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Life410 12 Reviews 2148 reads
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For some of the dudes that review especially as it comes to looks offense is taking for highly critical guys....and offense for not giving out 9s or 10's.  And that could/does lead to guys not being seen by some women.  

I thought the game was to bust a nut with ease...and sometimes that includes seeing less than attractive women that you may not even really want to be associated with in real life. Cause Plain Jane's or less than your ideal bodytype can get attached, may want more, and do not want to be friends with benefits. And that's assuming Plain Jane's want to deal with ya on such sexual only terms.  

 

 

for ex. I think Melissa McCarthey from mike and molly is attractive face wise...but i'm really not into BBW so the max looks in my mind is 7 and her narrative could very well include explicit statements as stretch marks and Pillsbury dough girl stomach...but if she cool I'll see her a few times.  Now that means other BBW would not want to see a dude that made such a review because it wouldn't be a good match?!?!? How is a paying customer not a good match as long as the rules are obeyed and you don't saying anything offensive in person? why do some women need to feel attractive when the essence is i give you money...you give me pleasure; dudes ain't suppose to be tricking the girls since dudes are the ones paying, lol.

I think performance is quite important as actions are not subjective (though quality of actions is subjective) more than the description of looks for the ladies to measure themselves. This game is were objectification lives!

j-nova 955 reads
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2 / 58

If you can't string coherent sentences together please don't post!

Life410 12 Reviews 743 reads
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3 / 58

Posted By: RodTidweLL

   
 The other was being rejected, based on reviews, we exclude women on many different factors. The difference? They aren't being told they have been excluded, most will never know. So I think its OK they do the same.
 

But no one cares if I pick Shake Shack over MickeyD's or Wendys. I could diss Wendys on yelp and still walk into any restaurant even if they knew I would post something negative about them. And fancy restaurants let known harsh-critics into their establishments and take it as a challenge.  

Hustlers accept all money within slight reasons imo....Otherwise this game is a match-making service. Unless the ladies are arrogant enough to think they need to be paid even by guys they genuinely enjoy, but ladies that are motivated by money can be controlled, which defeats a lady's intent to exert control, lol.

Life410 12 Reviews 954 reads
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Posted By: j-nova
If you can't string coherent sentences together please don't post!
 
if you can't get past a couple of typos....maybe you should log off.  

I'm not posting my thoughts in MS word, spell checking, fully re-reading, and then marking up the document before I decide to share my opinion on this board, lol. come on, man!!!!

!!!!! 800 reads
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DaveMogal 74 Reviews 894 reads
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6 / 58

I have had several providers tell me that they consider this as dating since they have a hard time finding a boyfriend who is faithful. A few of them told me that they should be paying me. One sent a text a few weeks ago calling me "the dude" the lol.

Dr Who revived 810 reads
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7 / 58

It's a rhetorical question...I don't want to know  LOL

Seems like your new pals in MN found you out quickly as well.

Try the Kansas board.  Maybe the crickets will play nice.
Posted By: RodTidweLL
Walk into a Wendy's or MacDonald's naked and see if you can still walk into it with no problem.

USGrantlover 225 Reviews 662 reads
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8 / 58

Should meet for brunch tomorrow and leave us out of this babble.

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 907 reads
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9 / 58

....who doesn't find me hot as hell?! Sure I like making money and in this industry i'm a "seller" if you will but I know what it's like to be a consumer too. If i'm going to spend my hard-earned money I want to spend it on the best I can get. I'm not gonna waste my time or money settling for what I feel is just okay.

So....seeing someone you don't find ideally attractive is doing a disservice to yourself and the lady you're seeing. To an extent reviews are business and the lady is already getting the short end of the stick no pun intended because she's expected to make up for the lack of attraction you have for her. No one no matter how much money you wave at them wants to feel like "she'll do". And if you're not as attracted to her as you could be even if she's an amazing performer and does her best to please you there's a high chance any scores given won't be as good as they could've been which hurts her (even though yes we're supposed to pay attention to the content more than the scores yada yada yada). If you don't have a business or job where you're constantly critiqued/graded (ESPECIALLY on looks or where looks are at least half your grade so to speak) you might not ever quite get that. You'd be wasting your time (and the ladies' time) and money seeing someone you're not fully interested in. I could see another provider for pleasure too but I would not spend money on someone I thought was just "acceptable". I have a fully functioning brain....why would I do that to myself?  

We're people with feelings -n- shit, we're women and women especially p4p or not want to know and feel we're attractive (hot/sexy even) in front of the men/women we're spending time with. I not only physically but mentally prepare myself for every date. I want to feel and perform my best like a true professional should. I just can't do that if I already know ahead of time i'm not remotely the 'cup of tea' for the guy i'm about to see. I'd like to think I don't market to the "here just to bust a nut" type of guy who doesn't care much what he sticks himself into thank Flying Spaghetti Monster. I could ramble on but I think i'm good.

