So, met this girl almost 6yrs ago now (at the time she was 25) on SA.  We hit it off immediately.  Her rate was reasonable for "an off the clock" GFE style session that may last 3-4 hrs.  Then, jackpot, I asked would she be willing to travel with me occasionally where she would accompany on Business trips for a week...same rate ($1,000).  We did this a couple of three times and it was all love.

We had a break / pause in the action, all organically, no issues prompting it.  When we get back together and start spending time again she doubles the "gift" to $2G.  No issue, we still spend anywhere from 1 day to a week same gift amount.

We take another organic hiatus.  When we get back together this time (mind you she's 30 now) she says her gift is now $2G a visit, "off the clock style" and if we travel and/or do consecutive days, it's $4G for 4 days, and $8G for 5-7 days.  Now, by Escort standards. I can't get any better than that and I ain't complaining.

However, and this is where I need my Monger Bros observations.  We expressed our "hybrid affection" for each other.  A space between SA and real world feelings.  But as the old saying goes, "...many times it's not what you do, is how you do it...."  And here's how she did it...

1. I hate using CashAp! Always have issues using it.  Attempted to send her gift and shyt would not work.  Thus is a Monday, and we're scheduled to meet on Thursday.  I tell her I'll get her straight on Thursday.  She says no I'd like to get straight ASAP.  WTF, six years, never an issue with me paying her.  That shyt pissed me off.  I kept it to myself...kinda.  Have her the money the next day.

2.  The gift increase came from left field.  Again, I mad at it.  But just the vibe of it all.  NOTE-The service level has not walked one bit.

Long story short, should I tell my mind to STFU and quote Snoop Dogg "....We don't love them Hoes..."  That feeling / emotion shyt is not for this game.  As long as I got a good "deal" from "The Game" perspective.  Keep it moving.  

I probably just answered my own question.  Just needed the voice of Mongers to level set me back to reality.  I give her credit, she's staying true to the game!  We are just tricks!!

I've fallen for a few. And my humble opinion, it was a stupid , bad, bonehead move
 Nothing good ever comes from this kind of relationship. NOTHING!!!
 Like Cuba Goodin once said
Show me the money.... All we are is an ATM..
Keep your perspective.... keep it real.

You just keep blindly paying her thousands of dollars at the drop of a hat whenever she asks for it and whatever amount she wants. I'd think you'd get more consideration than what she's providing. Personally, I think you're crazy.  

 
I'd spend my thousands elsewhere. Time to say goodbye to her. I think you should have done that quite a while ago.

I’m out the doe (door).

Despite your "relationship", which you have described as being awesome for many years, she keeps jacking up the rates on a "sure thing/great client".  

In my industry, (financial services) good clients actually pay less in fees.  A client who has over a million pays a better rate than someone with $100k.  Unless they take up an inordinate amount of time.  The markets are only open from 9:30-4pm each day.  Time spent too much on one client means the others not getting any attention at all.  

Perhaps she senses her shelf life in the business is starting to tick down, or mentally she's starting to "get that feeling".
A few favorites have mentioned getting out of the business as they have all hit their 30's and above.  One just gets tired of doing the same thing.  The gals in the field go one step further and give up their bods to us.  A bit different than just burning out from typical office work for a slave-driving office manager.  It has to take its toll.

Whether she genuinely appreciates the time spent with you, or whether she's just a great provider/actress; back off from your normal escapades with her.  Depending on how popular she is, either she'll realize she pushed it too far with you, ($$$-wise) or she sees more hourly rate mongers.

You'll have your answer.  Unless, by your very post, you seem to want more potentially?  
It's ultimately a business.  Spend your $$$ wisely and not foolishly.  They are lots of others that could replace her at a rate that is a LOT less.

Make it plain!  Yep, crazy indeed.  Thanks!

My thinking exactly!  Why would she be penny wise and pound foolish....running off a consistent client.  I also figure it was a hint that she didn't need my "support" anymore.  Sometimes significant price hikes are designed to run people away.

You're paying to be pissed off?  This doesn't make any sense.  You're obviously an ATM that has fallen for an escort.  
 I'm sure the other girls on this board would gladly take your money.  Spread the wealth for a better time.  

