pm the real gent behind the handle used and alerted him with the imposters email address and telephone number and would love to post it here if it is allowed
In the link provided, scroll down and look for personal information, there, it will state the reasons. Not specific, but general enough to have an understanding that posting someone's personal information is prohibited.
I can understand your frustration, and there are ways to publicly dispense your message. However, you cannot post a hobbyist real name, telephone number, email address, or any other personal information on the boards publicly.
It is acceptable to post a person's handle and make accusations, but not their personal information. The first method to verify a person's handle is to PM that person, that way, you are certain that it is the person. Your method of outing this person is acceptable because you are not posting his information publicly, instead, you are requesting that people of interest PM you for details, which is perfectly fine.
This policy that TER set up applies to all boards, including Providers Only board or the General Discussion Board. Not trying to sound like a dick, but don't want to see you get banned for posting someone's personal information. Just let the fellow hobbyist and providers PM you and you can dispense the details to them to prevent misfortunes in the future. Sorry that happened to you, and that dude is a real dick. Man, what a loser! Seriously, don't hobby if you don't have the funds. Man, that is really low to do what he did.
I, niceguy22215, am the one being impersonated. My phone number does not begin with 240 and my email is not at gmail. Please PM me here if anyone tries to make an appointment using niceguy22215 as their TER handle.
I can post that anywhere on TER either? I just don't want him pulling this with other touring providers. he can always change his email address and telephone nunber, but it would be tough to change his face
Sorry this happened to you. But how did you know he had used someone else's handle?
But this just shows everyone how important it is to screen and do it thoroughly and always ask for the envelope at the beginning of the session and yes, count it too, in a discrete way perhaps when he's in the shower to make it less of a turnoff issue for certain people. personally i dont have a problem with that at all. If they don't want to comply to that then simply don't do anything. But if you don't do all that's necessary to protect yourself, especially knowing there is a huge grey area in this line of work, you could be just as much blamed as the perpetrator.
he was impersonating. I immediately posted a warning to other girls, and I contacted the REAL TER member and gave him a heads up too. Unfortunately Bobbi didn't see my warning in time, and he conned her. She saw my warning afterwards, and then went public on the boards.
I had already added his info to the usual (non-public) blacklist sites by the time I found Bobbi had been taken. I believe she is now adding the info that she has too.
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