-- Modified on 3/7/2015 6:03:17 PM

Jstgttnstrtd 18 Reviews 816 reads
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10 / 58

But this is clearly a very different type of business - a highly highly personal business, where ladies can refuse to see you for any reason they want.  And that's as it should be of course.  They are having sex with strangers, so how can we NOT respect their right to "just say no" for WHATEVER REASON they may not be comfortable with a potential client.  Just think about the alternative to this... what you'd be saying is that ladies should ALWAYS automatically agree to have sex with a guy assuming he meets some very basic minimal screening.  Sorry, but no lady should be made to feel she doesn't have control over herself in this most basic of ways, even if she has chosen to be in this profession.  This business is not the same thing AT ALL as other service businesses, where yes, you should provide service to all people who walk into your store or restaurant.  Rather than complain that this isn't like all other business, just be happy that there are so many lovely ladies who ARE up for the adventure of this clandestine little world.

Now tying this back to reviews, it does make this part of the hobby a delicate matter.  Leaving aside the obvious that guys shouldn't be dicks in their reviews and say gratuitously insulting things, there can often be a basic legitimate dilemma: do I be completely truthful, when doing so might come back to bite me in the ass?  While reviews help other guys, in certain cases, they may not be in the best interest of the individual reviewer. Your example fits this.  If you gave lady a low appearance score, it could very well impact another lady's decision to see you.  So it can make it difficult to be honest when honesty would mean giving a lower score than most other reviewers.  Even if a guy tries his best to navigate that zone of being both tactful and truthful at the same time, there will ALWAYS be the risk that a lady might not like what he wrote or the low scores that he gave to some others.

Bottom line - there is just a lot that we don't control.  Ladies are free to refuse anyone for any reaon.  But do your best to be a decent guy, leave honest but tactful reviews, then let the chips fall where they may.  And honestly, if you ARE a decent guy and are tactful, more times than not things are going to work out, so don't sweat the times that they don't.  Now if you come across as something OTHER than a decent guy, you will bear the consequences for that, and miss out on some fun times with some ladies.

Alexandra Kole See my TER Reviews 1028 reads
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11 / 58

There are far too many of us out there for you to "settle" for what you feel like is only a "7" in your book. You absolutely have the right to not think all of us are 9's or 10's, but if you're going to spend the money, don't you want the most bang for your buck (no pun intended)?

Now, you must really want me to flip my lid on the "how is a paying customer not a good match" comment. I don't want to see every swinging dingaling with a fistful of cash. Yes, at the end of the day, I do this for monetary reasons, but I enjoy what I do because I'm very selective about who I spend my time with. If a "gentleman", and I use the term loosely for some, even one that can obey rules, as you say, just may simply not be a good match for me. Maybe it was something he said during reservation scheduling, not necessarily offensive, but enough to let you know, this is going to be a dreadful time. Why in the world would I want to spend even an hour miserable for money? I won't.

It's not simply you give me money, I give you pleasure as you stated. That is so transactional and mechanical. Those experiences are the worst and I really feel sorry for you if that's what it's been like for you. Don't you have more fun when your lady is having fun too?

I don't need your money to make me feel attractive, I know I am. I am a confident, strong woman, as are most of us. But I do want to enjoy my time. Big difference.

Nikki_Irish See my TER Reviews 904 reads
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12 / 58

but the contradiction is a little confusing.

You say you want to date less than attractive to you, but then say those are the types that get attached?

Anyway.

I don't know who you've been seeing, but this isn't where I come to pick up men so the answer to that would be a resounding no.

And, I am autonomous and free to choose who I see. If I were to see your board posts I would definitely think that we wouldn't be a match. You could look at mine and say the same.

We all have free will here and that's a glorious thing, not something to be derided or insulted. If you didn't have a choice I'm sure your 'narrative' would sound much different.

Nikki_Irish See my TER Reviews 581 reads
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USGrantlover 225 Reviews 639 reads
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j-nova 765 reads
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I don't care about typos, it's the rambling nature of your writing and lack of clarity that I was referring to.  You managed to say almost nothing but it took you 1,000 words to say it.

-- Modified on 3/7/2015 10:45:43 PM

j-nova 429 reads
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USGrantlover 225 Reviews 578 reads
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18 / 58

That's all. Well done on the MN board. You sure showed em didn't you?
PS-"Can you make hot lava cake?" Really?

-- Modified on 3/7/2015 8:19:27 PM

MissErinBlack See my TER Reviews 945 reads
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19 / 58

I've said it once and I'll say it a million times if i have to.  Don't see women you aren't attracted to and expect her to make up the difference for your lack of enthusiasm. While it is my responsibility to make sure I provide the best possible experience I can, it is not my responsibility to make up for your lack of enthusiasm.  If you're not into it, I know it. And it makes it harder for me to do my job and do it well.  

Expecting me to make up for you not being into me or for your lack of enthusiasm sets me up for failure and sets you up for disappointment.  If you're hiring me, you should be in to what I have to offer.  If you're not, then move along and find someone else who you'll be far more satisfied with

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 766 reads
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20 / 58

....expecting a lady to making up for a guy's lack of attraction or rather lack of enthusiasm or something like that from.  But yeah +1 right back at ya!

