I understand the need for certain restrictions; some of the ladies don't want to deal with the younger, immature crowd.

But I called up Kandi, and eveything was fine until she asked me how old I am.  I responded (I'm in my mid-30's), and she said "Sorry" and hung up.  Wow.  Ladies (and fellas), how do you feel about age restrictions?

And fellas have any of you passed muster and seen Kandi?  She seems like a sweet young thing (of course, we all know how accurate the pics on CL and Backpage can be...)?


http://washingtondc.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/_hott_sexy_brunette_awaits_you_24/classifieds/ViewAd?oid=1723330

http://washingtondc.craigslist.org/nva/ads/1262632777.html

You are right that providers have reasons for refusing to see young guys, and some girls refuse to see guys over a certain age, but a guy your age should not have trouble meeting anybody's age restriction.  

That is silly.  Her age restrictions should be in her ad.

be happy you did not waste your time and money she changes her name and number everytime a real review showes up sex but notouch there for the money

"Mid 30s" is code for "in my 60s"

Had you said, "35", she would likely have seen you without issue.

I have never even been asked. I got my hobby-cherry popped when I was 28 nobody asked then and nobody has asked since then.  

The very fact that you brought age up may have raised a red flag. It may sound like you are not confident and she immediately she sensed it. You may not have given her much of a choice to hang up on you.

Chalk this one up to experience. Learn from it and move on to the next sweet young thing.

At my age I worry about the upper limits.


Hmmmm mid-30's did she say if you are too young or too old ?


Thank You
2009 = 27

on both sides--provider and hobbyist.

I tried to see a provider from a popular agency, called last minute to confirm; operator asked my age ... and provider was suddenly sick. I saw in later reviews that she liked only very young men.

Too bad for her. On another occasion, erotic masseuse asks--
*How* old are you?
I state my age.
She: "You have the penis of a much younger man."
Me: "He's a lucky bastard."

It's a big world out there, and I want to taste as much of it as I can.

They have unspoken safety requirements like no young guys, no blacks,etc because they have no real way of verifying you.  So some other  BP/CL girl say, I never see guys under a certain age because they will rob you.  I heard it before so I stepped up my game joined a verification site and date professionals not an internet street ho, you should try it.

age is irrelevant in this case.  you called a low-end provider, an up seller, a minimum get-by with as little as possible scammer.  it was not your age that made her hang up on you.  it was the feeling she got about you while talking to you -- you failed the test.

and you should feel lucky that you failed her test as you would have been very disappointed in the girl/session.

From a ladies point of view...

I have a 40 y/o or over age requirement on my posts as I am not attracted to young gentleman.  This biz is about chemistry and the session would not be enjoyable if either party is uncomfortable.  

Until the EEOC regulates my biz I will continue to have age requirements.

Wow, wouldn't see you if you're in 30s. I Anyways, the ladies get to set their requirements so just move on there's plenty of lovely ladies who will probably see you.

If you read my post carefully, I didn't bring up my age. She asked before continuing with our conversation.

Do you a review for her, or can you direct me towards her other reviews?

Didn't say.  As soon as I told her my age after she asked, she responded "Sorry" and hung up.

Yeah, I'm not bothered by it, more shocked.  My hobbying opportunities are few and far between now, and when I have a limited window, my options are narrowed to who's close, near, and available.

I usually get this because I am a young guy I am only 23 and I prefer older women. But I completely respect women who have age boundaries that deal with older women younger guys because some providers have children my age so I can see how it can be an issue in cases like that. But mid 30's seems average age I wouldnt see why she would turn you down. So I have issues securing older women but like I said its uderstandable and have no issues with it at all kind of a bummer because around here the older women around here are amazing