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Re: Letmejustsaythis
KMA_wannabes 731 reads
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I agree with most repliers here.. You were way out of line by asking those questions.  You need to learn the rules of the game first or stick to simpler things.

You probably didn't deserve that nasty text but next time, keep questions to minimum until you meet the lady.  If you don't see it in the ad, assume its not offered.  99.99% of the time.

I've never asked how much.  I've never asked type of service offered.  I've never asked most questions.  Most of the times, they'll either tell me, or i already know in the ads or from TER.

Largop1526 reads

Wednesday night, I had decided I was in the mood for some company. I didn't have A LOT of time and I didn't know what my sked was going to be so I didn't schedule anything since I firmly believe it's not fair to make an appointment if I know I might not keep it. So I start browsing BP on my phone when I was available looking for someone in the area where I was.

I tried a few numbers and got no answers. Then I got an return call back. I told her I was interested, in the area. Did she happen to be available? If so, what was the suggested donation. It was within reason but on that borderline of could be a good GFE experience, or might be a disappointing non-GFE experience. So I asked, does that include GFE? She apologizes and says no, so I politely thanked her for her time, wished her luck and continued my search.

I made some other calls with no luck before deciding this wasn't going to be the night to find what I'm looking for and I would live to fight another day. It was then, I received a very nasty text from a number I didn't recognize as having called with a message, "Hey asshole, you've called me 12 times and I'm not what you're looking for."

I would never continue wasting my time or hers by calling a number knowing that wasn't what I was looking for. I've had experiences with the two call system when you call the provider and they call you back on a different number. But how are we supposed to know they have different numbers? I felt bad for the provider who I apparently angered and really didn't mean to do anything malicious but at the same point in time, I wanted to respond and tell her don't post different pics with different numbers if they're not really you. But I just didn't respond and let it go.

It's always hit or miss with BP and I suppose that's par for the course. But I'm wondering, was I really that out of line? I don't think so.....

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BackPageHoundDog1001 reads

Don't be surprised if you go to an incall, be given the room number (then told to wait) and see another john enter the room. Do expect some to double book etc. Many are new and don't know the rules. I give them suggestions on how to make their services better. The only time my hobby phone is on is when I am making an appointment.

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AngelSpencer908 reads

Posted By: Largop
Wednesday night, I had decided I was in the mood for some company. I didn't have A LOT of time and I didn't know what my sked was going to be so I didn't schedule anything since I firmly believe it's not fair to make an appointment if I know I might not keep it. So I start browsing BP on my phone when I was available looking for someone in the area where I was.

I tried a few numbers and got no answers. Then I got an return call back. I told her I was interested, in the area. Did she happen to be available? If so, what was the suggested donation. It was within reason but on that borderline of could be a good GFE experience, or might be a disappointing non-GFE experience. So I asked, does that include GFE? She apologizes and says no, so I politely thanked her for her time, wished her luck and continued my search.

I made some other calls with no luck before deciding this wasn't going to be the night to find what I'm looking for and I would live to fight another day. It was then, I received a very nasty text from a number I didn't recognize as having called with a message, "Hey asshole, you've called me 12 times and I'm not what you're looking for."

I would never continue wasting my time or hers by calling a number knowing that wasn't what I was looking for. I've had experiences with the two call system when you call the provider and they call you back on a different number. But how are we supposed to know they have different numbers? I felt bad for the provider who I apparently angered and really didn't mean to do anything malicious but at the same point in time, I wanted to respond and tell her don't post different pics with different numbers if they're not really you. But I just didn't respond and let it go.

It's always hit or miss with BP and I suppose that's par for the course. But I'm wondering, was I really that out of line? I don't think so.....
that you were out of line. We ladies know, and understand when "your nature rises", when all the blood rushes south, it leaves little for the brian to function off of. LOL!
You were horny and thinking with the little head. There is no shame or blame in that. I understand, babe, I really do. :)

With that said, to ask a provider" Are you GFE?" is a BIG no-no.
You don't just meet someone off the street and ask them" Hey, do you want to rob a bank with me?"
Okay....that example was a bit extreme, I know, but I'm sure you catch my drift. LOL!

Seriously, I didn't make this up, it's just the law. I've seen quite a few arrest records that clearly state the admission of "providing GFE services is a clear indication of admitting to preforming sexual acts for hire."

Now, mind you, she doesn't know you from Adam. You could be ANYBODY. I can understand how any lady would say no to that question. It just bothers me that sometimes guys don't so a little research before contacting a lady.

It's been said time and time again here: DO YOUR RESEARCH BEFORE CONTACTING A PROVIDER.

I applaud you for letting the situation go, as I know many would stoop down to the level of immaturity and entertain a texting squabble, which in result wouldn't solve anything.