Posted By: MissErinBlack
I've said it once and I'll say it a million times if i have to.  Don't see women you aren't attracted to and expect her to make up the difference for your lack of enthusiasm. While it is my responsibility to make sure I provide the best possible experience I can, it is not my responsibility to make up for your lack of enthusiasm.  If you're not into it, I know it. And it makes it harder for me to do my job and do it well.  
   
 Expecting me to make up for you not being into me or for your lack of enthusiasm sets me up for failure and sets you up for disappointment.  If you're hiring me, you should be in to what I have to offer.  If you're not, then move along and find someone else who you'll be far more satisfied with.    
   
 

Nikki_Irish See my TER Reviews 661 reads
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21 / 58

why do you care if someone's being nice and having fun? Should he be throwing pennies at my ass and telling me to dance?

(I referenced that from a great response here, but forgot who said it)

We're all human here and we're all trying to have a great experience. I can't stand the us-against-them mentality. It's gross, it's juvenile and it's totally uncalled for. I'm not your enemy, calm down.

Why don't you adhere to the old adage: if you can't say something nice...?  

That would be a GREAT start.  

(and thank you, RodTidwell, for the fun banter, you make me smile) :)

Also, the penny photo is degrading and demeaning, just like the OP intended. Gross.

Nikki_Irish See my TER Reviews 624 reads
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OhCharlie See my TER Reviews 631 reads
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23 / 58

People keep asking me if I realize this is TER, and maybe I was in Jamaica for too long, but I am starting to get confused about where I am too.  

Guys bitching about settling for mediocre ladies, dick size threads, men getting catty over hitting on women and trying to get laid... It's the most yawn worthy sausage fest I've ever seen... And that is hard to get me to say! ;-)

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 840 reads
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24 / 58

Something about how you're not into BBWs but you'd see Melissa McCarthy "if she cool?"

I just...I can't.

Life410 12 Reviews 937 reads
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25 / 58

....my opinion. I was browsing the general board and re-did the thread,lol.  

The thing is....how can one give good reviews without comparison? Everything is relative imo. We have seen a guy with a lot of reviews that once posted here be4 the BP fiasco. At a certain point you become a critic of the hobby!  

It's like the ladies would hate if a dude saw them all and ranked them accordingly and critically...That's my point! It's okay for people to review and see there perfect lady...but to see as many as you can to be a trusted critic is frowned upon.  

 

Relax people....it's just a remix I did of a general boards post :-)

Life410 12 Reviews 813 reads
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Posted By: TrulyMsMocha
....who doesn't find me hot as hell?! Sure I like making money and in this industry i'm a "seller" if you will but I know what it's like to be a consumer too. If i'm going to spend my hard-earned money I want to spend it on the best I can get. I'm not gonna waste my time or money settling for what I feel is just okay.  
   
 So....seeing someone you don't find ideally attractive is doing a disservice to yourself and the lady you're seeing. To an extent reviews are business and the lady is already getting the short end of the stick no pun intended because she's expected to make up for the lack of attraction you have for her. No one no matter how much money you wave at them wants to feel like "she'll do". And if you're not as attracted to her as you could be even if she's an amazing performer and does her best to please you there's a high chance any scores given won't be as good as they could've been which hurts her (even though yes we're supposed to pay attention to the content more than the scores yada yada yada). If you don't have a business or job where you're constantly critiqued/graded (ESPECIALLY on looks or where looks are at least half your grade so to speak) you might not ever quite get that. You'd be wasting your time (and the ladies' time) and money seeing someone you're not fully interested in. I could see another provider for pleasure too but I would not spend money on someone I thought was just "acceptable". I have a fully functioning brain....why would I do that to myself?  
   
 We're people with feelings -n- shit, we're women and women especially p4p or not want to know and feel we're attractive (hot/sexy even) in front of the men/women we're spending time with. I not only physically but mentally prepare myself for every date. I want to feel and perform my best like a true professional should. I just can't do that if I already know ahead of time i'm not remotely the 'cup of tea' for the guy i'm about to see. I'd like to think I don't market to the "here just to bust a nut" type of guy who doesn't care much what he sticks himself into thank Flying Spaghetti Monster. I could ramble on but I think i'm good.

-- Modified on 3/7/2015 6:03:17 PM
 
I get it....but the end goals/results are the same. You want that full envelope at the end of the experience and he/she wants to have sexual contact/cum at the end.  

However, If a hobbyist is not interested in sexual contact & cuming there are other avenues for female friendship instead of the hobby . And if you have unreasonable expectations of clients it's a dating service instead of a hustle, which goes back to my thread below that the difference between the hobby and the civie world is that women in the hobby are accepting cash from dutdes for relatively on demand loving

Life410 12 Reviews 680 reads
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27 / 58

Posted By: devindavette
My ad title for next week........  
   
 Thank you.

