, vibrator, cringe, etc.

Hope this helps
Allison

Well it seems as though your the right man for the job

Seeking local girls is a widespread practice, so that makes sense. I am sure this makes your ad browsing much easier as well jk. Finding a girl who you find attractive on multiple levels is what this game is all about, or so I believe it is. I love that I have regular guests that I visit with while I am home, and hopefully after I have been here for some time I will become someones ATF, or one of them at least Hey, a girl can dream right? Hahaha.

I thank you so much for your responses! They were very thoughtful and answered every single question I had pretty much to a T, even my additional questions. Thank you for being a team player! I think everyone's personal preference will take precedent to a lot of different deciding factors, but I was curious to get at least one gentleman's insight on what you like to see on the boards.

You my dear, have provided some wonderful intel. Thanks a bunch!

Xoxo,
Alliso

Lol I am not ashamed to ask questions. Hopefully I am not the only one who finds this post useful.

I googled it just to see what someone who possibly has never seen the term before, and not much in the p4p realm pops up. I am glad for this question! Let's me know I have some detailing to do. And dontcha know? it's always the holiday season! There's girls all around, what more of a gift can one have? Ha!

Allison

is a pet peeve. Once someone I was dying to see toured my area for a few days, and he ad went up the day before she started taking appointments. A lot of us need more lead time to free up time and work out a cover story. I must be missing something because this seems on the surface to be a great way to shoot oneself in the foot as a provider.

and restricted to touring providers. I always appreciate when someone takes the time to post a mini-review, but I suspect a lot of us don't think about the purpose and usefulness of them, as I see so few.

I was thinking the same thing when i saw one in another city. I didnt think guys did them here. Hopefully more will pop up since they are useful to gents and providers alike.

I used to use a site in CA where posting a mini was really the normal course of action after seeing a lady. and daily! Men were much more active in that sense, but then again they got shut down sooooo.... Lol

#bringbacktheminis

Alli

Well this is a different perspective. Are you saying you do not really care too much for the ads, lingo, type of photos, etc, as long as they are placed well in advance for the scheduled visit?  

As far as pop up ads are concerned, well I guess I can address that for myself! I sometimes get up and just...go. I have regular clients in many cities since I am used to traveling a lot (something I am trying to break since being settled in MD) so it is fairly easy to just plan a quick trip. I get sort of bored easily. While this isn't very ideal for clients such as yourself, there are also those who just browse daily. If I have a guest in another city request a visit with short notice and am able to accommodate I usually will, placing an ad for those dates.  

Hopefully this helps explain that a little? At least from my point of view at least. Other ladies may have their opinions(which are welcomed!) but I guess that is why there is only one Lovely Allison 48J, and one whomever else.

Alli

I would look at the reviews of providers that are very high, and look at their web pages.  While a lot of it is service based reviews, look at their websites.

A)What do you like to see in ads? There is the obvious, availability & donation.    

I'm trying to think of what I like to see in an ad, and what makes me actually see (or not see) a provider.

Full length standing photo, front, side and back.  This can make or break you, though.  After awhile you learn the little tricks, too;oversized bra, arms folded under breasts pushing them up (in every photo), or all photos lying down.  When I was newer, I would fall for this, but learned quickly.  Never seeing your stomach, that raises questions, but not a deal breaker necessarily.

A little bit about you is helpful (more to see if you are literate or not).  It doesn't have to be super long.  Price point dictates paragraph.  If you're a $1,000 provider and write, "Yo, phat baby mama here to YOLA on dat azz".  Then no, I'm not going to see you.

B) Do you read the actual ad, or just skim through for the pertinent information?  

Depends.  If I'm on the fence will read the entire ad and mull it over.  If something catches my eye, skim over it because you already have me for whatever other reason. I don't know what that 'whatever' is, but know it when I see it.  If you want a good ad, I liked Naughty Natalie out of Chicago (?), didn't really fit what I normally like, but liked the ad - and she was a winner.

C) Do you like a few "sneak peak" photos?  

I like seeing updated accurate photo.  Again, what I like versus what will bring me in as a client. Updated photos mean Summer/Fall and/or Winter 2014 are close enough.

 
D)What sort of photos do you prefer?  

I like seeing boobs, legs, stomach, and partial of face is ok to get an idea - eyes are good, thats often a make or break for me.  Girl bending over doggie style w/panties and nude top will get me often.

E) For girls that visit, how far in advance do you like to see their ads? How frequent?  

One full week is best two at most, I don't know my schedule further out to be honest.  

There are several women I'd like to see, have great ads, great reviews, fit what I like, but for some reason I just haven't called (Sidney Star, April Azura, etc.)  Also, I'm avoiding independents because a lot of flakiness in DC - so I'll see an agency girl before DC independent.  That being said, I have an OK from one local independent, just trying to schedule - on me, not her.

