When you PM asking for information on a lady, you need to be aware that without any board persona (posts) or reviews, I for one, am not going to share information about any lady with you.

 
Always asking for information about ladies but not sharing any (by way of writing reviews or responding to board posts) raises a   H - U - G - E   red flag for me.

 
Mentioning you "know things" or "heard things" about a lady and trying to get me to confirm or deny them is not going to work either.

 
Lastly, just because I wrote a review of a lady does NOT mean I know her life story, what her dreams are, where she's from or what her real name is. I do not expect a lady to share her life story with me, why should you? Taking this a step further, if I was trusted to receive this information, why would I then share it with you or anyone else for that matter?  

 
So guys, take this advice, it's free so take it for what it's worth ... participate on the boards and write some reviews. This shows me and everyone else you are legitimate. I do not mind sharing some info with you if I know you or can easily check you out. But in any case, NEVER ask me to share personal information about a lady. Even if I do know, I will not share it.

Except my reasons for not sharing info with individuals with miminal ( if any ) board presence goes beyond legitimacy or safety issues  

 
 If someone is “ above “ writing reviews ie unwilling to share their experiences with others .......I’m not going to respond to their inquiries.  The review I took the time and effort will have to suffice .

That said , like ILSW I’m  more than happy if I can be of help to any of the contributing members of the TER community.....rather it be a gent or one of the amazing ladies that participate in board discussions .
But like ILSW , I will never....never break a confidentiality.

Incidentally, I can attest ILSW has been one of the exceptional TERites for years.  

END OF MESSAGE

I wish more men were like you!  Newbies often don't know better  

Thank you for understanding this!

i was told in few occasions the same thing.. that XYZ sent a private message asking about personal things about me (or anything else) very fishy and huuuuuuge red flags!

thank you for respecting our privacy, you be sure we do the same.

I thought it was funny he had to post this. Of course you’re goinging to have ur mailbox explode with dozens of drooling desires for detail after being the first to review her and giving a 10/10. She has nice recieved another review, a 9/10.

He didn’t say he wouldn’t offer some information but why give it to those who have no history on TER. They should just have read the review, checked out his credibility and gone for it.

I am not one to give out any more detail than what’s in the review aside from being asked was incall in upscale hotel or location and is parking easy.

I wouldn’t even answer questions about screening processes, let them ask her.  

I hope the majority will respect your privacy but know some will not sadly. If you’re fortunate to have been told by a respected client of someone asking for TMI I hope they shared the members name so you can block or deny any chance of them seeing you.

I remember several times sharing lunch, drinks, and stories of ladies with you. I met a wonderful ATF because of you. Sorry that part of our collective lives went by the wayside, because of the haters.

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Although I do not know what I did to deserve this accolade, glad to hear about your ATF.

 
Fond memories of times spent with good friends and yes, the haters do ruin things don't they?

 
We should try to get together again sometime ... although I do travel quite a bit for work, I do manage to be around these home parts every so often, sometimes even for a week at a time ... LOL!!

 
PM me if you're interested.

Perhaps it's me but I don't understand the purpose of this post.

Unless you contacted me using an alias, it was not you.

And if you do not understand the purpose of the post, you need to look in the mirror because YOU ARE PART OF THE PROBLEM.