when she's faking it?
if you asked the lady you see if she does and she told you yes, would you stop seeing her?in a P4P situation.. I am guilty myself, but in my defense I was 23, and only a bigger dummy would get butt hurt over a truthful answer.
Most of us make the ladies cum 2-3 times easy!
reason I ask is because i just read a review where the guy crushed her for being fake. every other review she has is excellent. so he takes her to task not for her looks but her "performance". so how the hell does he know and not all the others she was acting.
I don’t know what the guy said in the review, but he might have been tipped off by overacting. I’ve had a few situations where the response was out of proportion to what I was doing. I knew myself it was nothing special. Then when I stumbled onto something that did work, the reaction was different.
How did I know it was working? Wetness, heat, stuff like that. Or maybe it wasn’t what I was doing - maybe they started thinking about their ex-boyfriends and I just happened to be there. Still, I facilitated
I've had a lovely lady make every conceivable sound known to mankind, with a bunch of "oh baby"s mixed in - all while she was just giving me a handjob! Kind of distracting. I wanted to just tell her to relax and be herself (because she really was a sweetheart), but in that situation I think it's probably best to just go with the flow and let her do her thing the best way she knows how.
a review would you put that part in there?
makes sense and sort of my approach.
i never try to "perform' with an escort but, to me, "faking" orgasm doesnt really matter as much because unless she's a nympho, she can't really be excited about EVERY single client one EVERY appointment. Faking the other stuff just to manipulate you into more appointments is worse. The " I can't wait to see you or "you're SO big down there" (when you're really average)
that REALLY adds to my enjoyment of the date. A shared great experience just can't be beat!
When, after 20-30 minutes of DATY, a woman's back arches more than you thought it could, the rock hard clit softens at last, she shudders for thirty seconds, she needs a break for a few minutes before she is ready to continue, she thanks you from her heart, and she wants you to come see her again, the odds are pretty good that she had a big O.
Otherwise, it can be hard to tell sometimes, but I would never ask. If she seemed to really enjoy it, I am quite happy to believe she did
reaction I suppose as you don't often read about fake O's in reviews.
this review did mention it, hence the question.
Asking about it is not common because it would most likely make her defensive right? I just wondered if guys who most likely are not always sure would change their opinion of the lady they see if they knew in fact she did.
last year someone admitted to this in an online clip and iwonder if the reviewers who raved about her performance would still see her knowing she was full of it.
As Curly noted if you read reviews we all give them multiple orgasms. So they must be faking it at a minimum most of the time. Isn't it enough these beautiful ladies make us feel like kings.
I wouldn’t say stop asking period because sometimes you want to know because you want them to have a good time, too (at least a good enough time to take they’re not thinking about their mortgage the whole time) but definitely never ask HER. It puts the lady on the spot and you probably won’t fully trust a “yes” anyway.
I’ve screwed up and asked myself but because there was some sudden shift to another activity and I was surprised. Thankfully, I had enough sense to not press it and accept that maybe that was a polite way of saying “I’ve had my fill of that, let’s move on to something else.”
But if you did ask and she felt comfortable enough with you to be honest, that might be a “connection” worth holding on to. (And maybe you can learn something if she didn't mind doing some guiding.)
Plus you wouldn’t want to punish her by taking business away from her for being honest.
But if the faking is the status quo, you have to ask yourself what you really want from this. Are you ok with receiving a service and is she only offering a one way service, in which case it wouldn’t matter if she did or didn’t, or do you want something more… interactive?
If you’re thinking about how she feels, just know that the desire for something more interactive can be taxing, too. For her, there’s probably going to be some work involved either way. How much depends on how comfortable she is with you personally and sexually
...such as, "come for me baby, come on, yeah, I'm gonna lick/fuck you 'til you come," then she's definitely faking.
Some women are vocal, but more commonly she'll close her eyes, lost in quiet concentration (which some guys probably misread as being distant or mentally checking out) and end with some variation of shutter/shiver/spasm/pussy clamp. Voila!
To add, saying 'cum for me' and 'I'm going to fuck you until you cum' will dissolve all chances of me cumming. It puts on too much pressure and I lose concentration. I'm usually really silent when I'm close - so don't talk to me lol.
most of the time, if you are paying attention to her. There are symptoms of an "O" that are easily faked (the moans, the deep breathing, voluntary movements) and there are signs of an "O" that are not fakeable (facial and chest flushing, dilated pupils, abdominal ridging, increased lubrication, involuntary contractions).
Physiology aside, the practical truth is that no woman will "O" all the time, everytime - just like at times dudes can't get Mr. Woody to rise to the occasion. Stress, meds... so many reasons that apply to both sexes. That doesn't mean that sex can't be extremely pleasurable, you simply have to view the "O" as something other than the only thing that is important about sex. Expecting an "O" or trying to "make" her have an "O" simply adds pressure and takes away from the otherwise enjoyable experience of sex on the whole, and pretty much guarantees the "O" won't happen.
Women fake the "O" because they believe (based upon mostly valid experience) that guys need that to stroke their egos and feel good about the sex. They do it for you, to try to make your experience feel better. Why in the world would I hold that against someone and not see her again if I liked her?
Set your ego needs aside, take the pressure off of her, and have a much better experience whether in hobby-land or IRL.
My ego .its about.how you tell its. Not real. and if you would continueif she were to tell you.
Physiology aside, the practical truth is that no woman will "O" all the time, everytime - just like at times dudes can't get Mr. Woody to rise to the occasion. Stress, meds... so many reasons that apply to both sexes. That doesn't mean that sex can't be extremely pleasurable, you simply have to view the "O" as something other than the only thing that is important about sex. Expecting an "O" or trying to "make" her have an "O" simply adds pressure and takes away from the otherwise enjoyable experience of sex on the whole, and pretty much guarantees the "O" won't happen.
Women fake the "O" because they believe (based upon mostly valid experience) that guys need that to stroke their egos and feel good about the sex. They do it for you, to try to make your experience feel better. Why in the world would I hold that against someone and not see her again if I liked her?
Set your ego needs aside, take the pressure off of her, and have a much better experience whether in hobby-land or IRL.
Faking other stuff is wors
Now I understand your first post. Absolutely with you now.
when Steve Martin's girlfriend is dumping him in a nasty way and tells him she faked all her orgasms. She does a fake "Oh god yeah" thing and says "Sounds familiar?" After she's gone, Steve Martin says "Yeah, well I faked all of my orgasms too!"
like when I'm tired and i just want to get it over with.