Outside of DC, I'll see an independent because screening and date-set-up is super easy.

I also need to see at least two or more TER reviews.  If there is no link to TER reviews, then no bueno.

Hope that was helpful.
 

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For starters "Yola on DAT azz" STILL has me laughing to the point of tears. Lmao, unfortunately I know a lot of very bright ladies/men who think so and is a true second language! Moving on.

In am so glad I made this post, because it shows the variety in men's style of searching so to speak. You brought up some very great points as well. After a while you start to learn your best poses when taking photos, so it is easy to take new photos with like styles. This isn't always good, because then you get gentys (in my case) who don't think I have a stomach, and that sucks! I am here to say, I am a tall, beautiful, voluptuous woman with a stomach and love handles! Yes I said it! I am definitely more conscious of what I eat and am working on slimming down A BIT, I'd like to keep SOME of my beautiful curves. Luckily my stamina hasn't taken any hits

Here I am with so many questions! So what usually catches your eye? A certain act? Type of session? Fetish word play? Etc. There is a lady here who's ads I love love love! Zoey Zachary. She is a very unique provider in my eyes.  

You seem to be very visual, which is nice. The lines of a ladies body are a piece of art, admired by different men for different reasons. I have read of flakiness from both sides, men and women, so maybe you guys/gals up there are just super busy! Lol. It is unfortunate in either case, and hopefully it has gotten a bit better. I know when I am in town there is one less goirl flaking

Thank you for your unique insight. It is nice to get yet another view of what you gents like. You can't accommodate everyone, but your answers are a great start to making changes for the best!  

Alliso

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She has a good website.  Again, I'm a sampling of one person, hardly a broad and robust section of the targeted population.

I did browse and enjoyed it myself, you go girl!

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Obviously not a realm I have explored much. But perhaps I should....

Thanks, babe!

Why thank you! But after reading these tips, I plan on updating a few things before the week is over!

It would be my pleasure to introduce you to something new. If you have any questions feel free to PM me dear

Have a wicked Wednesday!  

You're my kind of gal!
I'm typically inquisitive by nature so these are the type of questions I would ask. Hell, you'll never know what is working or what you can improve on if you don't ask.

Well, if you really wanna know, what they REALLY like are silly stories narrated by various body parts.

I mean, you ask them what they want...you'll get a hundred different answers. Sometimes they don't know they want it until they see it. Others want one thing, one thing only, one type, nothing else will do.

You'll go crazy trying to suss it out. Law, honey chile, just be yourself!

That's the best way. You attract the kind of clients who get you, who resonate with you and your appointments will be awesome. Your reviews will be awesome. It will be just...awesome

I don't have particular likes or dislikes about how an ad looks. And see, I told you I must have been missing something: the ability to just get up and go to a city sounds like an awesome perk...I sure as hell can't do it! It's a bummer if someone does that and I want to see her and can't, but I can't argue with how cool it is to be able to do that.

up to a month in advance is fine IMO, much more than that wouldn't be necessary for me.
No more than a couple sentences are necessary - most important impressions of what a lady is really like will come from reading her reviews, not from reading blurbs in ads.
And yes, availability and rates are critical to have in the ad too.

Allison,  
You seem like you really aim to please. I'd like to weigh in so I might be able to do my small part to help you do that.

AD PREFERENCES:  
A) I look especially for detailed availability; i.e., what times during what days. In case I haven't found you through TER, it's very helpful to have a link to your reviews as well.  It's not a big deal, but I prefer to see ads that have proper grammar, punctuation, and do not include tons of random ASCII characters. I may not read something that looks like you typed up in the shower. While I do appreciate reading additional details about you, I will skip text that's effusive with colorful adjectives that bear no relevance to anything.   It An e-mail address is also helpful for times when a phone call might not be able feasible or appropriate. DON'T FORGET YOUR RATE!  

B) If I'm at all interested I will read the ad either until I see an issue, or until I finish. Whether or not I am interested enough to start reading stems from a combination of the core variable group (attraction, location, rate, etc).  Should I end up calling, I'll have read every word.

PHOTOS:
C) Not especially interested in "sneak peak" photos. See D.

D) What I look for first, second, and third in photos is to see that they are really of the provider, and fairly recent. Everything else is not important to me. In fact, I prefer they are PG rated, so when the times comes I am surprised.  I can not emphasize this next part enough: it doesn't matter how many pictures there are or how perfect your body may be. If there's no pic that shows your face I won't bother reading a word. I'd prefer one pic of only the face to a dozen body shots from different angles.  That's just what's important to me.

LISTING FREQUENCY:  
E) I like to see that a provider has established themselves in my area a little bit, so I prefer a listing be posted at least once prior (and as often as, but no more than daily). What's important is that I know you're here! That being said, I do not schedule very far in advance, if at all. I prefer spontaneity if it's possible.  

   
 Best of luck to you Allison!
 

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