First time I posted this a day ago, link was duplicate. Here I go again with one.  How many of you respond to these instead of arranging through a provider?  Wondering what's behind the door. Ladies, you go this route in civie life?

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I've never had the desire for this. That said, if the ONE lady I'd listen to asked, I'd get my head around it if she asked me to darken her door and meet her S0 or husband in this setting. A lot to work through though to be comfortable given how I'm wired.

I have found these largely to be fake.  I've responded to a few, but I usually get a link to a dating site that requires my credit card.  So I'm naturally skeptical.

Mixed bag. For my fetish tastes not great.  For vanilla love including something like this, it's worked out pretty well for me to meet couples like this.

Have no idea who the post/ad relates. But if couple I met last Friday afternoon in C city, pm me. She's ok, bit ditzy and short. He's......................

Our experience is similar on CL being a mixed bag. Part of the problem for the single guys responding is you never know if the wife is actually into it or the hubby is pushing it.  There are providers here that have been mentioned that do this thing with their husbands. While some guys think that's got baggage, it's a guarantee not to meet wackos -- although one or more of the spouses might not be your cup of tea. It's about the experience.  My view is that if the lady is not truly into it, it's just a waste of time.

I have never done this thing yet.  The thing I am most curious about and I have not yet asked providers that I know that are married is this: who enjoys it: the hubby or the wife more (if both do).  Im with the guy above saying it would take the right special lady for me to get there.  Ladies, if you do this with your husbands or guys you know those that do, please pm me or otherwise ID yourself or them here. I am interested, just need persuading   By the way, I responded to the ad with some legit and anonomous emails and never heard boo!

I won't with a prover and her hubby in the biz ever again.  Civie's yes.  Had issue with hubby that remains and issue. Gents if you are going to see provider and hubby do your due diligence on his "style' and control.

Buddy saw utr busty blonde provider in crystal city sat that I think goes with ad for what its worth. More only by pm.