Life410 12 Reviews 790 reads
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28 / 58

Posted By: Alexandra Kole
There are far too many of us out there for you to "settle" for what you feel like is only a "7" in your book. You absolutely have the right to not think all of us are 9's or 10's, but if you're going to spend the money, don't you want the most bang for your buck (no pun intended)?  
   
 Now, you must really want me to flip my lid on the "how is a paying customer not a good match" comment. I don't want to see every swinging dingaling with a fistful of cash. Yes, at the end of the day, I do this for monetary reasons, but I enjoy what I do because I'm very selective about who I spend my time with. If a "gentleman", and I use the term loosely for some, even one that can obey rules, as you say, just may simply not be a good match for me. Maybe it was something he said during reservation scheduling, not necessarily offensive, but enough to let you know, this is going to be a dreadful time. Why in the world would I want to spend even an hour miserable for money? I won't.  
   
 It's not simply you give me money, I give you pleasure as you stated. That is so transactional and mechanical. Those experiences are the worst and I really feel sorry for you if that's what it's been like for you. Don't you have more fun when your lady is having fun too?  
   
 I don't need your money to make me feel attractive, I know I am. I am a confident, strong woman, as are most of us. But I do want to enjoy my time. Big difference.
But you have room to experiment in this world with women of various looks. Maybe dudes want to try out their first black woman, their first middle eastern woman, or their first bbw to break away from their norm.  Then you realize you like the way bbw perform because of the bodytype...but are not your cup of eye candy.  

But I feel highly detailed/critical discriptions do serve a purpose as it inform guys of reality as opposed to air brushed photos. If a lady shows the imperfections you can go along with photo accurate. But if blemishes are not mentioned by guys you feel lied to when you see otherwise

Life410 12 Reviews 943 reads
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29 / 58

Posted By: Nikki_Irish
but the contradiction is a little confusing.  
   
 You say you want to date less than attractive to you, but then say those are the types that get attached?  
   
 Anyway.  
   
 I don't know who you've been seeing, but this isn't where I come to pick up men so the answer to that would be a resounding no.  
   
 And, I am autonomous and free to choose who I see. If I were to see your board posts I would definitely think that we wouldn't be a match. You could look at mine and say the same.  
   
 We all have free will here and that's a glorious thing, not something to be derided or insulted. If you didn't have a choice I'm sure your 'narrative' would sound much different.
So ladies should be reviewed in a bubble? You need points of reference even known outliers to effectively make comparisons as that would be a better sample size.  

I'm just flushing out that seeing many women and ranking them causes problems. Ladies don't want men to be siskel and ebert with critical eyes to find the best provider(s) in their opinion.

USGrantlover 225 Reviews 654 reads
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Arovet 62 Reviews 719 reads
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31 / 58

You posted a snide comment to the guy who wrote a balance and reasoned analysis, and gave both sides very good advice. If you're so up in arms about the "stalker" why didn't you address him directly? That's rhetorical, everyone knows how to read and can go to the MN board and see for themselves that what you're trying to repaint as Rod defending a "poor girl" against a stalker is just another incoherent BSU post.

Wave bye-bye to this branch everyone, Roddy doesn't like to look bad so this will be pulled in short order.

Arovet 62 Reviews 558 reads
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32 / 58

when you posted you didn't know shit but you waded in anyway.

Oh and thanks for accusing me of siding with a stalker, typical ad hominem Tidwell attack. You really think that scores you points with the laydees, don't you? Get some help, you're a borderline sociopath.

Alexandra Kole See my TER Reviews 831 reads
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33 / 58

Yes, you can experiment, but you make their reviews part of YOUR decision on who you see. I'm not a BBW, but it sounds like you aren't willing to give a BBW a 9 or 10 simply because she's a BBW, and that is wrong. Maybe she is a 9 or 10 amongst the BBW crowd. You're not supposed to be rating us compared to Victoria Secret models. If you were, none of us would fit your 9 or 10 mold and I'm goddamn HOT. I'm all for accurate ratings, but the more you speak, the more it sounds like you're hunting for a reason to NOT give a lady a 9 or 10. Example: Maybe you like 20-somes. So you'd give me a 5 (dare I say less) based on the fact that I'm 37. Is that fair to me? No, because I openly advertise my age and you would see it and choose to see me anyway because you wanted to try a MILF. And I have a face and body to rival most 20-somes. But it wouldn't be good enough for you, even though you knew it goung in...

Everyone's photos are not highly photoshopped. There have been times my photographer has had to use photoshop on my pictures if I had a bruise the day of the shoot, because I wouldn't normally have a bruise when I show up to see you. Is that being deceptive? No. But NONE of us are absolute perfection.

You're saying two different things. On one hand you say you choose to see BBW and then rate them bad because they aren't model hot, when you knew that going in, and then you're talking about photo-shopped photos and feeling lied to. Completely different subjects. I'm fairly certain there are NOT a band of BBW out there photoshopping themselves down to a size 2. They market their BBW, as they should.

Are you perfect? Do you look in the mirror and think it's a treat for us to be with you? It works both ways. No, you're not being paid, but I have as much choice in who I see as you do, and I don't want to see a 500 lb 80 year old either. Not for a million dollars.

