That is standard practice. I always carry a few boxes of condoms with me.

I have lost track on how many ladies have asked me to stop by 7-11 to get condoms.

Sometimes they beg for my extra box of condoms or take few before a leave.

True she should be prepared. I know that as soon as I run out I make it a priority to restock ASAP.

May be i'm missing something so you guys can clue me in. I'm speaking to a provider trying to set something up. after everything is settled she asks me if i have protection. Obviously i don't. Can i pick some up on the way she says. Thats a deal breaker for me. My question is why would she not be prepared?

Next time it happens tell her that if she can't provide supplies she shouldn't be in the business. And then hang up.  All good providers provide condoms.

There is a very slim chance that it could be a LE trap. Your conversation could be taped and used against you in court of Law.

Asking people indiscreet questions like that are likely to make potential new friends ( girls or guys) very apprehensive to meet you. Although I do believe everyone should feel responsible for their own sexual health and always arrive to any meeting prepared with what they need to take care of the job.

I do not allow my clients to bring their own.  One guy even tried to use lambskin condoms!  Seriously?!  Not!  

It is not as you say "Par for the course."  It is unprofessional.

I have had a few providers ask me dis. I say ok over the phone and dont bring them anyway...When I get dere I dont mention it until my clothes are completely off. When she asks did u bring them I give her the "aww shucks" face and act real lazy like dam u want me to go back out dere when im already comfy...From dere she can give u a few options:

-Say dats OK and just go 4 it.
-Tell u to get off ur lazy butt and go get dem (yet risk me not coming back cuz I would want my money back which then may revert to option 1)
-She takes out her secret condom stash and was just using u to bring ur own so she wouldnt have to use hers/ or get 1 from her travel provider partner
-Refuse to do anything without and from dat point I just request BBBJ with CIM/COF ONLY

Usually the last one works and the secret stash is the last option.

Does she also tell you to get an English tutor?

So, I assume you guys would not see the provider because of this simple issue? You guys act like she has to be perfect. Is life like that? Is your job like that? Hell, I can't even get a good cappuccino at Starbucks and I pay good money for it.

You guys need to loosen up. I can't image if she called and say, "please wait for 5 minutes, I'll be ready by then". Damn, some of you guys are stuck up expecting too much from everybody.

I will give you guys the benefit of the doubt that providers should be well stock. But, as we all know, shit happens, and she may run out--I gave my reason on the OP. If you can OP, try to always have a couple of your own just in case. Also, shit happens, and don't let this discourage you from seeing her, especially if she is well reviewed.

Lambskin condoms !!! You got to be kidding me. One lady told me she had some magnums for me and I told her they were too big, lol. I would not want the rascal to slip off. I also bring them because use them on toys, etc. Sometimes in multiple positions you have to change them. Also if you are doing doubles you have to change them. Also if you go from oral to vaginal (they should be changed) or from anal to vaginal, etc. I have read a lot of reviews where the lady only has one condom, what a shame. Glad to see there are some quality woman out there doing the right thing in keeping supplies. It is a real pain as one guy pointed sneaking those condoms around if you have a SO at home.

The girl had just flown in to town and her luggage didn't make it. They let me know in time, so it was no bother really. The girl was very appreciative -- I brought her a box of the usual cheapos they usually have, and a smaller box of good ones.

I always carry my own -- I need the gold package, plus I never want to run the risk that there is no cover available.  Sometimes nothing will do but Full Service, and I won't go BB for that. (I also carry my own shampoo so I go home smelling the way I left...)

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Some may run out and do not want to make you wait for your appointment. Its just more convenience for both parties. This will not the the only time this will happen. You shouldn't let something as small as this affect your decision to see her. Those are peanut issues, I wouldn't even call it unprofessional. We are all human, and things happen. My view of professionalism is a "stay at home performance".

With all due respect...regardless of this being her job....sometimes things happen.  I've gone to meetings and forgotten a writing pen and assume there would be one.  Hard to take 2 hours worth of mental notes.

I would, however, suggest that its VERY unsafe to have a Guy bring the protection.  Most women do a screening on their date...but there's no "AIDS" check.  And what's to say some evil bastard won't take a needle and poke holes in the condoms he brings.  There's some evil a**holes in this world.

I use snugger fitting condoms on all of my toys.  They stay on very well.  

The nice thing about the female condoms is during a double, you can go back and forth from one lady to the other because you are the only one entering the female condom.  She is protected and so are you.  Going back and forth from oral to vaginal works better too!

I couldn't imagine asking my clients to bring their own protection!

Kisses! Betty xoxo

I visited a well reviewed provider once and when I got there she said that she had run out of condoms.  Told me to go to the corner store and buy some.  As  I was leaving she said, Oh, get yourself a coke if you want one!   Like she was giving me permission to spend my own money.  LMFAO

I've had this asked to me three times and I've done it all three times.  Of course, each occasion was with providers that I had seen multiple times and I was comfortable with, and vice versa.  The first two times I stopped by a 7-11 and got a three pack, and as mentioned before, ended up having to throw a way a few so I wouldn't get caught.  Last time I was asked to pick up a big box.  Did so, met my provider who asked "how much do I owe you?".  Didn't take her money, and that has increased her trust with me.

But I agree, if you're seeing a girl for the first time she should be prepared.

I like crown condoms but almost no provide has them.  I use to ask if I could bring an unopened box but the answer was always "no".  I just stopped asking.  Your experience is not common at all.

That's hilarious.

I was visiting my ATF who is retired now and see asked me to go to corner store and get some, but I totaly refused and she went her shelf while I waited at her condo.

Maybe u can school on proper vocab...Do I also need to include APA references?

LMAO!! Always can get a good laugh on here.

I guess I'm a little shocked. They can be bought in bulk, cheaply. CondomDepot for anyones fyi. Mail order ladies.

I don't think I could ever ask my gentlemen to bring them, its just something I should have and supply. Everyday I see something new on here that just amazes me.

but I would be more afraid I was being set up by LE as nobody would try to refer to sex before a face to face. Not unless they don't mind handcuffs..