ok -- so the last five or so encounters I have had have not been fully satisfactory in one way or another -- some of them reviewed by me, some not. All were previously reviewed on TER and got good scores (in only one case was a review wrong about what was on the menu). I've read lots and lots of other reviews -- and I mean a lot -- looking for someone to change my luck, and I have a simple question: who would you suggest I turn to in order to "stop the streak." PMs welcome of course.
There are so many flavors of ice cream ,so to speak that not every one like the same kind. Be sure to be specific in you needs for your tast. Good luck . Sounds like a fun trip
Thought I had posted this, but it seems to have gotten lost in the shuffle, so will try again.
Anyway, what I am looking is for fairly basic (I think) -- a real GFE. I really like DFK and BBBJ. I don't need toys or fetishes or greek, I don't need incredible acting, I just want someone who is "present," involved, acts and feels like they are interested, motivated, happy to see me. (and skilled ) I like all ethnicities and body types and ages. Thanks in advance for any input or pms.
As she notes...there are so many flavors of Ice Cream... Also, be careful to understand, from my experience and IMHO, you sometimes simply have a losing streak! And as the saying goes......"This Too Will Pass....."
In my 13+ years doing this I've had shitty runs/sessions with even ATFs. The core of what we do is fantasy. Its sometimes hard to achieve and/or maintain the fantasy. Real life happens and can get in the way of the fantasy. Hence, - the ATF could have a bad day; - the ATF could be a really a good actress and could give a fuck about you and one day she slips up and lets you see behind the curtain into reality; - the provider you're seeing for the first time ONLY cares about the money and all the fantasy thoughts you had before the meeting go out the window when during the appointment you see her only goal is to get you outta the door. - I could go on and on with the many different fantasy busters us hobbyist can encounter. The main point is...even if you're specific and clear on what you want...ALWAYS be prepared to experience less than what you anticipated.
Awwww sorry you haven't had much fun. There are ladies out there, such as myself, that are laid back and natural. Yes my "friends" are coming to see Sidney, but I will be honest, Sidney is not so different from who I am when I am not Sidney. I am looking to build a connection when I meet someone and to have a nice time together. I don't like to be fake or to act...unless someone wants roleplay.
You need to find a woman you are attracted too and then just go in and be ready to have fun. Don't try to replicate what you read in past reviews. Just go in an let the magic happen. And by the way, with me, it always happens. haHa couldn't help myself. Sincerely, Sidney Starr
I would dare say in all the years of doing this I have had "true" chemistry with 2 providers. And don't let my 25 (or whatever it says presently) reviews fool you. I've seen waaaaay more than 20+ providers I just do a review EVERY time.
The nature of the relationship/arrangement makes it tough to achieve that chemistry thing. I would dare say you will never and/or chances are very low that you will meet a provider who can/will develop a "true" chemistry with where you will feel that genuine "presence" you seek. I would suggest you be very careful and keep your hobby activity in the category of sport fucking. If you're look for "real" presence you may need to go the civi route. "Presence" in the hobby is fleeting!!!
Use reviews only as an outline.......actual results vary widely! Reviewers lie and embelish a lot along with the fact that just because she did x with client A that she will do x with client B.
My favorite acronym in the hobby is YMMV. Well, my favortie after DATY! LMAO.
HERE . I do know there still men who need such women reading it . Not many women staying calm natural not loosing their charm and magic which attracts gentlemen real ones ... males. Who do not think that what is on review for sure take place between us . It is all about connection and I am sure if man is as this one Tall6969 .. actually i need go and check my reviews sound familiar .. and woman as you are .. all will take place as in the best erotic dream kissess
First of all just try to relax and have a good time. I find if I try to press the action as opposed to letting the lady lead it just never works out quite as well. Expectations can ruin a session if you expect something to happen and it doesnt your not going to have as good of time, just let it flow and often times she will come around once she feels comfortable and you may just have great experience. When a lady is relaxed and she doesnt feel pushed she will always give you a much better performance. Its up to you to make her feel that way, ie a nice (sincere) compliment. Smile and maybe a little small talk to make her feel secure. One note on the chemestry thing, your gonna know in the first few minutes if its there or not and without it you can still have one hell of a good session. Dont get discouraged. The next one you see may be a ,,once in a lifetime. Be patient.
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