Arovet 62 Reviews 591 reads
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34 / 58

I wonder if they have someone on you full time yet?

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 765 reads
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35 / 58

Posted By: Life410
 
   
Posted By: TrulyMsMocha
....who doesn't find me hot as hell?! Sure I like making money and in this industry i'm a "seller" if you will but I know what it's like to be a consumer too. If i'm going to spend my hard-earned money I want to spend it on the best I can get. I'm not gonna waste my time or money settling for what I feel is just okay.  
     
  So....seeing someone you don't find ideally attractive is doing a disservice to yourself and the lady you're seeing. To an extent reviews are business and the lady is already getting the short end of the stick no pun intended because she's expected to make up for the lack of attraction you have for her. No one no matter how much money you wave at them wants to feel like "she'll do". And if you're not as attracted to her as you could be even if she's an amazing performer and does her best to please you there's a high chance any scores given won't be as good as they could've been which hurts her (even though yes we're supposed to pay attention to the content more than the scores yada yada yada). If you don't have a business or job where you're constantly critiqued/graded (ESPECIALLY on looks or where looks are at least half your grade so to speak) you might not ever quite get that. You'd be wasting your time (and the ladies' time) and money seeing someone you're not fully interested in. I could see another provider for pleasure too but I would not spend money on someone I thought was just "acceptable". I have a fully functioning brain....why would I do that to myself?    
     
  We're people with feelings -n- shit, we're women and women especially p4p or not want to know and feel we're attractive (hot/sexy even) in front of the men/women we're spending time with. I not only physically but mentally prepare myself for every date. I want to feel and perform my best like a true professional should. I just can't do that if I already know ahead of time i'm not remotely the 'cup of tea' for the guy i'm about to see. I'd like to think I don't market to the "here just to bust a nut" type of guy who doesn't care much what he sticks himself into thank Flying Spaghetti Monster. I could ramble on but I think i'm good.  
   
 -- Modified on 3/7/2015 6:03:17 PM
   
   
 I get it....but the end goals/results are the same. You want that full envelope at the end of the experience and he/she wants to have sexual contact/cum at the end.  
   
 However, If a hobbyist is not interested in sexual contact & cuming there are other avenues for female friendship instead of the hobby . And if you have unreasonable expectations of clients it's a dating service instead of a hustle, which goes back to my thread below that the difference between the hobby and the civie world is that women in the hobby are accepting cash from dutdes for relatively on demand loving.  
 

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 878 reads
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Posted By: Alexandra Kole
Yes, you can experiment, but you make their reviews part of YOUR decision on who you see. I'm not a BBW, but it sounds like you aren't willing to give a BBW a 9 or 10 simply because she's a BBW, and that is wrong. Maybe she is a 9 or 10 amongst the BBW crowd. You're not supposed to be rating us compared to Victoria Secret models. If you were, none of us would fit your 9 or 10 mold and I'm goddamn HOT. I'm all for accurate ratings, but the more you speak, the more it sounds like you're hunting for a reason to NOT give a lady a 9 or 10. Example: Maybe you like 20-somes. So you'd give me a 5 (dare I say less) based on the fact that I'm 37. Is that fair to me? No, because I openly advertise my age and you would see it and choose to see me anyway because you wanted to try a MILF. And I have a face and body to rival most 20-somes. But it wouldn't be good enough for you, even though you knew it goung in...  
   
 Everyone's photos are not highly photoshopped. There have been times my photographer has had to use photoshop on my pictures if I had a bruise the day of the shoot, because I wouldn't normally have a bruise when I show up to see you. Is that being deceptive? No. But NONE of us are absolute perfection.  
   
 You're saying two different things. On one hand you say you choose to see BBW and then rate them bad because they aren't model hot, when you knew that going in, and then you're talking about photo-shopped photos and feeling lied to. Completely different subjects. I'm fairly certain there are NOT a band of BBW out there photoshopping themselves down to a size 2. They market their BBW, as they should.  
   
 Are you perfect? Do you look in the mirror and think it's a treat for us to be with you? It works both ways. No, you're not being paid, but I have as much choice in who I see as you do, and I don't want to see a 500 lb 80 year old either. Not for a million dollars.

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Posted By: Alexandra Kole
Yes, you can experiment, but you make their reviews part of YOUR decision on who you see. I'm not a BBW, but it sounds like you aren't willing to give a BBW a 9 or 10 simply because she's a BBW, and that is wrong. Maybe she is a 9 or 10 amongst the BBW crowd. You're not supposed to be rating us compared to Victoria Secret models. If you were, none of us would fit your 9 or 10 mold and I'm goddamn HOT. I'm all for accurate ratings, but the more you speak, the more it sounds like you're hunting for a reason to NOT give a lady a 9 or 10. Example: Maybe you like 20-somes. So you'd give me a 5 (dare I say less) based on the fact that I'm 37. Is that fair to me? No, because I openly advertise my age and you would see it and choose to see me anyway because you wanted to try a MILF. And I have a face and body to rival most 20-somes. But it wouldn't be good enough for you, even though you knew it goung in...  
   
