I had a meeting with a lady recently, wherein she enjoyed a cup of coffee before I did.  She later embarrassingly told me that it's not nice to enjoy a cup before the client.  

This was the first I ever heard of such a protocol.  Simply put, it isn't something I would try to adhere to.  Whatever happens happens, I say.  

Have any of you ever heard this?  What do you think?

No, I've never heard of this in the hobby.  Maybe she was trying to be polite?  Imho the more she enjoys her time with you the better your experience will be.  

Jeez!

Honestly the way I see it. Both of you should have as much fun as possible, and I definitely want you to see and explode fireworks and if I happen too as well, then that's freaking AWESOME!

Its awesome for me to get turned on and all wet before, during and after baby!

She was lying.  She did not cum or enjoy a cup of coffee or however you want to put it.  A provider having an orgasm is a rare thing and when you think they are, they are just acting.

Thanks to all who responded.  Let me just say, "I thought you'd say that."

Here's another one.  There was a lady with whom I was communicating via telephone over a week or two regarding setting up an appointment.  I received a call from her one night, but she didn't call me. Her phone dialed me when she put it in her purse or something. I yelled but she was driving with the radio on. Don't hate me, but I stayed on to listen. Turns out she was on her way to an appt, and I disconnected. BUT before she left her car for her appt, she got herself off with a quickie.  

To the ladies, is this a common practice?

Makes no difference at all who's getting what first, or second.....or third or fourth, if you're lucky. Just make sure that you both get some cream & sugar with each cup.

My rule, too, Sophie...

I'm blessed with the ability to enjoy multiple cups of coffee =)  When I'm having coffee with someone and I finish 2 or 3 cups before they do, it seems to make the coffee date even better.  I think it's a testament to the fact that they make great coffee! They always finish their cup... and sometimes a few more. I realize I'm the provider but this makes it lots of fun, and I enjoy having coffee!

I think I need to meet you soon! Having the lady "drink" a cup or two or three first is a huge turn on for me and makes everything better. I need to know she enjoys me too - and usually I won't stop until she does. My 2 cents.

I enjoy coffee just as much, if not more than, some of you gentlemen. Contrary to what some may believe, many providers can enjoy a cup or two with you on your date. And while there are those that fake it, not all providers have to.

Besides, the date is for your relaxation. In my opinion, as long as you walk away a little lighter on your feet...then the lady did well (whether she had coffee, fake coffee, or no coffee).

xoxox
~Ice~

if that's what you really feel, i'm sorry you haven't come across a different type of provider