I'm curious about a couple things that show up in reviews that don't always translate to a date, specifically LFk/DFK and Cbj/bbj. I know ymmv and all that, but when you read 12 reviews that talk about a magical bbj and then get told it's Cbj only it's pretty disappointing. (I've also seen the reverse and gotten bbj when I didn't expect it)

I know the kissing thing can be kind of subjective, but I think we can agree that when there are multiple reviews talking about great DFK makeout sessions and you get a closed mouth peck session that is also disappointing.

So, my question is, and I'd love to hear from some ladies...

Are these two things case by case with you, and if so why might you choose one with one client over another?

Or, are your reviews just not 100% accurate?

For the purposes of discussion, let's just assume hygiene is not the issue. I think we can agree that would turn a lady off, and in the kissing example above, that happened to me and I showered and brushed my teeth in the room so I feel strongly that wasn't the issue.

First off I'm using an alias as I do not want to be judged either positively or negatively. With that my opinion is that EVERYTHING matters when meeting a lady. I take that approach with every single encounter in the hobby world as well. I have rarely had an average time I routinely have an AWESOME time. The times I had a average time when I look back it really was more my fault than hers. I'm not saying it's all your fault but in way as a guy it is our role to accept responsibility of good relationships with ladies. Of course she could have just had a bad day or the guy before may have turned her so off it has affected her performance temporarily. Everyone is human. Providers are not robots, they are ladies and they have feelings every moment of every day. Anyways back to the guys part even though you are paying for her time you still must respect her to the fullest and present yourself to her to the best of your current state. I for one workout the whole week of, get a hair cut, shave/trim down there, dress sharply, make sure hygiene is top notch, use good communication skills and follow any rules she has about our meeting to the letter. I would say I spend MANY HOURS in preparation for the one hour I'm in her presence. I believe this is fair as I suspect most Providers spend MANY HOURS in preparation for their meetings as we. If she chooses to change the rules for the betterment or worse I accept that is her prerogative. You may be like this is not fair. Hey well life is not fair move on and make changes and seek provider fairness some where else. Anyways good luck guy. I'm sorry to hear the hobby is not going exactly as you planned. BEST WISHES.

Thanks for the input and I agree with everything you said. I shower, shave, trim before I go, shower when I get there, bring a toothbrush, have been nothing but reapectful etc. I'm also not saying it's a big problem, but I've encountered it a couple times. We use reviews to make informed decisions on who to see, and for me seeing one person a month is a luxury, it's disappointing when it doesn't match expectations.

There are many reviews out there where guys say things like they were expecting BB based on reviews but got C instead. Which is why I wonder what might make a lady make a "game time decision" to go one way, if we assume for the sake of argument that hygiene is not the reason.

Obviously, the ladies don't have any control about the what guys write, but I'm
Guessing if there are 20 in a row that say BB or heavy DFK then it's reasonable to expect that's on the menu.

It was Michelangelo that said "Details make for perfection, but perfection is no detail." Make sure you have all your details ironed out exactly as Mr. Chow wrote.

Unfortunately, that will take you 50% there. Some providers work better if they think the guy looks like a film star. You could walk in and your face may remind her of George Clooney (great!), or somebody she dislikes. You might look like a hated family member. You might not be tall enough for her (one of my problems).

She might not like your shoes or your hair, or lack of it. All of these things can affect her performance. She might not feel like kissing you if your appearance, however well-groomed, presses the wrong button.

You go home after the session wondering why another reviewer gave her high marks for DF kissing while you only received a peck on the cheek. She probably liked his face and disliked yours. If these things happen to you, keep moving to another provider. Don't waste your time looking at the rearview mirror. If her performance was lackluster, take your business elsewhere.