 Everyone's photos are not highly photoshopped. There have been times my photographer has had to use photoshop on my pictures if I had a bruise the day of the shoot, because I wouldn't normally have a bruise when I show up to see you. Is that being deceptive? No. But NONE of us are absolute perfection.  
   
 You're saying two different things. On one hand you say you choose to see BBW and then rate them bad because they aren't model hot, when you knew that going in, and then you're talking about photo-shopped photos and feeling lied to. Completely different subjects. I'm fairly certain there are NOT a band of BBW out there photoshopping themselves down to a size 2. They market their BBW, as they should.  
   
 Are you perfect? Do you look in the mirror and think it's a treat for us to be with you? It works both ways. No, you're not being paid, but I have as much choice in who I see as you do, and I don't want to see a 500 lb 80 year old either. Not for a million dollars.
You make valid points! But that's bubble/niche reviewing...what wrong comparing old/young, black/white, fit/skinny/thick/bbw to find best overall?  

Prime Halle Berry in the 90s is 10.  
J-LO in late 90s is 9 along with prime Kim K.  
Prime Beyoncé early late 90s-early 2000s is 8 along with prime Jessica Simpson & prime Britney spears.  

Most women are 5-7 including the hobby. I think 8,9,10 is rarefied air and a lot of dudes inflate scores based on my attraction standards. But it's whateva! I liked to be wowed at 8-10 like she should be on the cover of people magazine

OhCharlie See my TER Reviews 697 reads
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There are reasons some are so proud of chasing women away from posting here, either by insulting them outright or badgering anyone who spends two seconds NOT being a jerk. And I would be willing to put good money on pitying them more than the ladies or gentlemen they harass any day, if you knew ;-)

(Not throwing shade at you Grant, just pillow talk. idk your life lol)

Nikki_Irish See my TER Reviews 791 reads
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it's that you can't string them together to make a coherent sentence.  

And, there are PLENTY of men who see women and rate them that aren't at my level (whatever level that may be) and for many reasons. Lack of funds, an unwillingness to go past a certain price point, etc. We don't need you to pretend like you're doing the world a favor by leveling the playing field.

The problem with your 'theory' is that subjectivity is at play. That's something that people take into consideration when meeting someone.  

I'm not sure why you're trying to control something that's out of your control because you're alienating women with your harsh critique and inability to make a point without being completely degrading about it.  

So, yeah, like Ms. Mocha said: JUST STOP

OhCharlie See my TER Reviews 732 reads
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Do you need to see a BBW to know you're not attracted to them?

Do you have to see a girl with tiny tits to know you like big ones?

Do you have to have a girl roll her eyes in your face and tell you to hurry up because you've got 5 out of 15 minutes left to know you don't like that sort of thing?

Do you have to eat at Taco Bell to know that sushi is delicious? Or can you just eat it and figure it out?

And no, you don't eventually "become a critic". I know several men who have managed to do this for twenty years without thinking they have to be a jerk to have fun, and you certainly don't have to waste money on people you know you won't enjoy in order to understand that another girl does it for you.

Alexandra Kole See my TER Reviews 770 reads
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Dude, you just made my point! You're saying we should be compared to celebrities. Sooooo not realistic. When Halle Berry & J-LO are selling their hoo-haa's, I'll side with you...

If you think celebrities photos (keep in mind you ONLY see them done up and ALWAYS photoshopped) really look the way they are shown in "movies" IN REAL LIFE then you were dropped on your head as an infant one too many times. How many of them have you met that would still rate so high on your scale?

I still stand fast to BBWs and old bags like myself should not be rated lower just for that when we openly advertise what we are and are still being selected to be seen, that's all. I am all for accurate reviews. But, I've met Mocha, for example, in person. She's not my bodybuild, but she is smoking hot. The fact that she's not a spinner type should not solely lead to a detriment in her appearance ratings. Because, most guys into a spinner WON'T see a BBW, and vice versa. No guy that likes huge tits is going to come see me. But that's why Baskin Robbins has so many flavors ; )

mnjohnny247 19 Reviews 795 reads
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......Much has been written here about Tidwell on this thread and many other threads on many boards.  Do you all see a pattern?  IMHO, he is not the “nice guy”, the picture he tries so hard to paint.  He has proven by his board persona on many TER Boards to be arrogant, immature, patronizing, a liar, an exaggerator and one who threatens others.  This is not a nice man, in spite of the posts he writes ostensibly supporting providers.  I believe there is a potentially dangerous instability at work here.    

The links below are a picture of recent events on the MN Board, where Tidwell inserted himself into a thread and then called out others without knowing any facts.  It is not pretty.  Even the lady who he stepped into WK thanked me for calling him out (link 2).  

At least be in command of the facts before you take his back.  

 

link 2: She does want his help
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=209203&boardID=21&page=1#209203

Life410 12 Reviews 780 reads
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Posted By: OhCharlie
Do you need to see a BBW to know you're not attracted to them?  
   
