1) yes, like wnkyeah said, a beautiful natural smile, that does indeed instantly transmit SO MUCH and sets the whole date up for success. The initial welcome, seeing a lady with a radiant smile can't be beat it. And when it is on a SECOND visit, it's almost even better, because of the warm familiarity.
2) a naturally sensuous woman, not sure this can be faked. It's about more than just getting guys off. I get a massage every week at a local place that doesn't even involve a HE, yet is INCREDIBLY sensuous. Having a natural sensuality flow through a woman's hands, with the sole purpose being the pure unrushed pleasure of each moment, with each touch. Soooo nice.
3) Other personal traits: Down to earth, smart, witty, fully present, looks you in the eye, brings her real personality and isn't afraid to reveal it, isn't overly guarded.
4) {Yeah, I'm cheating by adding a 4th} A woman who flat-out REALLY enjoys sex. Skills are important, and all these other things are great too - but when you have all those things, connect, AND have a lady who really loves getting-off too?? Well, this can just ramp things up to a whole different level of fun. And yeah, I know there are theatrics and academy award quality efforts, but when she is truly enjoying herself too you can usually tell (but if she really is the ultimate actress and she has you fooled, nothing wrong with that either I suppose!).
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