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Re: Hobbying and the five senses
Wow, you mean to tell me that with your experience of 12 reviews that you now posses the ability to choose the perfect provider with 95% accuracy?
We have mini posts from members with hundreds of reviews that choose ladies that miss the mark, but you have perfected a system in under a dozen?
I must assume that you are either the teller of tall tales or your expectations are very low.
With this nugget of information, your reviews will go into the skip pile.
I've learned a great deal from reading posts on this forum and have enjoyed the company of some very lovely women since I decided to start hobbying a few years ago. From this experience and maturation it is easier to provide reviews and grade on the scale that TER provides. Initially its very difficult to rate performance and atmosphere when you have little to compare it to. For that reason it is the reviews that are left by TER “regulars” that now carry the most influence when reading past reviews on a woman that I am interested in scheduling some time with.
From these experienced reviewers comments and my personal experiences, I believe that the best reviews always invoke more of the five senses. The more senses that are stimulated and aroused, the better the chance the provider has of getting high marks. Now nothing replaces reviewing a beautiful women with high energy and the desire to fulfill your wildest fantasy. Those women that go the extra mile in their preparation are more likely to be referred well and awarded with the repeat visit.
Sight – this is what will obviously attract you to the provider initially and is subjective to the taste of each individual. The standing behind the door for the reveal is a very nice touch and when done well followed by DFK really starts things off right. The room doesn't need to be spotless, but clothes shouldn't be thrown around and its best to at least make the beds look fresh for each visit.
Smell – light perfume or scented candles in the room is very pleasant and adds to my experiences. Nothing heavy and I don't want to carry the smell with me on the way back to the office.
Hearing – some low music to set the mood or muffle sounds is fine. Please don't leave the TV on because you were watching it before I came. Pillow talk before during and after is always nice and it strengthens the male ego along the way.
Taste – I don't smoke nor do I drink coffee. These two tastes are very strong and easily noticeable to someone who's not addicted to them. This includes ice coffee's that one lady wanted to drink during our entire session. If you like these things, mask them with gum or mouthwash before greeting. I actually find the taste of peppermint or spearmint to be very nice and its much more pleasant to kiss someone that tastes good.
Touch – This is why we are all there to touch and be touched. To feel the body of another who you are attracted to and to experience that attraction. After greeting don't be afraid to sit with me and hold hands or gently rub my arm/shoulder until you are comfortable enough to proceed. Don't sit on the opposite side of the bed and just wait for me to undress and jump in. Keep the distance close and affectionate, this especially helps with the nerves of an initial meeting.
I thought I would share some of my observations and experiences as others have shared before me to find enjoyment and satisfaction in this hobby. I want to see everyone, ladies and gents have a good experience and keep the hobby fun and enjoyable. For the ladies, keep in mind that the more senses that are stimulated during the session by providing a great experience and atmosphere, the better the reviews are prompt other to see you.
The average rate to spend time with a lady is 300 and thats not chump change. You should enjoy a whole experience and be stimulated from the first minute until the time you walk out the door
Ladies enjoy having all 5 senses stimulated too
When I go to a spa for a massage and spend my hard earned money I want a dimly lit room with soft music, calming aromatics and warm hands. Afterwards I enjoy a refreshing detox tonic. If I walked into a bright cold room and the therapist was watching tv I would be so turned off and while the massage may be great, the overall experience would suck and I wouldn't return... no matter how satisfying the actual massage was.
Every one deserves to be pampered and enjoy the full experience, not just the physical aspect.
Great post!
I totally agree! It is the total experience that determines whether or not I will repeat with a lady or not.
In one recent session I was with lady who had above average skills but actually watched tv throughout the session and most of our conversation centered around what was on tv!
Another lady I recently visited was pretty new and not as skilled as the previous lady but more than made up for it with her attitude and desire to please. She noticed little things about me and asked me about them. She seemed genuinely interested in me.
The first lady could've made me cum three times in an hour and there still would've been something missing.
Of course most ladies fall somewhere between those two extremes but you get the idea.
Again great post!
Jd
Proprioception is the sense of the relative position of your body parts -- such as your limbs -- in relation to space, so that you don't confuse 69 with FS.
The OP's well-meaning post is so obvious and didactic that it doesn't add much to the perennial discussion. Everyone should know what turns him or her on, and how to provide it, and be able to select customers and providers on that basis. That takes some self awareness and discernment, and that comes only with experience. If you're a newbie, experiment until you get it right. Most of the folks on TER have self awarness in spades, so pay attention to the clues the internet provides us and you'll get it right about 95% of the time. No need for pedantry.
Wow, you mean to tell me that with your experience of 12 reviews that you now posses the ability to choose the perfect provider with 95% accuracy?
We have mini posts from members with hundreds of reviews that choose ladies that miss the mark, but you have perfected a system in under a dozen?
I must assume that you are either the teller of tall tales or your expectations are very low.
With this nugget of information, your reviews will go into the skip pile.
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