Did you get what you deserve ( the nasty response via text)?
Maybe yes, maybe no,who cares, really.
Just heed the take home: RESEARCH, RESEARCH, RESEARCH!

* What I suggest, is to contact a few ladies ( with a clear head, mind you) and get pre screened. Then when the mood strikes you, you are already good to go and can be as spontaneous as you desire.* ;)

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Nikoletta1087 reads


I agree with you!!!

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DiverDown2010455 reads

The GFE question aside, it sounds more like she was pissed about the multiple calls  - "Hey asshole, you've called me 12 times...".

If I'm reading the OP correctly, his problem was that she was apparently using multiple phone numbers from different ads... no way he could have known that, so I don't know where he could be considered out of line for trying different numbers thinking he was calling different providers.

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Idoneit535 reads

How the hell is he gonna do research on a BP provider? Its not like they have full blown websites like yourself and others. Aside from google the phone number and maybe emailing her thru BP, u cant get nothing out of most of the girls....With that said if the OP is truly interested in a provider, TOFTT and see what happens. There have been plenty of times I arrive, do the LE touch check and then inquire if GFE/DATY/DFK/69/BBBJ...If they dont offer, get up and GO...Maybe slide her 20 or just walk out.

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dukkar635 reads

I believe that was a bit naive to ask that question.  Best practice is if a provider doesn't advertise GFE then assume it not available.  You can either go for it or move on there are plenty providers  that do.  I don't think she should have contact you in the manner that she did.  She should have just cut the conversation short and move on as well.

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KMA_wannabes732 reads

I agree with most repliers here.. You were way out of line by asking those questions.  You need to learn the rules of the game first or stick to simpler things.

You probably didn't deserve that nasty text but next time, keep questions to minimum until you meet the lady.  If you don't see it in the ad, assume its not offered.  99.99% of the time.

I've never asked how much.  I've never asked type of service offered.  I've never asked most questions.  Most of the times, they'll either tell me, or i already know in the ads or from TER.

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TrulyMsMocha1180 reads

.... she probably not gfe .... about BP you can't use terms like GFE/G.F.E./Girlfriend experience etc

Posted By: KMA_wannabes
I agree with most repliers here.. You were way out of line by asking those questions.  You need to learn the rules of the game first or stick to simpler things.

You probably didn't deserve that nasty text but next time, keep questions to minimum until you meet the lady.  If you don't see it in the ad, assume its not offered.  99.99% of the time.

I've never asked how much.  I've never asked type of service offered.  I've never asked most questions.  Most of the times, they'll either tell me, or i already know in the ads or from TER.

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rdm410606 reads

you don't want to walk blindly into a situation.  But I agree with what others have said, with that kind of provider situation, you can't assume anything about her services or the experiences, you have to just take the plunge and hope that your TOFTT turns out well.  And yeah, I think her text was out of line.

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DaniStevens452 reads

I can understand how she was annoyed... However, be glad you didn't see this tactless provider!  She should have known to keep her annoyance to herself with multi numbers running.

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HesusChristos478 reads

You're browsing around BP late night, cruising for some chick who can hook you up at the last minute...and you DIDN'T find emotional stability and professionalism? I am shocked....utterly and totally...shocked. (I'm rolling my eyes dude.)

I wouldn't give it another thought - you're probably the 73rd dude she told off this week. 10 years ago you landed the last minute action by cruising down to 14th and K...not that there's anything wrong with that mind you...but perspective is important.

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Ebjourney508 reads

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Largop488 reads

For the feedback and insight. Lesson learned. I'll be getting pre-screened with some of the ladies in my area so I dont fine myself in such a tight spot again.

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Nocturnal652 reads

From what you wrote it doesn't sound like you ever dialed the same number twice much less 12 times.

Most likely she send the text from her call log and slipped up or down a line from the guy who was demon dialing her  in which case mistakes happen no big deal.

or

the different numbers you were dialing were all forwarding to the same number (or a rack of cell phones).  In that case, she was most likely a rip off anyway, I don't see a legitimate reason for a non-ripoff to advertise under different names and numbers.

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Idoneit680 reads

I see alot of BP providers (ok mostly all I see is TOFTT BP providers). What u have to do is get dem comfortable 1st, relax any LE thoughts. Usually at the end of the call I pull the "O by the way do u offer extras like bj w/out da wrap or natura french." The worst response I got was a hang up or "ewww thats nasty..I dont do dat" but generally its just "sorry I dont". I respectfully decline then after that and like half of those NO's turn into YES...Otherwise move onto the next 300 bp ads. Simple as that.

But dam how did u call the same provider x12. Thats crazy. You could have did us all a favor and put her number up so we all know not 2 divulge.

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