I completely understand where you are coming from here. I have never COF on a provider without her approval and usually after the first 5 minutes I know if the girl is open to it and if not I wont even ask. Like I said in my original post, that it seemed like the novice provider was poorly prepared for what to expect and how to defuse a situation.
I saw a provider the other day. Even though she greeted me with a smile, I could sense that something was not right. Even though it was only her second day, she said that she was thinking of leaving. I asked why and she answered clients er tshere are too difficult. She said that earlier in the day, she had a client that made her want to quit.
This particular guy came and everything was going pretty routine. He shot his first load CIM. For the second shot, he was going at it in MISH when all of a sudden, he got up and attempted to COF. She said she blocked him instinctively, because she did not want him to shoot his load all over her face and hair. He got enraged over this. She said she tried to calm him down and did get him to go another round. But apparently he wasn't done, because he proceeded to dump half a bottle of mouthwash over the towels and spat on the door as he left. I told her that she should have told the booker rightaway so that they can blacklist the jerk.
Now today, I read a review by this dude that gave her a 3 for performance. You should have kept that to yourself. Now everyone knows what kind of jerk you are. These girls work too hard to deserve clients like you!!!
Like the jerk who recently poured water all over a provider's head as a joke and couldn't figure out why she would be upset at this. At least he had the decency to give her a decent review...
I want to pick my clients, and I want them to pick me based on how I advertise, not how someone else advertises me or talks about me.
A good 'agency' or 'booking service' will mentor new ladies in the business instead of throwing them into a pool of sharks. RRRRR.
There are reputable agencies out there, however... I've worked through one for a short amount of time. Loved 'em, but I want to know who's coming through the door.
Shame that this happened. All of the K-girls I've seen have been nothing but professional and easy to deal with. I hope, if this is how it went down, the guy does get blacklisted with them.
After reading your take based on what she said, and as well as his review, I can just say that this a prime example of two people overreacting. From the get-go he and she seemed to have chemistry issues. He has plenty of reviews, so he should have known right off the bat. If she is a novice provider from an agency, I think that she was poorly prepared for what to expect and took the result of one bad appointment too personally. In every business things like this happen so no need to Whiteknight about it. She and the agency can state their issues with this client.
Man how do you cats be listening to all these stories, I mean the only talking really going on during my sessions is me telling her to spread it, make it look nasty, and I got to eat your pretty asshole, or her telling me I'm hitting her spot and she is about to cum all over my magic stick.
I love all you sexy ladies, please don't judge me, I will get 100yrs...
I don't think she was overreacting at all to want to quit after having such an ass come to see her, and I honestly think its kind of pathetic that anyone would defend this behavior as "stuff happens". Yes, it does. But to essentially say "suck it up, buttercup"?
When have you been naked, alone, and 100 pounds shy of someone acting like that? That is unacceptable behavior, and scary to even a seasoned girl, let alone someone new to the business. Especially in a city where all you have to do is listen for five minutes to hear about someone getting seriously hurt or robbed.
IMO, her only overreaction was trying to calm him down and stay. There is no need to coddle an asshole. If anyone started acting like a prick because he couldn't come on my face, he had better hope he leaves the first time I ask him. Cause shit would not be pretty.
ETA: And honestly, after going through a few of his reviews, that one sticks out. He wrote reviews of girls who gave similar performances, but the tone was different, and the scores were much higher. It seems fishy, like he knew he behaved poorly but wanted the free VIP days anyways.
My point about her overreacting was pointed toward her quitting the business. Not about her getting being upset about the behavior of a client. Maybe my post was poorly worded.
And my point was that it was a dick thing to say that she was overreacting about quitting. Maybe I didn't make that clear enough, with all the "look at the situation she's in" and "she's not overreacting by wanting to quit".
But, again, going off your reviews, you seem to lean a little closer to this guys way of thinking, than the one where we shouldn't have to endure something just because you have the money.
She had a bad experience right in the beginning. Perhaps a breather and some TLC would help.
Do you know of any gents who may be able to show her it's not all that bad?
A lot of times, people can sense that stuff from the start of the conversation. I had a crazy beginning where there were some people I sensed right away they were bad news. The way they carried themselves, looked at me, touched me, talked to me, etc.
My booker used to get really upset when I'd reject clients. Kicked 'em out the second anything crazy flew out of their mouth or demeanor. Let them leave with their money too as safety is far more important.
One of the problems with the TER format is that providers, especially those like the K girls whose first language is not English, have little or no direct voice on our boards. Consequently, jerks like MrAhh can freely trash providers who don't cater to their every egotistical whim. Often those who have personal experience contrary to the trashed review are criticized and called names by ignoramuses like DaTrufe and AsianMan who apparently have little or no understanding or appreciation of the human side of our hobby.
On several other boards on which I participate, hobbyists and often providers can and do comment directly on reviews and can often counter the devastatingly negative effects of self-centered, negative reviews, likke MrAhh's. Unless we do so, or at least support those who do, we will discourage many fine providers, especially those with little voice of their own, from coming here to please us.
I don't know what part of "no" some of you don't understand, but I appreciate xnyong for presenting the other side of the story. Behavior such as that exhibited by MrAhh is totally unacceptable. Belittling or criticizing those who come to a ladies defense is equally unacceptable.
I did not realize the OP is either Korean or fluent in Korean so I asked him how the girl could explain to him what happened in English clearly. After he posted that he is fluent in Korean, I haven't chimed in at all until you started hurling insults at me. If you want to promote civility on this board, I suggest that you start with yourself. Otherwise, you are just a hypocrite.
The tone of your post was to immediately discredit both the OP and the provider without any knowledge of how the incident was communicated. The tone was both surly and dismissive and thus serves as a perfect example of the arrogant, hostile attitude displayed by far too many of our members whenever anyone, such as the OP, steps forward in defense of providers.
Your decision to not chime in is to be commended. I suggest you continue to follow it.
..you should think about that the next time you are inclined to make similar disparaging, insensitive comments about well-intentioned hobbyists or treat provider concerns with total disdain.
Go home and write on the blackboard 100 times "I will be more sensitive to the concerns of others." This conversation is concluded. You are dismissed.
I never have seen what is so great about COF. Call me old fashion, but the gentleman side of me respects the lady's makeup. There's nothing hot about ruining a lady's makeup. Now on the other side of the coin, ask first and if she is into it, fire away Again not my thing. But a body shot (on the belly or back, on the buns or between the girls) is HOT!!
My thoughts exactly. Thank you for expressing them.
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I never have seen what is so great about COF. Call me old fashion, but the gentleman side of me respects the lady's makeup. There's nothing hot about ruining a lady's makeup. Now on the other side of the coin, ask first and if she is into it, fire away Again not my thing. But a body shot (on the belly or back, on the buns or between the girls) is HOT!!
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