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Re: Herpes Question
nevermind1 2515 reads
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when will you people learn that its just down right dumb to be doing these unsafe things with someone you are not in a relationship with. Now i quess you will continue to hobby and pass this herpes to other ladies who are dumb enough to blow you without a condom. Rediculous(shaking head). I hope this has taught you a lesson.

TheSlicer2465 reads

So, I saw a fairly highly reviewed provider last week and I found that I am having some painful urination and a small bump on my penis.  I believe that I got herpes from the BBBJ that I received, and wanted to know how I should notify her, if at all?  I know the drill, it can lie dormant for years, etc., but the timing is just a little too close to be a coincidence.  Thoughts?

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In My Humble Opinion3370 reads

Have you seen a doc?  Are you sure it's herpes?  Get yourself examined by a proper physician, then you can determine what the next course of action is.

we've had plenty of folks here blaming someone for what was at first thought to be an STD when in fact it turned out to be something entirely different.

IMHO

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Flyrod2075 reads

Agree; Do get a compentent diagnosis before panic!  Some years ago, I had a GF that had herpes no doubt about it!  Yet, she and I had a lot of fun between outbreaks, ie, physical indications of herpes!  Happily, I never contracted herpes, we usually went anal during eruptions of the symtoms. BTW, Back-door is Highly over-rated!

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Vanica2705 reads

First, go to the doctor. It may not be herpes.  

Second, pull together a list of everyone you have slept with since your second to last "all clear" STD test.

Third, contact the provider and tell her immediately. If she does have something, it's important that she know ASAP.

Hope this helps and good luck.

Kisses,
Vanica

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Foggarty2012 reads

I agree with Vanica... but I would not be posting too much info on here as this would seem to be pretty common sense stuff!


Last thing we need is a panic... I'd go see a Doctor ASAFP and then see what the dianosis is... regardless you should contact the provider in question as well so she is at least aware and can take appropriate action to protec herself too.

You all should probably handle this privately...


Fog

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nevermind12516 reads

when will you people learn that its just down right dumb to be doing these unsafe things with someone you are not in a relationship with. Now i quess you will continue to hobby and pass this herpes to other ladies who are dumb enough to blow you without a condom. Rediculous(shaking head). I hope this has taught you a lesson.

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Grammar_Gestapo2522 reads

that day in sex-ed class.  So condoms and "Being in a Relationship" are the best methods of protecting against the spread of STDs?  Good to know.

You gotta be kidding!


And just a note here: the word you wanted was it's, as in the contraction of it is.  Also, the word is ridiculous.

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nevermind11921 reads

You obviously are not retarded. Therefore, youve got to know that its not smart to do unsafe things with someone who you dont know. The last thing you want to do is bring something home to your wife or girlfriend.

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eroticerb1715 reads

I had the exact same symptoms one time, I went to the Dr. to get it checked out and...

It was just a small scab / sore. The Dr. said he saw this all the time. What happens is, a woman's teeth may ever so gently graze the head as she's going down on you. You don't feel or notice it at the time. This friction creates a sore, which  burns when hot urine flows over it.

Of course, you should definitely get it checked out but... Odds are in your favor that it's not an STD.

Good luck.

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borikeno2389 reads

I think all the advise has been good.  If you beleive you have reason to be concerned, getting a diagnosis is the best way to move on.  Every time I see a provider I go through a phase of worry about getting something.  Anything different down there will set-up an alarm.  So far its just been worry.

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AngelinaDDD2783 reads

I know I will get flack for this from the guys but...most providers are safer then civiies.,.we know the risk and take GREAT precautions to be safe.  I know a lot of my civiee counterparts do not!!!  Be real, I am more at risk with you, then you are with me!!!!  Trust me!!!  I carry NO RISK, do you?

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MarkusKetterman2814 reads

Providers are in fact safer as a rule than civvies, if for no other reason than the motive of sustained income, although most providers I know are very conscientious, service oriented people.

However, the bottom line is that each client needs to assume rsponsibility for his / her own health and that of those he/she comes into contact with.

Test Reguarly!

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quadseasonal2399 reads

GoodTimingMan "Providers are in fact safer as a rule than civvies"

Just remember nothings 100%.
Ask most providers who have a BF and they will tell you their BF would "never" cheat on them..
Too many times I have heard that Poppycock while knowing her BF was banging her girl "friend"..
How many providers use condoms with their BFs...and how many hobbyists use condoms with their GFs or wives??
A very small percentage..
Just saying ..


-- Modified on 1/18/2010 9:19:17 PM

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SweetJaneHR1002 reads

Oh yeah, don't fuck for free.  Winds up being much cheaper in the end.

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MarkusKetterman1447 reads

include maturity (not necessarily age) and experience

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SinsOfTheFlesh1960 reads

uh, you got your medical degree where?

What blood tests did you run on yourself in order to arrive at your diagnsosis? None?

How about you go see a Doctor before posting your Chicken Little paranoia on the board?

Kudos at least for using an alias I guess. But before you get into the how's and wherefores of notifying someone, first confirm that you actually need to notify someone.

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Tall69691290 reads

If one is in the hobby and on this board the chances are that most hobbyist and well reviewed ladies are more educated regarding the versus these basic elementary sex-ed questions....Just MHO.

Your chances of contracting STDs is probably greater in the club (and not a strip club) then with a "well reviewed" provider.

Go get a hug from your mom if you need attention!

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