I have an AF provider and from the first time I booked with  her, the appointments had been going great until
recently when the sections have gotten cold.
I've learned providers get too comfortable over time and become inconsistent even
if one is nice.

Are there any key points to keep in mind to avoid this such as diversification? (not just sticking to one provider) or
is it simply that one should avoid seeing her too often?
I should  probably give her a break and wait a while until I see her again

Please comment based on your experience!


Thanks

Don't see the same provider in less than 30 days, if you can. With the shortage of providers I like I find that hard to do. Sometimes I will the same provider 2 days later or 2 weeks later. Right now there seems to be a dry spell, combination of factors weather from last week, LE crackdowns, and time of year, and time of month. I have notice that there seems to be a drought from the 6th of the month to the middle of month. Smart visiting providers take advantage of this, because they realize there are guys who hobby every week and don't live paycheck to paycheck, versus the guys who only hobby when pay day hits (15th and or end of the month).

I will only venture out if I see a provider has good reviews giving state of things going on recently with the picture stealing going on. You don't know who you will run into, better safe than sorry.

There are other providers I like to see for multi-hour appointments. But that gets boring see the same ladies over and over again. As one told me you me get tired of the same ole pussy all the time.

I recommend that you give her a 30-60 day break. When you come back the session will be hot because she will be glad to see you back.

....with my ATF last month.

Brought her some new lingerie, brought a toy along for the 1st time and told her I was in the mood for a more vigorous session.  Was even better than our first engagement.  Find a way to mix things up when you do see her.

The only rule I stick by is when the performance starts going downhill I move on..

I will rarely see the same girl back to back... I am in this thing for variety not for monogamous relationship...

Do what suits you best..

Since I travel to the same cities, I tend to have a few repeats, especially in the cities with limited providers. Here are some things that work for me.
Several months between visits. Don't forget this is a business, but most ladies are in this for the variety of experiences as well.
Just like any relationship, spice things up. Both dress up for cocktails and bring champagne to start the evening. Make her feel special, and that its not just the same thing. Role play. Explore new boundaries. Keep it exciting for her too. Find out what she likes.
For one lady that loved baseball, our home teams were playing the weekend before we had an appointment. We bet whoever's home team wins the series, gets to lay back and totally serviced by the other. Sort of a win-win. And I did win, in many more ways. She really enjoyed rejecting all attempts by me to break the rule and take care of her. I do tend to be a "ladies first" when I see a lady.

Great Question A2011 and Super Responses!

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imo, if on the first appointment there weren't any obvious conflicts a second date within a week or month is ok. the 3rd is the tricky one. I usually wait 2-3 months. If I was wrong and it doesn't go well, that is the last time I see her. i usually don't go more than a few times with the same lady anyway.

A lady i saw last year a few times was one too many as the last time was an awkward experience. The compatibility I THOUGHT we had over the first few appointments was gone.


btw, your post is one reason I don't believe in ATF.

Yes, I think that's what I'll do or simply wait a while and see if it improves otherwise,
moving on is the next thing left.

I did the same thing, but what I brought wasn't for the section but for her,  and the following time I saw her she was quite very indifferent and cold as if I had done something wrong. I always draw a line, letting the provider know I understand things are nothing but business.    I was puzzled almost during the whole section.

I believe in ATFs as usually one already knows what to expect if the service is consistently good.

Also, the section went colder and the service was no quite the same.

do you really think providers can be totally committed to a session EVERY time?

maybe she was tired or just not in the mood that day.

It's not a wife or girlfriend where one needs to make thinks work in a special way by talking or nurturing a relationship.

This is a normal Bizz transaction. So yes I do really think that otherwise they should say... hey you know what
I'm not feeling quite well today but we can arrange for another day. Or even easier, at the session they can  
apologize ifr they are feeling tired or they are just having a bad day.

I would perfectly understand that!