You are right - A well done FBSM session is VERY hard to find

I've been on the quest for years and only come close.  BC me and we'll talk.

In what area? I'm looking for the exact same thing, but in downtown DC. There are some well-reviewed ladies in Northern Virginia who provide massage (Jessie Yum Yum and Ms. Tigress spring to mind). I think MeganErotic is available for massage. Violet at Dreams Escort Service is reportedly a CMT. BaltimoreBetty was studying massage, as has Mea (MeaCulpa05).

is to find the perfect FBSM provider.  If you are looking in Nova Megan Erotic and Midori Koki come to mind.  PM me for more details if its nova you are looking for.

It's a bit of a hike from DC, and you can't have the BJ or the DATY, but in my humble opinion, you can't beat Cherish in Richmond.  She does Tantric massage, which can be a little hokey for the uninitiated, but I am hooked.  Her massage skills are out of this world, and when I say you will leave totally satisfied, I mean you will still be tingling on your way out the door.  She has a wonderful personality, a very relaxing conversational style, and is beautiful to boot.  If you make it down to RIC to see her, treat her right and she will give you a great experience.