Washington DC
Re: Maybe I wasn't as clear as I meant to be....
btw, I get that urge for a spur of the moment meeting but know that most providers wont offer it. only way is to see a regular
you're absolutely right! doesn't make any sense unless all of you're references are over a year old.
to answer the question tho, perhaps in those spur of the moment situations, you could repeat with one of the lovelies you've seen before.
So, here's an interesting scenario....I'm not a newb, and I have double-digit reviews on this site as well as a few referrals, and I belong to one of those "date check" sites with double-digit references....so I wake up this morning with a woodie and a handful of cash, the perfect combination for stirring up some action in this hobby. Or so I thought....
I begin calling a few ladies, and dropping a few emails, and texting a few more. Mostly no answers, and I understand that last-minute action isn't always possible. But I connect with one "agency" that wants to contact a reference or two, so I provide a couple of trusty names. But I also point to one of the "date check" sites with my member ID, where ten ladies of unquestionable reputation have already said "we met." Why the heck doesn't this "agency" accept those ten references?
At the end of the day, the money remains in my pocket and my woodie will be taken care of by Lady Rocky, but this whole day unfolded in a rather curious and somewhat frustrating manner....
Is there a way to get some immediate attention by our superior ladies on short notice without having to wait for a reference to get back to them, which could take many days...?
Are very useful at giving your request a certain degree of priority but they merely get your foot in the door as any intelligent and reputable person will still wish to hear it from the horses mouth so to speak by doing a ref check to err on the side of safety. There have been too many cases of inaccurate Okays and Recommendations being giving out via those sites and so we like to double check. Better luck next time!
I provided my "Date Check" ID and my TER ID, both. It would be simple for any provider or agency to check each account, and see who referred me or who I reviewed. Pick one or two who you know, and contact them on your own. Providers might be better at contacting other providers than a hobbyist. But if there are 15-20 providers who are reputable, and who "I Met" on Date Check or who I reviewed on TER, how hard and how slow can verification be?
you're absolutely right! doesn't make any sense unless all of you're references are over a year old.
to answer the question tho, perhaps in those spur of the moment situations, you could repeat with one of the lovelies you've seen before.
During the summer Feds had fake P411 accounts with OKs and took down their fair share of girls. They probably have fake escort accounts too. It was a wake-up call to the hobby.
Anyways P411 and Date Check are like an ad board in my eyes and a way to keep track of references a girl would need to contact. You always have to research from both sides of the transaction.
Technology can be exploited. And we all know the gov will exploit loopholes....
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Been a member of both for a long time. Both have been very helpful and have made screening easier. Depending who you tried to see the last minute issue might have been more of the problem for you.
are both good sites but meant to be used for references only. Providers still need to contact the references to get more information. Gentlemen with P411 and datecheck accounts still need to be screened. Which can take a reasonable amount of time depending on how much information you give the provider you'd like to see. I have a very strict, very thorough screening process but I have been able to get gentlemen screened in three hours time once they give me all of their screening information including references to professional, responsible providers who return reference requests quickly. However, as a professional, I prefer 24 hours notice. I hope that's helpful for next time!
But why wouldn't a provider go to the Date Check or P411 profile, find a provider or two that she knows that gave me a referral, and go from there?
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If I went through the effort to write reviews on TER and to sign up and verify myself, and then arrange "We Met" dates on Date Check, then wouldn't a provider necessarily start there, look for someone she knows and trusts who has been reviewed by me or "Met" by me, and then do her own verification? Why does the hobbyist have to provide a reference, not even knowing if the reference is available to provide a referral?
accept it for references, I don't see them. I certainly aint filling out one of those appointment forms on their website.
I hear you.If my ok's have the provider info why is it necessary to give that info again???
what info were they asking for in addition to what you gave???
btw, I get that urge for a spur of the moment meeting but know that most providers wont offer it. only way is to see a regular
They don't 'want your info' again..they want some sort of feedback from the Provider who gave the OK. I can understand that 100%. Stories going around that P411 and Date-Check being 'compromised'. It's all about the Provider you want to see feeling SAFE. Having a DC or P411 account isn't a guarantee that you will get an immediate appointment without some sort of checking up on her part.
Miller
If the agency wants the feedback from the provider, they can contact them. What the OP is saying is that he's given them 10 references via Date Check. Their contact information and such is readily available.
Now, if the agency wants fresh references, or doesn't have Date-Check or P411 access, then they are going to ask you for them.
Just because you want to use those referral sites doesn't mean they have to take them. I too try to stick with P411 providers who take my OKs as references, but I don't object to them contacting them either.
1.i logon on to P411,
2.see providers available in my area,
3.request an appointment.
That's it. if they want more info the inquiry ends right then. i don't begrudge them asking, i just don't give them the info and we both move on.
i've had many appointments where the provider doesnt even check my profile, how do they know who i've seen to even be able to ask for a ref.???
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