 Do you have to see a girl with tiny tits to know you like big ones?  
   
 Do you have to have a girl roll her eyes in your face and tell you to hurry up because you've got 5 out of 15 minutes left to know you don't like that sort of thing?  
   
 Do you have to eat at Taco Bell to know that sushi is delicious? Or can you just eat it and figure it out?  
   
 And no, you don't eventually "become a critic". I know several men who have managed to do this for twenty years without thinking they have to be a jerk to have fun, and you certainly don't have to waste money on people you know you won't enjoy in order to understand that another girl does it for you.
We live in the ESPN/twitter/Instagram/yelp aka yell your opinion era! People do things and have experiences just to talk about it, be it good or bad! I honestly read some dudes review on here because they are generally entertaining and I lmao.  

It's a new era compared to the vets in which you have spoken. In general this is the do it to post it on social media for reaction/go viral era! Consequently, this is the do it to review it on TER era imo. Some dudes talk about being great lovers and the girl cums a million times in their reviews, which is funny if they do it right....  and some guys write reviews in which you go "OMG I can't believe he was was so mean in description" and people end up laughing.  

Reviewers have an audience, arguably more now in days than ever.... and once someone complainins  about a review it ads to the interest/humor.  I'm Just giving my views on things taking place these days

nahtynikkey See my TER Reviews 748 reads
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OMG....these two paragraphs right here say it all.... thank you...someone with some sense:)  

Posted By: Jstgttnstrtd
But this is clearly a very different type of business - a highly highly personal business, where ladies can refuse to see you for any reason they want.  And that's as it should be of course.  They are having sex with strangers, so how can we NOT respect their right to "just say no" for WHATEVER REASON they may not be comfortable with a potential client.  Just think about the alternative to this... what you'd be saying is that ladies should ALWAYS automatically agree to have sex with a guy assuming he meets some very basic minimal screening.  Sorry, but no lady should be made to feel she doesn't have control over herself in this most basic of ways, even if she has chosen to be in this profession.  This business is not the same thing AT ALL as other service businesses, where yes, you should provide service to all people who walk into your store or restaurant.  Rather than complain that this isn't like all other business, just be happy that there are so many lovely ladies who ARE up for the adventure of this clandestine little world.  
   
   
 Bottom line - there is just a lot that we don't control.  Ladies are free to refuse anyone for any reaon.  But do your best to be a decent guy, leave honest but tactful reviews, then let the chips fall where they may.  And honestly, if you ARE a decent guy and are tactful, more times than not things are going to work out, so don't sweat the times that they don't.  Now if you come across as something OTHER than a decent guy, you will bear the consequences for that, and miss out on some fun times with some ladies.

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but only your very last sentence. "sometimes" it really is funny that a supposed grown man could be this needy, clingy, whiny, clueless and lame, all at the same time.

but yeah, everything else you said was spot on.

USGrantlover 225 Reviews 375 reads
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And you'd be wrong. What a pathetic specimen.

-- Modified on 3/8/2015 3:18:21 PM

OhCharlie See my TER Reviews 838 reads
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"Reviewers have an audience, arguably more now in days than ever.... and once someone complainins  about a review it ads to the interest/humor.  I'm Just giving my views on things taking place these days."

I mean... Really. Come back from the twilight zone dude.

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YOU sir are a shit stirrer and a liar and anyone looking at that thread will come to that conclusion.  
STOP THE LIES!!  But, of course you won't. You wonder why others  post against you  (yes, you do because it is a constant topic of your posts).  It is YOU. You are an immature, lying, drama king.  Dangerous too, imho.  Oh and it's not funny either!

CrackDuphyBlowingChunks46 661 reads
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and needs to be on some meds as well. Oh what the hell, you shouldn't excuse him for any of it!  I read the whole thread and everything you said is what many have been dealing with since he's been looking for a board on TER  where he can fit in and lead the board towards the greater good and world peace and a safe harbor for the laydees. He likes to play Capt. Save-A-Ho, even when the lady doesn't need his W/knighting behavior!

Posted By: mnjohnny247
YOU sir are a shit stirrer and a liar and anyone looking at that thread will come to that conclusion.    
 STOP THE LIES!!  But, of course you won't. You wonder why others  post against you  (yes, you do because it is a constant topic of your posts).  It is YOU. You are an immature, lying, drama king.  Dangerous too, imho.  Oh and it's not funny either!

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Regarding the MN board post about the provider being harassed.  No one knows who the supposed harasser is.  She does not identify who he/she is.  You pull it out of thin air that it is the OP from the NCNS thread.  You don't know that, nobody knows that! Then you say all the guys on the MN Board agreed with the NCNS poster out of some “bro code”.  You are delusional, Tidwell, completely delusional.  I actually posted on that thread that any advice to the provider be given to her by PM to AVOID embarrassment on the board.

What you post here is a blatant lie.  I am beginning to think you don't even know how to tell the truth.  You make up "facts", you conflate issues, you make accusations and all without a SHRED of evidence, only what your mind has conjured up.  I posted further down in this thread that I thought you were dangerous.  I think you are!