Preach / Church!!

Well, I won't be doing that.  But I do thank my fellow Mongers for helping me break the spell.

It's clear that it's just a transaction for her so you need to treat it as such. It's up to you to decide if the outlay of cash is worth it.

With...the...utmost...respect for you as an individual with your own ways and means..... I believe she has had your number for six years. Time to walk away..... Again, with...the...utmost...respect.

Appreciate it.  Didn't think of that angle, having my number for six years.  But in the early years we were on the same page, I was getting a bargain (a whole week for a G) and we kept business.

It is still a bargain if you think it is a bargain.
Only YOU can decide if it is worth to YOU.

The rate hikes were the tip off. If this woman really cared about you she would have at least grandfathered you in at a lower rate than what she would normally charge. You gotta keep moving in this business. You have to constantly keep doing your Internet homework to see what's out there at your price point. Check out the ads, the prices, and check reviews. Reading the reviews is a great way to discover new providers that slipped below your radar. Settling down with one provider as your ATF is about as bad as getting married.

My view ONLY:  You should be very thankful that she had given you consistent signal, that it is transactional and you are only as good as the next payment.  The fact that you are also looking at the $$$$ at all, means that nothing special about her to you.

Been there, done that.  Every visit for few years, I had tipped enormously. On time, no OTC.  Once she was late by 30 minutes and I did not have time to go through the 3 hour session.  I was still charged 3 hrs instead of 90 minutes, when she said she does not do 1/2 hr.  Her P411 had rates for 90 minutes.  I was miffed as well.  Why would she kill the golden goose (IMO).  But I was thankful to be shown my place.  Years of visits, tips does not matter.  Both ways.  She charging full rate and me being miffed means this will be transactional for ever.  Painful it was, but I cut and run gracefully.

Again, IMO the moment you look at the relationship with critical eye, it is already going down the drain.  Strong bonds are mostly unconditional.  Pretty rare.  But when you have it, you know it, you will cherish.

Best luck Brother.

OPs situation sounds like a sugar baby. Yours sounded like a regular provider.  

If she wouldn't lower the cost based on her being late I would have walked out right then and there.

There is a distinction, I agree.  
I did not want OTC. I had my own rules, which I stuck too.  
But the parameters are identical and  my message still stands:  Be very thankful, for consistent transactional signal.

Sessions were way, way out of the world, every time.  I am not really sure, whose lose it is LOL

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Honesty, excellent point taken; can't lose site that it's all transactional.  

With that said, yes we had SD/SB thing vs povider arrangement.  So, the rate/s I paid, and still paying are far below what I would pay to a "provider."  For example, I can have the SB travel with me over a long weekend (3-4 days) for half any provider rates.  Again, the miff came when she increased her "gift" by a significant amount.  She basically doubled her "gift" requirement.  For her company of 5-7 days, it's still a bargain when compared to provider rates where I would pay a 3rd to a 1/4 of what a provider would charge.  However, that price point is out of my range and I will never pay it.

Hence, if I keep the focus that this shyt is all about money, ain't Damn thing funny, you got to have a con in this land of milk and honey.  Then I'll be good.

Catching feelings is a NoNo in this game.  The service level is off the chain with the SB and has actually gotten better with time.  So I will keep her in the rotation.  Just gonna add some newbies to the rotation to keep the spell of the SB broken.  Like the old saying goes, ain't no p짧y like some new p짧y.

And I can't front, I have NEVER met a provider or SB who has EVER lost site of this being transactional and we are viewed as tricks.

Forget the hoe - they are all replaceable - and head to the FKKs of Germany and Austria.  

https://www.fkk-oase.de/

https://wellcum.at/en/

Aren't you the over the hill, bitter, troll that has been called out?  Hence, the type of response you would provide is predictable.  

Breathe baby girl.  Go to the light.

Just a shout out to you.  Thanks for your response on me catching feelings.  I read your post from time to time to remind me we don't love these Hoes.  Can't front, that Hoe had me.  Still think about her from to time. Pisses me off I got caught up like that with a Hoe.

Have a great TGiving brother.

Thanks again.