 
 
Posted By: RodTidweLL
You would know that their are two threads, that occurred on different days.  
   
 The first day, the now stalker, bashes the lady, all the guys defend him out of bro code (even you now).  
   
 The second day (link provided in my post above) she announces his stalking.  
   
 You didn't read the thread or you'd know. You didn't click my link or you'd know. Your going based on what some guys who already have biases and hate said.  
   
 Except I'm on the side of the lady and YOU the stalker. This is not really the fight you want to have to prove your better then me.


-- Modified on 3/8/2015 8:54:54 PM

USGrantlover 225 Reviews 579 reads
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Your MN 'escapades' have certainly enlightened many as to who and what you are. And fortunately there's yet another board where you can be discussed at length in peace. Where are all your usual female defenders? Why is Ter allowing these threads/posts? Do those facts tell you anything? You and the "purdee ladies" plea for civility and yet every time there's a shit storm look who's in the middle? Our fave pineta? Well done.

mnjohnny247 19 Reviews 622 reads
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...Rod posted earlier that all the MN Board guys agreed with the NCNS poster out of a "bro code", remember?  Now he says that OP got blasted for it???     SMFH

Bottom line, I'm sure there are not many around here reading these posts.  I made my point and I don't intend to engage Tidwell in his twisted games.  My intent was simply to offer my perspective on a very troubled man that I think can be and is dangerous at times.  Anyone who actually knows me IRL (and several ladies and gents from the TER world in MN do), know I am semi retired and have owned and operated many successful enterprises over many years.   I'm not dense, I have a well honed common sense and I can spot bullshit a mile away and Mr Tidwell is full of it, IMO.  The one thing I never do is try and “connect the dots” when I don't have all the facts. The other day on the MN Board ,Tidwell asked in a derisive post:  "How you guys function in everyday life baffles me".  Speaking for myself; I function very well Mr Tidwell, very well indeed!

Yesterday:
Posted By: RodTidweLL
   
 The first day, the now stalker, bashes the lady, all the guys defend him out of bro code (even you now).  
 
Today:
Posted By: RodTidweLL
Day 1, guy makes post, going at her with thinly veiled insults. He gets blasted for it.  
   
 Day 2, lady getting harassing emails from stranger.  
   
 Do you always have trouble connecting the dots?  
   
 Do you need to jump in the lake, to figure out you will get wet?
-- Modified on 3/9/2015 10:55:58 AM

Schtuperman 679 reads
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He is nothing more than a drama king.

Bad press is still press to him and he simply thrives on seeing his own words on the Internet.

A pathetic specimen you called him? I would say that is very accurate

USGrantlover 225 Reviews 468 reads
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Bragging to ladies about being the first to start a congratulatory Ms Ter thread? Hot lava cake? His self immolations know no bounds.

Catalina_Rizal See my TER Reviews 678 reads
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Thank you!
 

Posted By: Jstgttnstrtd
But this is clearly a very different type of business - a highly highly personal business, where ladies can refuse to see you for any reason they want.  And that's as it should be of course.  They are having sex with strangers, so how can we NOT respect their right to "just say no" for WHATEVER REASON they may not be comfortable with a potential client.  Just think about the alternative to this... what you'd be saying is that ladies should ALWAYS automatically agree to have sex with a guy assuming he meets some very basic minimal screening.  Sorry, but no lady should be made to feel she doesn't have control over herself in this most basic of ways, even if she has chosen to be in this profession.  This business is not the same thing AT ALL as other service businesses, where yes, you should provide service to all people who walk into your store or restaurant.  Rather than complain that this isn't like all other business, just be happy that there are so many lovely ladies who ARE up for the adventure of this clandestine little world.  
   
 Now tying this back to reviews, it does make this part of the hobby a delicate matter.  Leaving aside the obvious that guys shouldn't be dicks in their reviews and say gratuitously insulting things, there can often be a basic legitimate dilemma: do I be completely truthful, when doing so might come back to bite me in the ass?  While reviews help other guys, in certain cases, they may not be in the best interest of the individual reviewer. Your example fits this.  If you gave lady a low appearance score, it could very well impact another lady's decision to see you.  So it can make it difficult to be honest when honesty would mean giving a lower score than most other reviewers.  Even if a guy tries his best to navigate that zone of being both tactful and truthful at the same time, there will ALWAYS be the risk that a lady might not like what he wrote or the low scores that he gave to some others.  
   
 Bottom line - there is just a lot that we don't control.  Ladies are free to refuse anyone for any reaon.  But do your best to be a decent guy, leave honest but tactful reviews, then let the chips fall where they may.  And honestly, if you ARE a decent guy and are tactful, more times than not things are going to work out, so don't sweat the times that they don't.  Now if you come across as something OTHER than a decent guy, you will bear the consequences for that, and miss out on some fun times with some ladies.

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Posted By: DaveMogal
...A few of them told me that they should be paying me.
I bet they'd change their mind as soon as you took them up on that offer.  But its a nice illusion to offer.

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